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Age: 46, Height: 5' 07" (170 cm), Weight: 165 lbs (75 kg), Body Type: fit

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 USA  >>  New York  >>  New York  >>  Queens

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Wow, so where do I begin. It is sooo difficult to truly express oneself in writing. I`m better verba lly. OK, to begin I have quite an interesting life that may sound complicated but has enriched me over the years. I am one of those latino guys whom has denied his sexuality for reasons that are not stereotypical. I even got married to a woman, which of course the relationship ended up divorce. I want the same things when it comes to a life of love, affection, travel, consideration, security. But I want this with a man. For many years, I have denied my inner yearnings. I have had opportunities to meet quality guys, but ended up running away for stupidity. I guess one of the reasons I would run away was that the guys I would previously meet did not have patience with me especially in learning about me and my thoughts which is what I really respect in another man. I have always been attracted to guys since the age of 11. I guess in a way, I have always been afraid of how my parents would feel discovering that I am gay. I had this internal conflict until the present. Just because I am very sensitive to how my parents may think. I guess one of my flaws in general is that I am always trying to please others hoping I get in return some sort of thanks. Which I rarely have! Anyway, all of these experiences have shaped me who I am today and what I want in a man now & forever. I`m not looking to play games. I`m looking to connect at a higher level when it comes to emotional, comprehension, physical, and intellectual. Am I superficial at times? Aren`t we all to a certain degree. We have eyes of course. Nonetheless, the inner-self of a man is what I want. I want a man who has the patience, the tenacity, the intelligence, and the boy in him to always see life to play. Life has its challenges, but it is also too short to only ponder. I want a man who is determined. Enjoys to improve himself and when in a relationship it`s about US. I want a man who wants a life partner not to break-up in a few years because of irreconcilable difference just like straight people do. Relationships take work, so I want a man who is willing to put the effort for life. I want a man who is healthy, disease-free, HIV -. I want a man who enjoys going to the gym as well. What can I say! I go nuts over a man with an adonis-body. Is this superficial of me. Perhaps! But, I know what I like. But don`t forget, the personality needs to go with it. I love a man who is strong and is on top of things. A take charge kind of guy. I love a guy who is cultural. Race and ethnicity is unimportant, but your outlook on life is. I love a guy who can feel sexy about himself. Where we can act like guys to wrestle, play tennis and be a loving & affectionate couple. Am I about PDA (Public Display of Affection). It depends! I prefer a take charge kind of guy so it`s up to you! I love an intelligent guy where we can discuss various topics from soaps & gossip to the latest in the election and global warming. So about me, well I guess I describe certain aspects of my life. Overall, I love to laugh and always keep a very cheerful personality. I love going to the gym and keep fit. Love to read about positive topics. Currently, I`m reading a book called, "The Guru is You" My ethnic background is latino from South America. But I am born and raised in NYC. I love to dance but I`m not into nightclubbing every weekend. I love to cook, mostly latin. But the healthy way. I have naturally tanned skin which can easily darken in the sun. I am 5`7, about 165 lbs. I have short black hair and black eyes. Yes, I have black eyes. I have a naturally intensive gaze and I am quite animated. It`s just how I am. I am healthy, disease-free, and HIV -. I love travelling to almost anywhere. It`s all about learning.

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