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Age: 51, Height: 5' 09" (175 cm), Weight: 150 lbs (68 kg)
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USA >> Illinois >> Chicago >> Edgewater
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Thanks for checking out my profile. I`m 5 years new to the city & have held a few very interesting j obs in trying to get situated along the way. I`ve been in the design industry now for about 3 years with the same parent-pany and just moved up to a new position back in May 2000. I`m one of those rare individuals who is very very happy with his work, though of course I`d like to be making more money. However, I think happiness should-e before wealth if it`s necessary. I don`t run in A-list crowds and don`t try to anymore. I`m very happy with the successes in my life and don`t like being belittled for not having a generous in-e. When that happens, I don`t stick around. I`ve worked very hard to get to where I am. I live alone in a nice vintage apartment with a small view of the lake. Among my serious pasttimes are shooting pool, time with friends, lakefront walks & working on my apartment. Music drives me. I often feel like my life is an over-the-top movie with a kickass soundtrack. I`m a realistic romantic at heart, hoping now to find my soulmate among the masses...but I know that it takes time. I`ve not been a patient person in the past but I have over-e serious crises in my recent past that forced me to develop patience and understanding, which I believe is necessary for a proper courtship. I`m a loyal guy, protective, bright & witty, sincere & outgoing. I sleep like a rock, and I snore and talk when I`m sleeping too. I cuddle and touch, kiss and hold. I love doing laundry and washing dishes by hand. Wild & fragrant flowers are a special treat, as is scotch, good steaks and a nice night out on the town. I don`t do the gay bar scene too often in Chicago, though after four years away from it, I`m letting my friends drag me along...you know, kicking & screaming. :) I prefer to live an urban lifestyle. I would much rather be seen in a small bar in Wicker Park with close friends and interesting people than in the window at Roscoe`s. Most bars don`t hold my interest long enough anyway. I like personal time to myself just as much as evenings out. I`ve learned over the years that the `gay-munity` is very relative and consists of me and my friends. There`s far too much-petition, desperation & animosity for me to think that we`re all supposed to `get along`. I relish having someone`s confidence in me...and I like being known as someone who can be talked to. I`m a man of emotion. I will cry at the right time though I`ve noticed tears don`t-e as easy as they used to. I`m not a big TV watcher. I can cook but don`t usually make the effort. My appearance is pretty basic yet attractive. I`m concerned about things around me...human...full of errors and short-ings like the rest of us, but I tackle them often instead of masking them. I see each new day as an opportunity to learn and teach. So what this all-es down to here...what I want you to get out of this...is that I`m for real. Perhaps you`ll see my optimism and honesty and feel a connection. Sure, I want a goodlooking guy. Sure, I want someone who`s great in bed...but to get to that point, I know there has to be a meeting of the minds on a level that many in this world never get to experience. I deserve that...and so do you. We all deserve to feel that way. :)
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