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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 45, Height: 5' 08" (173 cm), Weight: 200 lbs (91 kg), Ethnicity: white / european

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 USA  >>  California  >>  San Francisco  >>  Union City

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Well I am going to let you know 1st off hand - I am disabled by being legally blind. I CAN NOT trave l alone because of it. So if you want me to relocate to you then you will need to come get me. I am a Down-to-earth, stable (not stabled -LOL), easy-going, independent insightful, masculine, kind of guy. I am playful, educated; assertive (well not with the whips and chains, but maybe cuffs - LOL) man seeking others for friendship and a date would be nice. I welcome opportunities to correspond/and maybe meet others who are optimistically minded, and passionate about BEING. I don't put up with stuff that isn't mine (a guy should walk the talk) and don't have any addictions (well, maybe to guys that have facial/chest hair and big hearts- LOL). Yahoo: dads_lil_pigglet AIM: Tupperwarestud I am: down-to-earth, stable, romantic, passionate, compassionate, loving, sharing, assertive, communicative, understanding, head-strong and educated. I do not believe in placing borders or restrictions on attaining happiness or success in a relationship/career/living environment. I have a variety of interests; the most important being my interest in others and helping to create the conditions upon which people can be successful (I am open to increasing my interests as the opportunity presents). I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it passes me by. I am a man with faults (or areas for future development as I call them), but am also working to become the better man that I want to be for myself and those around me. I am a man who is fairly educated and have been told (and I believe it) quite opinionated, although I like to think of it as strong willed. I believe that it is important to be able to see both sides of any issue (or as many sides as their might be) and to be able to argue for both sides - doing such ensures a greater likelihood of being informed and opens one up for the opportunity for greater growth and development. Here is a list of some of the things that I like : holding hands with a special man (The spaces between your fingers were created so that another's could fill them in.), holding (spooning) all night long, looking across the room and knowing that the man across the room is mine, kissing with my eyes open so that I can see deep into the depth of his soul, making love with the lights on, kissing my partner in a way that I can take in his breath and share with him mine, spending the mornings in bed with my partner connecting, having date night at least once a week with my man. I am sensitive to others and admire those who are sensitive to me. I like compassion motivation. I am mostly a happy person but can sometimes be melancholy and sad. I can cry at sad movies and songs. Still, I can be emotionally forceful and assertive. I am sensitive to the spoken word so I prefer people who are verbally sensitive and tactful. I do not believe in open-relationships, or one partner who demands commitment and the demanding one do not know it applies to them also. I am not out to prove my masculinity by being in control of someone else and expect the same from you. I have the capacity to be inspirational, and the ability to lead merely by my own example. An inborn inner strength and awareness can makes me an excellent teacher, social worker, philosopher, or advisor. No matter what area of work I pursue, I am very aware and sensitive to the highest sense of my environment. My intuition is very strong; in fact, many psychic people and those involved in occult studied me. I have a good mind with keen analytical ability. Because of this I can probably succeed in most lines of work, however, I will do better and be happier outside of the business world. Oddly enough, even here I generally succeed, owing to my often original and unusual approach. Nonetheless, I am more content working with my ideals, rather than dollars and cents. My thinking is long term, and I am able to grasp the far-reaching effects of actions and plans. I am disappointed by the shortsighted views of many of your contemporaries. I am deeply concerned and supportive of art, music, or of beauty in any form. I may be too sensitive and temperamental. I tend to dream a lot and may be more of a dreamer than a doer. Fantasy and reality sometimes become intermingled and I am sometimes very impractical. I tend to want to spread the illumination of your knowledge to others irrespective of their desire or need. My desire in life is personal expression, and generally enjoying life to its fullest. I want to participate in an active social life and enjoy a large circle of friends. I want to be in the limelight, expressing my artistic or intellectual talents. Word skills may be my thing; speaking, writing, acting, singing. In a positive sense, the 3 energy is friendly, outgoing and always very social. I have a decidedly upbeat attitude that is rarely discouraged; a good mental and emotional balance. I give intuitive insight, thus, very high creative and inspirational tendencies. The truly outstanding trait shown by my Soul Urge is that of self-expression, regardless of the field of endeavor. I may at times become too easygoing and too optimistic, tending to scatter forces and accomplish very little. Often, the excessive energy produces non-stop talkers. Everyone has faults, but the soul urge doesn't appreciate having these pointed out. My crave authority and recognition of executive skills. My secret self may have very strong desire to become an entrepreneur. IF YOU ARE GOING TO PLAY GAMES WITH ME - DO NOT RESPOND TO ME. I want a man who is his own person and who is educated (not necessarily from academic institutions), motivated (but heck also can be comfortable just laying around), optimistic, an equal (it is the whole walks beside me, not ahead or behind ) though at some time one may be more of a leader or organizer), smells good when wearing nothing (though cologne can be nice - lol), who laughs well and often, who knows the pull of the moon and the power of the slightest touch, who dances to the slowest of songs. A man should stand up for what is moral and right, respects himself and others (always), would give up his seat on a bus to someone in need and would help those less fortunate than himself. He should be polite, say please/thank-you/excuse-me/bless-you. He is into friendships, the waves of life, Christmas mornings, fireplaces, Jazz, Country, holding hands while driving, bathtubs not quite big enough for two, laying on a blanket or in the back of a pick-up watching the stars, holding on tight in a hug, the sound of rain on a tin roof... Inside the man should exist hope, faith and courage with the ability to be honest. Honesty, integrity, good morals is the person I am seeking to share all of what life has to offer, the good times and the bad. You must have dreams of your own and not along for a free ride. I'm looking for a partner who has already spent time experiencing life on his own and feel's he has sowed his oats. And finally (probably by now you are thinking -well it's about time!, someone who is fairly independent and can be left alone in a room without getting into trouble or feeling outnumbered. If you have chosen to read this far I thank you. If want to know more feel free to ask - doesn't cost you anything . If you might be looking for a great guy for a friend then stop in - you may be surprised at what you find. There are four things in life that you can never get back: The fired arrow, the said word, time spent, and missed opportunities. Make the most out of life. UPDATE: I may be only 30 years old, but I have sown my wild oats. I was in a LTR from 13 til 24. So I know I can be faitful can you be?

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