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I`m looking for someone monogamous, honest, loving I`m looking for someone monogamous, honest, loving and trustworthy. I believe I possess these qualities and need the same out of a partner. If you are still in the closet please move along. I`m not interested in dating anyone who still has problems being gay. I avoid drama as much as possible. I need someone who wants intimacy as much as sex. I like an equal balance. I also would like them to be totally out. This doesn`t mean you have to march in a pride parade every weekend but simply want to live your life like any other couple not hiding or being ashamed of our relationship. You also must be an animal lover. I have several pets and take my responsibility to them seriously. It would also be nice if you love Colorado and the mountains. That is the main reason I moved to the Denver area. For years I lived in Florida on the Gulf and never had an interest for the area. After vacationing here a few times I knew right away that I needed to be close to the mountains. I like getting in my Wrangler and driving the back roads in the mountains finding new and interesting places. Most of all I`m looking for someone who treats me well and treats others the same. It has taken me many years to figure out what I am and what I want.  I`ve tried conforming to other peoples view of what I should be and that has not made me happy.  I will say that I`m pretty sensitive at times.  I`m trying to learn to not wear my heart on my sleeve as it gets hurt quite often that way.  In the past I have been pretty naive I guess, but am trying to wake up and not be so blindly trusting.  I know that sounds bad, but my blind trust of people has not really paid off in the past so I`m trying to be a little more cautious. Well, I`m kind of old fashioned about relationships.  I like to be wooed (is that a word?) a little.  I don`t sleep with someone on the first date.  I like romantic stuff. I always envisioned myself being a stay at home dad with a couple of children.  Problem is I never have met anyone else that felt that way so now I`m nearly 40 and that thought has passed.  I still, however, feel that I`m more of a nurturing type of person and therefore often take that role in a relationship.  The problem with that is that most of the people I have dated have taken advantage of that.  While I do a lot for others and want to please people I have needs myself.  It seems not many people these days know how to treat others, not even their partner. I like a guy that is different from me.  By that I mean I like having someone that fills the gaps in my personality.  Sure, you have to have some basic beliefs that are the same, but I don`t want an identical copy of myself. I could not live with someone like me, haha.  I need someone who can be strong, but caring.  Someone who can take charge when needed, but still respects my opinion and cares what I think.  Someone smart and passionate.  A persons personality can make them or break them for me regardless of looks. I`m not into group sex, open relationships or anything like that. I`m shy at first, but warm up quickly. Please contact me if you are interested.
Age: 39 | seeks gay dating in Erie, Boulder, Colorado (CO) USA