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trailhead

1.
Ranch-raised professional Healthy (HIV neg 9/09), sane, and fit guy in search of other denim & leather outdoorsmen for weekend adventure & safe fun.
Age: 54 | seeks gay dating in Columbia, South Carolina (SC) USA

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mustang54

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Easy going, I think low maintanance. By that I mea Enjoy biking, walking, running at times, drawing, painting, house projects, cooking, movies, arts. Wear glasses and sport a thick goatee ( salt and pepper ). Hairy back , chest and legs .Weight between 200 and 210 lbs. rearly over but ideally will like it to be 190. I’m not a ’’T’’ and I’m not a ’’B’’, enjoy men what ever happens , happens as long as is safe sex. But I know what I want and my partner should too. I a serious male who enjoys a good laugh and most of the times I’m in a good mood . HIV poz over10 yeas but thanks to the cocktail never been in trouble with my health, HIV is a condition I have adjusted to live with and therefor does not rule my life or who I am.
Age: 55 | seeks gay dating in Bronx, New York City, New York (NY) USA

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treylicious

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Aloha guys....Just looking to chill with some hot guys hit me up lets chat get to know each other an Aloha guys....Just looking to chill with some hot guys hit me up lets chat get to know each other and go from there u never know? Thanks for stopping by be safe! Wine Me, Dine Me, 69 Me! XO
Age: 30 | seeks gay dating in Kauai - Oahu, Honolulu, Hawaii (HI) USA

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chestrug

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Im an ordinary hard working guy who loves hairy chests Black Hair, Hairy Body, Mustache, love th Im an ordinary hard working guy who loves hairy chests Black Hair, Hairy Body, Mustache, love the same on others NOT interested in anonymous sex - couples - [email] - or quick bj’s. DO NOT MAIL ME for any of these things. LIARS STAY AWAY - I am not pretty when I find you out ! love animals, horses, dining, driving I dress Casual, Im Out Dont Smoke and dont expect you to either, Never do Drugs and neither will you. Im a Top, 8 vncvt safe Sex Only, HIV Negative,
Age: 45 | seeks gay dating in Plains, Denver, Colorado (CO) USA

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lvguy89104

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Down-to-earth guy open to romance and dating possi I consider myself to be honest, upfront, easy going, good manners, witty, serious and stubborn at times, and funny. I10d to be old-fashioned when it comes romance. I like the romance of dating and getting to know each other. I enjoy sweeping my guy off his feet and make him feel special. I still believe in the romantic ideal of love and that romance and love are still possible. I realize that a strong base of friendship is the building block for a lasting relationship. I value respect, kindness, politeness and consideration of others. I respect a person for who they are...not for economic stature, not for material things, not for their profession... but just for who they are. I`m a simple person, enjoy simple things in life, enjoy the usual things as shopping, movies, going out to dinner, making a special dinner for occasions and friends, and enjoying life. I`m basically a homebody type of person. I love animals and have2 dogs that I adopted from the animal shelter who has adapted very well to their new home. They has become my best friend and companions. I`m at an age where I am very comfortable with myself. I feel that my life is getting better as I`m getting older. Age is just a number. It`s how you think and feel that matters the most. I`m aware that we all have our own short comings, as I do also, and am continuing to work on them. I am beginning to become self-aware about the challenges in my own life and maybe these gradual shifts to my awareness comes with age. The simple and stubble things in life are what seems to be satisfying and stirring my curiosity the most. A relationship to me must be comforting...warm, sharing1self with the good and bad times, being there for1 another, having your own space, being safe, secure, nonjudgemental, and nondemanding. Just be yourself. I am looking for a man who is comfortable with himself fully, even if it requires himself to be discreet. Someone who identifies as gay but doesn`t necessary need to be out as some of us cannot be because of our family or profession. I enjoy a man who is passionate, caring, thoughtful, and especially honest as I am. He doesn`t have to be perfect, as I am not, but has to try to be the best that he can be.
Age: 60 | seeks gay dating in Las Vegas, Nevada (NV) USA

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tomshank

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Cowboy Up Lookin` fer Masc in-shape men who enjoy safe play in tall Boots, tight jeans and gear. i have the gear and you can bunk with me.
Age: 49 | seeks gay dating in Jacksonville, Florida (FL) USA

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milton456

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Still a Virgin! I AM LOOKING FOR A MASCULINE MAN WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF ME IN AND OUT OF BED. I LOVE ROLE PLAYING, HANGING OUT [email] I ALWAYS PLAY safe.
Age: 41 | seeks gay dating in Boston, Massachusetts (MA) USA

