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Age: 56, Height: 6' 03" (191 cm), Weight: 160 lbs (73 kg)
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USA >> California >> Irvine >> Northern Oc
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I`m a college senior at CSU Long Beach, with 1 semester to go before I finish my BA in psychology. G rad school-es next year.... I get antsy if I don`t get regular exercise in some form, although I am by no means a health freak. It is one of those things where I believe in walking the middle path and listeneing to my body. I love to go camping/hiking, but hardly get the opportunity anymore. Mostly because I don`t have a reliable cohort. I have a pervasive spiritual side, and consider myself a pantheist. I love to talk about world issues and sociology, philosophy, religion, the meaning of life and why we are here in the first place. I analyze everything that passes my attention. I never expect anyone to agree with me, but if you are going to challenge my belief system, you`d better have a better one ready to go. I admire people of courage, meaning that they are in pursuit of who they are without the-pensations we make for others` sakes. Mostly, I just find that there are many moments, pleasant and not, that I would like to be able to turn to another and reflect. Friends say I think too much, but it`s what I do best, and I don`t understand what "too much" is. I`m an exerience junkie. Most important to me in all of my relationships, romantic or not, is that I can find integrity. I am designing my life to be one where it is about more than just getting my piece of the pie, but also making that pie taste better for everyone. Individuals who cannot see that their actions radiate out into the world have no place in my life. Ooh that was harsh and heavy. I DO like to have fun too- In fact I have fun most of the time. I like ice cream, cookies and doughtnuts. Thank God that they don`t get represented as a spare tire! Decadent evenings filling the coffee table with junk food and camping on the couch with friends are a favorite activity. Dishonesty confuses me, and I do not believe in concealing information. People always know where they stand with me, and that either draws them closer or scares them away. I don`t see the point in living otherwise because then you end up with relationships based on something other than truth. a montage of my face at: jps.net/lehai/hughhai/hugh.jpg some original songs in Quicktime at: http://www.jps.net/lehai/hughhai/original%20music/
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