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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 53, Height: 6' 03" (191 cm), Weight: 220 lbs (100 kg), Body Type: a few extra pounds, Ethnicity: white / european

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 USA  >>  Louisiana  >>  New Orleans  >>  Covington

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Looking for an HONEST guy. Single for 6 years now after my partner passed away, and I HATE IT!!! My question is simple, I think anyway. Are there any "Normal" gay men out there that actually still date, I mean guys that aren't practicing alcoholics, Crystal Meth addicts, liars and/or just plain game players? I am a very honest, dedicated and down to Earth single individual. A good portion of my time is spent doing volunteer work as a Peer Counselor. I like going out for coffee, going to the mall, playing volleyball, swimming and hanging out w/ friends. I was born in and lived most of my young adult & teenage life in New Orleans. I lived in both Illinois (Quad Cities area) and Kansas City, Mo. w/ my partner of 11 years. Ok, I'm a very down to Earth and honesty means ALOT to me. Without complete HONESTY, no relationship will ever work out. I have been Hiv+ since: 1990. I am 6' 3'' ,have hazel eyes, light brown hair. I'm a social smoker, but would date a smoker, drink socially. I am a 37 year old New Orleans born and raised cajun boy, now living in Covington. I enjoy most all outdoor stuff. Hiking, camping (w/ the right people), swimming, volleyball, shopping, gardening, walks, sittin on the porch, going to parks and museums, cooking, Tv and movies too as well as family and friends. I am very much a monogamous type guy who knows the value of sharing life with his partner. I was married (in my heart) for 11 years to a man that I loved very much. We were loyal and true to each other. In February 2002 he died from cancer. This was the darkest day of my life, and the pain was beyond words. I have dealt with this, and now am moving on. I know what love is and how much better life is with another by your side to share it with. To sit and watch a good Movie, or go for a swim, or just sit on the porch holding hands listening to nature all around you, or play footsie under the table while you eat dinner...its all good. I know many gay men do not believe two men can truly love each other, but I am here to say they are wrong. I had that once and know it is real, and out there. All it takes is a man whom knows there is more to life than being gay, and having sex with every male he meets. It takes a real man to live in a monogamous relationship, and to keep himself true to the one. Life is a test and many men fail due to their weakness for sexual pleasure. A relationship is work, and it takes two to make it work. You have to be open to each other and love has to be the foundation upon which you build your lives together. Communication, trust, honesty, understanding, caring, give-n-take are all part of it as well as never keep anything from the other. I`m looking for a quality man who is ready to walk trough life with his partner at his side. Facing all that life may throw our way. Just remember, it takes a man to "take a man".

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