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A man who is currently single and looking for a man

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Age: 42, Height: 5' 08" (173 cm), Weight: 155 lbs (70 kg), Body Type: a few extra pounds, Ethnicity: east asian / pacific island

Where I Live:

 CHINA  >>  Shandong  >>  Jinan  >>  Western Jinan

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Connect u,a sincere gay man in shandong About me I am a conservative gay man in China looking to meet honest and earnest guys for companionship and solid connections. I, thoughtful for the OTHERS, value guys who are stable, with an appreciation of friendship and a willingness to go deeper(open to any type of relationship, of course). I am ethnically chinese with a master degree on British and American literatureI, speaking manderin with a Shandong accent and able to converse in English, read basic Japanese and speak a little Cantonese. I'm upset with the day-to-day repeated life routine, really need some friends for a change! Thanks to the traditional Chinese values that i am brought up with, I am highly disciplined and responsible, quiet-natured but not averse to fun/humor . Unlike so many other pleasure-seeking gay guys, I wanna bring you a shelter with stability, ease, and comfort(not sure whether or not I can truly bring real happiness though). I know love involves intimacy, lust, longing, compatibility, etc; but to me, the essential element ,to me, is devotion and compromise. Truly, I want to be emotionally CONNECTed with any of those who are good-natured.Let us begin as friends, and share humor and silliness together! ---------------------------- About my match/friend I don't want those obsessed with looks and only into guys with sex symbol (hate the intensely visual gay culture). Basing any relationship on romance& sex is doomed, but this does not preclude very meaningful and deep physical intimacy within a caring relationship. And I am willing to be friends with anybody friendly. If you wanna learn more about Chinese culture or travel here, contact me via email, skype, cell phone. By the way, do you wanna improve Chinese proficiency? If you are by my side, i really wanna help you with that plus as fringe benefits:) But I know deeming the person as a friend and not expecting a relationship so soon is a good start before something real comes up. (I am sounding kind of desperate as I am aging, now 27, never truly loved but deceived before) email : [email protected] skype: search kevin chiyo leung, you'll find me. cell phone: 13165101921(no sms, calling directly). ---------------------------------- Wish you could treat me in a friendly, tolerant, and caring manner. Take hold of my hand:) How I wish there would be someone holding me in his arms all night long and tell me everything was gonna be ok that reassurance alone can be sexy. Plus, kind attitudes, nice manners, friendly & caring cuddling/fondling------all way too sexy!!

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