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trent321

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Sincere, warm, fun, intelligent, serious, confiden I guess I talk a lot here mostly about how I feel and think about marriage (to a guy, I hope) and things related to that, but I think you see a lot about me as a friend by what I say, too, and I do enjoy chatting with different people of all types, even if it is only friends -- though as you can see, I will be very happy to find more with the right person! Ako ay pag-aaral ng kaalaman tungkol sa filipino kultura at maraming mga bagay-bagay na ginawa ng isang malalim na impression sa akin at gulat ako bilang tunay sumasamo, at ang pahinga, mabuti at masama, ay napaka-interesante sa akin. Marami sa mga tao doon, hindi lahat ng course, ay masyadong mainit-init, masayahin at walang awa sa sarili sa adversity, at higit sa lahat, nagpapahayag at masigasig - tulad ko na. Subalit kung saan ko mahahanap ang tamang tao, na may mga katangian o sa iba discover ko, ang kanilang lahi o nasyonalidad ay hindi mahalaga. Ako ay hindi nagsasalita ng tagalog, ingles lamang, sa gayon ito ay computer-isinalin (ginamit ko ang online na kasangkapan sa http://translation.imtranslator.net/translate/default.asp )..... Umaasa ako na ito ay hindi sabihin ang anumang bagay na kasuklam-suklam o nakakahiya sa pamamagitan ng aksidente, hehe! I apologize if it is hard to read....it is hard to find how to express everything in the simpest clearest way....but I hope you can notice the important things -- I enjoy talking to new people, so send me a message or let me know you’re interested to know more about me -- I think my membership allows anyone to send me a message, but I’m not totally sure of that. I would like to meet new friends, and eventually I would like to find someone special for marriage. The best relationship for me is where both people are different but equal -- equal in respect, understanding, honesty, reliability, comfort with everything about the other person, curiosity about each other, care and consideration, initiative with each other etc. In general, it should add up to equal, but each person can be very different from the other. I really enjoy jolly people with an affectionate playful sense of humor who are engaging and just feel good to be with. People who are honest, warm, genuine, a mischievous sense of humor (or enjoy that in another!), curious about life, enjoy life, intelligent, earnest, so many other things I enjoy. I am very curious person, honest, interested in many things, science, politics, human nature, I love to read books about engineering and the story of how things were invented or challenges were overcome, and I want to have a deep trust and comfort with a person where I can be open and feel deeply and they can too. I love music and play the piano, compose songs sometimes, enjoy outdoor explorations, making things, many other things. And ideal of mine is that we each will also share our own weaknesses with the other, and get to know, and care for the other’s weaknesses, too, accepting those vulnerabilities and weaknesses in a safe haven, while also supporting each other however we can so those weaknesses do not hold back each other individually, or hold us back as partners in life. I think I would like someone who thinks of adopting children, or who is open to the idea of helping young people in need get a better start in life if and when we as a married couple are so fortunate to have the time or resources to be able to do that. I have been single for 4 years, after I broke up with my previous boyfriend after we had been together for about 6 years. I have learned a lot about myself and about life and about other people in my years, including during my last relationship and in the 4 years since, and I feel very secure in my priorities and very much ready to know the right person if I find him, and I’m very serious about finding somebody for marriage for life this time. : ) If I don’t find someone where we both will be very good for each other and bring out the best possibilities in each other and be very happy together, I will remain alone. : ( I would of course do whatever it takes to relocate to another country, or work equally with my partner to help him relocate (to1 of our original countries, or a third country) so we can be together -- if I’m fortunate enough to find my partner for life and he is in another part of the world. I acknowledge that age and looks also both affect my attraction to and response to a person, I think this is true to some degree for most people, just some more or less than others --- for me, I relate sometimes to a younger age I think partly because I feel a sense of adventure, and most of all, new discovery, and a new beginning at this time of my life, and I am an idealistic, passionate, exploring and exuberant person by nature, and relate to that sense of those things in some young people even though those things were buried and lost from me for way too much of my adult life (I can tell you more about that when we chat or talk if you want), and maybe also because I missed so much of life in my younger years and now I’m finally ready to go, hehe --- anyway, I accept that about myself (yet a kind of solidness and maturity, like a person with an old soul which has known much of life beyond his years, is also very very beautiful to my own soul and to my admiration of a person). But this is something that varies according to the person....for example here in the U.S., I don’t relate in an intimate way to most of the much younger people that much, perhaps people here mature much older in life, not until their 30s, and maybe are not as open-hearted and idealistic either (I know that’s a horrible generalization, everybody is a unique individual, even in the USA, but still I notice this)....but sometimes I feel more of a real connection to some younger people in other cultures, though there are also things I don’t understand yet and I don’t know what to feel or think about them. One more thing about the age thing -- I’ve given a lot of thought to it, and here’s my feeling about1 aspect of it -- I think it’s possible and sometimes good if there is a big age gap, but when it comes to marriage both people have to think very honestly and realistically about the future and look into their hearts, especially the younger1. I will try to stay healthy and energetic and vital and attractive until I am at least 120, but if I fail, the younger1 will the1 who is frustrated, or won’t be able to enjoy his full capacities for joyful interactions, or who may be robbed of a strong shoulder to lean on and nurture him, or who may be burdened or have worries or sadness about his spouses failing health or fading light, or who may be left alone. What might seem good for now with a big age gap may look very different to the younger1 in 25 or 30 years, or less. It doesn’t mean it’s impossible or that it can’t be wonderful if the2 people are very special to each other, but it’s something to think about....in this instance, honest soul-searching and serious thought is important -- about this issue, youthful abandon is not the way to go! But anyway, I will give up some of both of those things for other things, things that bring joy and meaning and feeling when you get to know someone closely, for what is really good and will make the most difference over a lifetime . . . when I see those strong and deep qualities of character in a person and lovely personality, I just love being in the presence of those things, interacting and sharing with them ..... I feel an equality, a trust in their appreciation of life, a joy. . . and 20 extra years or beady eyes and a big nose and ears and slightly snaggly teeth become endearing to me, hehe . . . they become my new type. . . can you understand that? In romance I am nurturing and affectionate, playful, emotionally open and intimate, confident, sometimes rambunctious, very passionate when we share something intensely in a full way for both people, and I am versatile, but I am more towards being a top with most people I’m attracted to. Oh, also I don’t want a marriage that is isolated or cut off from the rest of the world, or from friends and family . . . in other words, I like to be ourselves wherever we go, just be open and free and friendly with all the people in our society, and live a normal social and family life, not hide away by ourselves all the time (only sometimes, hehe). And I think the most important thing of all for both people is that they are can rely on each other, to be honest, sincere, reliable, thoughtful and caring to the other as you would like him to be to you.
Age: 46 | seeks gay dating in Hilltop, Seattle Tacoma, Washington (WA) USA

