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Age: 55, Height: 5' 04" (163 cm), Weight: 145 lbs (66 kg)

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 USA  >>  California  >>  San Francisco

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Yin seeking Yang. Hey. I guess I should start off with a little about myself. I am a masculine, intellectual yet grounded guy who enjoys learning and trying new things. In fact, I can be a little nerdly, but I do have a fashion sense on which friends have successfully relied. In addition, I am a professional who works south of the City, which means that I sometimes have to work long hours on top of my commute. But I do not let work rule my life, and I do make time to enjoy life because, otherwise, what am I working for. My friends have described me as funny, responsible, confident, loyal, compassionate and generous. I am all of these and more to those I care about and love. I`ve lived in Boston, Honolulu, Philadelphia and Seattle, but San Francisco is the place I call home. I just recently moved back to the Bay Area, so I am looking to meet new friends, but my primary purpose in posting this ad is to meet guys for a potential relationship. That said, I do not have a U-Haul truck waiting out back. I am looking to take it slow, because I firmly believe that friendship is the foundation for a strong romantic relationship. So, if you are just looking for a quick hook-up, I`m not your guy; I`ve had more than my share of one-night stands, and I have never found them fulfilling. How do I spend my free time? I go to the gym about 3-4 times per week...not a gym rat, just wanting to be in shape. Now that the sun has returned, I enjoy being outside...exploring new neighborhoods, lounging at a park (when the temperature permits), or just sitting outdoors at a coffee shop. I would love to explore more of wine country -- trying new vineyards or hiking among the redwoods. I love dance music, disco music, as well as opera (though lately not as much) and different non-U.S. music (e.g., celtic, Indian, middle eastern). I also enjoy movies, particularly action and sci-fi films. What traits or attributes do I find attractive? I am attracted to masculine guys who are secure in their masculinity. Physically, I find shorter, stockier guys more attractive than taller, leaner guys and muscles more attractive than flab...but, in the end, it`s all a matter of chemistry. Emotionally, I am looking for someone who is generous with those he loves, who is spontaneous and fun-loving, who embraces his inner child and who can be a rock on those few days when things get rough. A healthy sex life is also important to me, and I am looking for a guy who enjoys sex as a way to explore each other and each other`s bodies and bring pleasure to both of us. With regard to HIV, I am HIV-negative and looking for the same. I have had two POZ boyfriends in the past, and while I support my POZ brothers, I`d like to keep my romantic life less complicated. Finally, but no less important, I am looking for a guy who effectively communicates his feelings and desires; without good communication, how can we build a life together where we are both truly happy? If you made it this far and you`re still interested, then go ahead and send me a message! We can meet over coffee, keep it chill, and take it from there. I look forward to hearing from you.

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