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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 53, Height: 6' 01" (185 cm), Weight: 190 lbs (86 kg), Body Type: average, Ethnicity: white / european

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 USA  >>  California  >>  Los Angeles  >>  North Hollywood

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NY2LA - Just moved to LA from NY I just moved back to LA and am kinda lost without my friends, and the things we used to do together, so I am looking to make some new friends. My Name is Kris, I'm 37 (Tho I dont think look it), White, 6` Weight: 190-195lbs, Dark Brown & Short Spiky Hair, Hazel Eyes, very str8 acting and appearing, and have a little hair on my chest. I have the typical average build, tho its not the LA Swimmers or Gym god bod, I'm not overweight/chubby or fat. I guess the easiest way to describe myself is that that I have a pretty average build and look maybe 29-32. I havent been to the gym in the past 2 years, tho once I get situated here in town, I plan to spend a couple days there a week, get some shape back into me, and drop back down to about 170 and a 34 waist. Right now im a 36, and I cant for the life of me figure out how I got there! Other then that I`m pretty laid back, friendly and out-going, loyal, dependable, responsible. God I sound like my dad. LoL, I guess what Im trying to say is that I'm kewl with just about any atmosphere – be it doing stuff at home with 1 or 2 friends, or going out and doing the dinners, movies, and clubs. I'm easy to please. It's the company that makes me happy! I am in the music/club industry and tend to spend a lot of time in the studio working, and when I'm not there I like to check out what everyones doing online, or sit back and watch CSI or 24. I started smoking about 2-3 months ago, though more occasionally now and should probabaly quit. I drink sociably, and am not afraid to get absolutely totally shit faced plastered, which is fun every now and then. My relationship history is really pretty simple, Im single. Ive had 2 BFriends, my first for 8 yrs and my last for 4 yrs, which ended 2 yrs ago in one of those days of our lives events. He was 26 and enjoyed making me miserable. After that experience, I guess I just havent been focused on another relationship. So for the past 2 and a Half years I have remained single and celibate (other then the occasional help myself program). My first lover who was the world to me, was killed in 2001 by a drunk driver. I mention this because its a part of me I think defines who I am. Lets see, other then that Im versatile and have no expectations, other then like I said - hoping to meet some new friends and get situated here in LA, so I can focus on my career and and then possibly finding another special someone. Im a little discouraged at being 37 now but cant complain. Ive had a great life and spent 8 of the best years with my best friend in the entire world. Dont let my age scare you, I dont think I am anything like others my age, I cant say that I really feel 37, am Im still to much of a kid to act it. Im still a club kid at heart. If I was to define what my TYPE is I guess Id have to say I prefer smooth, and slender, sk8ter/twink type, but hey its not a Must. Besides I don't have preferences for FRIENDSHIPS. OK, About being gay. I am NOT OUT, unless when its ok to be, and even then I dont think people can tell. In a way it just makes me uncomfortable, plus Ive got my career, and unfortunately, I dont need the attention. Even tho I COULD be OUT, its just not my thing, tho I`m not opposed to those who are. I think this is the closest I get to telling people Im gay, which is probably why I dont know that many gay people. I'm very closeted out in public. When I was in a relationship, most people thought we were brothers. Youd be amazed at how well that just seemed to work for us. Lets see, what else. I don`t like to play games, or get caught up in the whole hit the internet for sex thing, tho I think its pretty awesome way to make some new friends, and get to know people first before you find out their into some really off the wall shit, or they owe everybody money. As for Sex Im versatile, experimental, and am Drug/Disease free, safe, and HIV-NEG, (And plan to stay that way). I enjoy cuddling, kissing and exploring new things. Im a hopeless romantic and dedicate my existance to my music, my significant other and my friends. Let me go back and define experimental – it does not include, leather, bondage, piercing, or any of the freaky shit there shouldnt even be a name for it kinda stuff. Believe me, Ive been to Germany, Netherlands, Australia, and some other pretty way out countries that have some pretty off the wall stuff going on there, then again I guess LA has its share of scary shit too. So, there it is. if your interested in possibly a basic friendship, with NSA, maybe someone to get to know and someday hang out with and do the whole dinner, clubs, movies thing, hit me up and we can get to know each other. I'm even kewl with just chatting online, again - NO Expectations. If you got a pic you want to send that would be awesome, Please just make sure its yours, I dont tend to take alot of pictures, they just never seem to make me look like me. PS this one was taken 4/20/08 on my cell phone at Disneyland with my mom, she is my world. The rest are of me doing my thing - Told you I dont take good pics. Peace Out ~~ Kris

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