After you JOIN -- The best way to get the most gay dates is to drive people to your site! How do you do this? Put your link in the most places you can think of.

Your link is easy to remember it is simply: http://www.requestadate.com/"your username here" (replace the "your username here" with the username you signed up with and leave out the quotes).

Here are some great ways to spread your link!

• Put your link on your home pages or other pages you may have at Yahoo, GeoCities, etc.
• Put your link in your chat room profiles.
• How about making a T-shirt with your link on it so when you are walking and true love finds you they can log on to RequestADate.com to find you?
• Be creative and let us know how you have "Spread Your Link!"

People who get the most date requests are those who post a photo!

Shy about posting your photo? You can mark it as "discrete" so that only paid members see your photo and you don't have to worry about some random guy or gal don't the street not on the site seeing your photo.

Write an informative description on your profile that will entice others to write to you.

RequestADate.com prides our site and our members on being clean, upstanding, nice people! Join us! If you happen to not like someone who contacts you at RequestADate.com, politely let them know they are not your type. Remember beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and with 5 billion people on this planet there is definately someone for everyone!

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