KIRK_KEETER is a:
gay man located in Dallas, Lakewood - White Texas (TX) USA.

Status:
Currently single and looking for dating with a man.

Appearance:
Age: 32 , Height: 5'11" , Weight: 209lbs 95kg

Location:
gay Lakewood - White Dallas, Texas (TX) USA

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........... WHAT I VALUE ABOUT MYSELF...........First and foremost, I consider myself a good guy and ........... WHAT I VALUE ABOUT MYSELF...........First and foremost, I consider myself a good guy and think that is my best character trait. Beyond that, I'm a good friend, have a great sense of humor, am extremely intelligent, and am very loyal to the people in my life. ...........MAKING A LIVING...........I work for myself in the-puter field. Really like it alot. I enjoy being a good boss-- and providing people a great place to-e to work to. I enjoy making a good living, and it's more than just a means to an end. Work can be fun, it doesn't have to be hard. However, the best part of work is what the fruits of your labor allow for-- traveling, helping family, and enjoying a good life. ...........FAMILY...........I'm lucky enough to have a wonderful family and it's a real blessing in my life. I grew up with my mother's extended family, and later in life have gotten to know the large extended family on my fathers side. I feel really lucky to be accepted (as a gay guy) to the degree to which I am. It's an unbelievable feeling to know that the people who you love the most love you back, despite your differences. I try to be a positive influence at all times in my family so that it stays a great place for everyone. ...........EDUCATION...........I grew up in rural Oklahoma, and I received the quality of education that most poor-munities get-- which is to say, pretty sad. I had a few really great teachers here and there that made a great difference in my life. Where I feel I really blossomed was in College. Went to OSU (1 year) and Trinity University (4 years) were I received a first class Liberal Arts education. Until I began receiving1, I had no idea what that meant. If you don't, look into it as a concept-- it's probably the biggest educational breakthrough that American education ever made. ...........CONTINUING EDUCATION...........I'm a voracious reader. Hard to speak in terms of averages-- because I10d to read in bursts-- but I average about 1 book a week. The topics range all over the place fiction, scifi, anthologies, essays, non-fiction, etc. As well, I'm a freak for the Discovery Channel, History Channel, A&E, and all of the other educational channels. I also have to ongoingly read technical books for my job. ...........DATING...........Recently ended a1-year relationship with a really great guy. In fact, he was great. It ended because he wasn't out of the closet and couldn't ever foresee a time that he ever would. That killed me. Because I thought if you love someone, you put them before everyone else. Unfortunately, not everyone thinks alike on that1, and it eventually became a fundamental in-patibility. I wish him the very best in life, and he will remain1 of my best friends, but I had to move on. Am looking for someone who I can introduce to my family and who wants to build a life together. I'm 100% monogamous-- not for moral reasons-- because that's what works. I'm really serious about that. I don't think you should characterize in terms of right and wrong (this is not a moral relativist argument, by the way) but you should think about it in terms of what works... be rigorously pragmatic about it. ...........MY TYPE...........Physically, I don't really have a hard and fast type, but I10d to like bigger guys. You don't need to be a supermodel. In fact, if you're too good looking, I probably won't be interested. I like effortlessly normal guys who are decent looking and cool. You must be out. I will not do that again. I enjoy doing outdoor things, and a variety of sports and exercise. Like doing them with the person I'm dating so we can have that together. ...........KIDS...........I want kids. Have several lesbian friends who want to have a family with me (and a partner). You can have kids already, or you can want them with me, but I'm not going to get with someone who's not accepting of my intentions to be a dad. Where I'm-ing from is that kids make life incredibly fulfilling. As a parent, it's most people's experience of living for another. Having your focus on others gives you a different experience of life. I love kids and can't wait to love my own crazily. ...........SEX...........I like it alot. I think you can have great sex with absolutely anyone. It just takes-munication about what is working and a-mitment to helping everyone get what they need. Safe sex is the only way to go, but once your in a monogamous relationship, let's do it anyway we want. ...........HIV...........I'm negative. I came out as a result of volunteering for AIDS charities and for the rights of people living with AIDS. I feel like I owe much of my happiness as a gay man to the courage I have experienced from the-munity of people living with AIDS. However, I won't date someone who is HIV positive. I want to have kids together with my partner (some mine, some his), and none of my potential moms (who are friends) are willing to take a risk with someone who is positive. As well, I don't want to plan to contemplate losing someone before we're both very old. The advances in medicine for people living with HIV are incredible, and I have to believe that science will keep its lead, but the concerns involved just don't work for me in an intimate relationship. I know that death can visit any of us in the next instant, but I don't want to think about losing my loved1 too soon. I apologize if this hurts anyones feelings, but it's what works for me. ...........MEETING YOU...........I'm going to take it really slow. I think it works better to talk on the phone for quite a while (weeks or months) before I meet someone. I absolutely will not have sex with you till I know you really well, and am most likely starting to develop feelings for you. That's just what works for me, so that's what I'm sticking with. I like going on dates to the putt-putt golf course, volunteering together, going around White Rock Lake, or going to movies (love em). I don't need to go to gay bars, in fact, going there with a date makes me un-fortable. I also would want to take you around my friends, because they're like my second family and you'll need to feel-fortable with them. ...........LANDMARK FORUM...........I took this weekend course from LANDMARK EDUCATION at the advice of1 of the most level-headed, together people I've ever known, and it absolutely knocked my socks off. The Landmark Forum is a weekend long inquiry into what it means to be human, and what that means to your life. It's the most amazing course offered in the world (as far as I know). All of the top 5 couples I've ever been around (in terms of how well their relationships functioned) have been people who did it together. It's just an amazing experience, and anyone who's done it immediately jumps to the top of my list of potential candidates. Simply because the wisdom you get from that education makes so much more possible in a relationship and I want a great relationship. ...........That's it for now. Might add more later if it-es up. Ask me any questions you have. ...........Take care, Kirk

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