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A man who is currently single and looking for a man
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Age: 61, Height: 5' 09" (175 cm), Weight: 180 lbs (82 kg), Body Type: average, Ethnicity: african / african-american / black
Where I Live:
USA >> Indiana >> Indianapolis >> North Side - By Butler Univ
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STRICTLY A BOTTOM IN BED, NOT Looking to contact good looking people. As the heading to my profile indicates I STRICTLY and TOTALLY A BOTTOM IN BED! I like a guy who likes to be control and call the shots so to speak in bed! I most attracted to men who first and foremost are NOT out with their sexual preference to be with a man in bed and most importantly in a LONG TERM COMMITTED MONOGOMOUS RELATIONSHIP! I LOVE men who have hairy chest, well developed set of pecs, and for the most part like me who want something out of life and realizes that there is more to life than just S-E-X!!!! I LOVE GETTING FUCKED (only get fucked lying on my back, legs spread wide, in the air, and up over a guy's shoulders. I NOT into the typical gay bars, clubs, or scene! In fact, I'm more of a home body. I prefer guys who are my ideally my height or taller, who are Mexican, Greek, Italian, Eastern Indian, or Puerto Rican. Love a guy with an accent whether it is an Aussie Man from Australia or an Italian man who speaks broken english! That does not mean I would automatically rule out your typical Causasian man or a man who does not possess any of these traits. Quick flings are well and good and serve their purpose, all of us have physical needs that we seek to satisfy. But I'm at a point and time in my life where I seek something deeper and definitely stronger than just a one night stand or quick fling! Having said that though I need a man who is willing to devote the time and energy it takes to REALLY get to know someone (me) and who does not let my race stand in their way of being to care HONESTLY and TRUELY care about me. I want a man not afraid to show his affectionate side behind closed doors or in private but in public we can just appear as buddies. I truly feel that American has come a long way when it comes to accepting alternative lifestles (same sex relationships) but we still have a long way to go compared to other countries! I see no advantage at this time of being out for I feel on the surface things may be changing for same sex couples but behind closed doors discrimination still is rampant and goes on the only difference being the discrimination is done covertly instead of overtly or open. The guy I seek is willing to stick things out during the good as well as the bad times every couple (straight or otherwise) experience. I am NOT into overweight guys at all nor do I like nor will I date a SMOKER! Drinking socially is OK but PLEASE NO DRUNKS OR DRUG ADDITICS!!!! I like educated men as well as men who like to and want to travel and see the world. Go places that require a passport as well as places locally (within the U.S. NOT just the state of Ohio where I currently live!). I LOVE New York, Chicago, Atlanta and have never been to these places and would LOVE to meet someone who has been to those places. I'm a HUGE HOWARD STERN FAN! LOVE to laugh despite me having a rather dry sense of humor! I want to learn Spanish or French so a guy who is fluent in one of these languages would be a HUGE PLUS but definitely NOT a requirement! True body builders, jocks, athletic guys definitely would be a HUGE PLUS but again NOT a requirement!!!! Plain simple, I just want a guy who looks and acts likes a man, who aims to PLEASE in the bedroom (both ME and him!!!), MUST be a TOP in bed, and who basically like myself is ready and willing to put a lot on the line for a guy who is again HONESTLY and TRULY wants a LTR! When asked to describe the type of guy you are looking on these websites it so difficult to put into words but I've tried to do it here! I PRAY and hope that there is a man out there for me for they say there's somebody for out there for everyone but I'm starting to think my mate only exist in outer space or only in my mind! SOMEONE PLEASE PROVE ME WRONG!!!!
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