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Age: 68, Height: 6' 00" (183 cm), Weight: 220 lbs (100 kg), Ethnicity: white / european

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 USA  >>  California  >>  San Diego  >>  Clairemont

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I am currently single. I am very open minded and non-conformist. I am very health conscious and I li ke to keep active, to try to exercise, and have fun. I am looking for someone similar. My interests are: Karaoke, Baseball (GO Padres!), Bridge, Cards, Games, Camping, Nature Walks, Outdoors, Swimming, Bike Riding, Dancing (Disco,CW,& Square), and MetaPhysics ..... email to: [email protected] Some Info about me and what I like: ** Personality ** A friend who is POLITE. A friend who is ATTENTIVE to me (since I will be very attentive to him). Someone who is CARING. I appreciate INTELLIGENCE, but he doesn`t have to be over educated or constantly having "heavy" discussions. I need someone TALKATIVE (sometimes I can get quiet) It is so important to be a GOOD COMMUNICATOR- be able to work through things- rephrase things (sometimes words come out too quickly or are misunderstood)- have truly good intentions- don`t assume or jump to conclusions- clarify things!!! A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR really helps the friendship progress and develop. I am SOMEWHAT SOCIAL (like to go out to sing some karaoke, do a little dancing, or try some other social activities), but also appreciate special quality times when just being with each other. I like people who don`t "hold back" or "keep things IN" and just as importantly, who are able to help me not to keep things bottled IN. ** Affection and Sex ** I am very comfortable with TOUCHING. I like HUGGING. I like KISSING. I like HOLDING HANDS on some occasions. I like SEXUAL ACTIVITIES and they can range from simple playful handjobs to steamy passionate anal sex. FOREPLAY to sex is very important and I need someone to help me to SLOW DOWN and ENJOY and APPRECIATE the sex- ie, don`t seem too hungry or desperate for it. I would like sex on a VERY REGULAR BASIS- at least 3 time a week ** Status ** Ambition to make a lot of money or to have a high profile and status is not that important to me. However, I can appreciate hard work and effort and financial success as long as it doesn`t interfere with mental health and having fun times. I wish I was more "handy" to be able to fix things around the house or in the yard or have someone show/teach me how to be more handy. However, just knowing what needs to get done or fixed is important enough. I am basically frugal, but I am willing to spend money on quality items (especially quality/reasonable vacations) and I am also now at the point to start spending some more money to start to live my life more comfortably. I am not that neat (ie, I don`t think about dusting or cleaning things). I don`t understand compulsive buyers/spenders. I can shop around and look for a good price. ** Health Conscious ** I strive to be HEALTHY and HAPPY. I strive for GOOD HEALTHY EATING HABITS. It am HIV NEGATIVE and am very aware of sexual safety. I am a NON-SMOKER. If someone does smoke, then I expect a "polite" smoker (ie, smoke outside). I like to go to the GYM. I like to go on WALKS- through the neighborhood, along the beach, in a park, or just out and about. I like to go on HIKES (not too strenuous) or NATURE WALKS- like those held by The San Diego TrailTramps, The Gay Sierra Club, or Great Outdoors. I do not rely on alcohol or drugs to make me feel good or help me escape from something. Occasional recreational use of pot or alcohol is OK, as long as it doesn`t become a dependancy! ** Entertainment and Fun ** I like to sing and I enjoy listening to singing- especially KARAOKE. I play some acoustic guitar. I like to see movies on the big screen as well as just stay in and rent a video to watch on my 52 inch TV screen. I love LIVE THEATER and enjoy doing some acting in a small theater group. I like to DANCE- Disco, Country Western, Square Dancing, Other? Dancing is great exercise and energy. I love to play all kinds of CARD GAMES. I like board/box games and would consider joining a Games Group. I would like to go out JUST FOR A DRIVE. I like AMUSEMENT PARKS and FUN RIDES. I LOVE ANIMALS and often think about having a pet or two. I like the ZOO and Wild Animal Park (I have free passes and I am a Zoological Member). I like to go to Museums- especially on those "free Tuesdays" in Balboa Park. I like Botanical Gardens and Nature Parks. I love to "get away`, enjoy the outdoors, and go CAMPING. I like to go FISHING. I enjoy the BEACH- especially Blacks Beach. I would occasionally like to go out and look at "Open Homes" to get ideas on what can be done for my home. I can PLAN CAREFULLY and save money for SPECIAL VACATIONS (such as a cruise). TRAVEL and VACATIONS are very important to me. ** Sports ** I am fairly "Sports Aware" I am a true BASEBALL fanatic!!! I love to go see live Baseball games. I often watch baseball games on TV. Miniature Golf is fun. I`m, not that good at Frisbee Golf, but it`s a fun outside activity to enjoy. I`m not sure I can play Softball or Bowl anymore (I had back surgery), but I would love to go Root and Cheer and even help Coach- especially Softball I swim 3-4 times a week. Over the last year I started to do some light dirt bike riding. I would also love to go out to watch any sport that a friend would be involved in. I have some Football interest, but mainly during the Playoffs and SuperBowl. ** Spiritual ** I am OPEN MINDED. I try not to be quick to judge. I APPRECIATE DIVERSITY and I am NON-CONFORMIST. I am not into "Organized Religions" per say and I prefer non-denominational church groups. Religions should be OPEN, WARM, LOVING, CARING, POSITIVE, and NON-GUILT oriented. I have interest in METAPHYSICAL, ESP, PSYCHICS, and INTUITION. ** TRUST- Boy, is this a Big Issue ** Being able to TRUST EACH OTHER starts with being able to trust ourselves. This is such a difficult area and is so very important and it takes so much time to develop. Trust goes with UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER- especially WHAT and HOW each other is feeling. We need to be sensitive to each others feelings. I think the key to developing trust is to be RELIABLE, DEPENDABLE, and CONSISTENT IN WHAT WE DO AND SAY. ** I know that I said quite a bit here. I am not expecting one person to be totally like me. Hopefully, find people who think they might enjoy my company. send email to: [email protected]

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