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firefighter0205

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trustworthy,healthy,funny ,masculline, Good-Hearted,house-broke, honest,coy,trustworthy,adventurous,rugged & ex-military ,masculine,sturdy type.Active and agressive while being understanding and compasionate to all. Having a military & public safety background has left me with a great since of humor. I am a avid sportsman, I hunt, fish and have camper to pull. I enjoy cold beer and watching LSU football, riding and caring for God`s animals [except snakes, Draw the line there], mudding it up, waking up to a rainey day inside a10t, country music, making folks laugh, & I love Jimmy Buffet music. We occasionally go out in Houston to the BRB and kick it up. We are looking for other singles or couples who enjoy doing above acitivities as described. Got any ideas ?
Age: 44 | seeks gay dating in Lafayette, Rural Area, Louisiana (LA) USA

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nelou

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Large Boston Bear/Chub single 59yr old chub/bear. straight acting,italian,beard/moustach,discret and safe.Nice laid back guy looking for friendship and being intimate.It`s impotant for me to meet a guy who cares what is inside a person.
Age: 59 | seeks gay dating in Boston, Massachusetts (MA) USA

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krystallane

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black transexual- b0tt0m looking for fun Looking to contact good looking people.I am originally from new orleans and been here for a few months. i basically into my own enthic origin. i am drug,drama, and diease free. i believe in safe-sex
Age: 34 | seeks gay dating in Sw-beechnut - Sharptown, Houston, Texas (TX) USA

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bigguy4u

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Lonely big cowboy! Very easy going, love the oudoors, all types of fishing,farming,ranching, enjoy quiet evenings with the right person. I am a trusting ,loyal, loving person I am 50/6`2"/3x/Br./Br.curley hair. Who is not into lies and head games, and don`t respect people that are..Also a very private and discreet person.. Love to give [email] etc. get in touch for fun....Also looking for a life partner to travel with me in my motorhome, also have a tow vehicle(share Exspense)travel US in summer and go to Arizona in the winter.If you think your the1 contact me here.Also have a private and discreet(host)place to go to.Standard members can contact me!I will write you back ASAP, just wink or email me! I don`t care what your political views are on Iraq, but we should still back our military, there is a lot of good men and women there serving their country.God bless you all! And come home safe
Age: 55 | seeks gay dating in Tx, Dallas, Texas (TX) USA

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leatherjon

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I’m looking for fellow leather guys. Looking for leather sex and getting off with another in a safe environment. Also looking for friends into leather.
Age: 40 | seeks gay dating in Pasadena Area, Los Angeles, California (CA) USA

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dustyrubbers

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Just a Layed back guy from the Country..Looking for Men 45+ for safe fun Just a Layed back guy from the Country..Looking for Slim Men 45+ for safe fun .Into all kinds of music the outdoors and Learning new things..
Age: 44 | seeks gay dating in South East, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma (OK) USA

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sky13

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This is my brief intro. What to say?? I’m looking to meet or rather would like to meet a guy that I’d be physically attracted to. I10d to get guys that have ed zachary disease. Not that there’s not someone out there for them, I’m just not that someone. Some guys should ask themself, Would I date me?. I’m picky and to be honest have absolutely no right to be. I’m told I’m attractive, but that’s from friends who care about me. I don’t see it. Would I date myself? I don’t know. The guy I’d like to meet has to have some sort of morals. Not just convenience morals. I don’t play well with others and only share my ice cream, my love and my life. NOT my men. I honestly don’t date well either. I’d prefer to have coffee and sit at the local Starbucks than to go to some fancy restaurant. Hell, take me to Mickey D’s and I’m happy. I don’t stand on pretense and don’t stand for pretentiousness. I’m guess’in you’ve read this far just to find out the good and bad. Well here it is. I am HIV and have been for more than half my life. (24 years) I know who gave it to me and why. (he was a coward) That’s a long story, just suffice to say it wasn’t from sleeping around unprotected. I do practice safer sex since. I’m also Hep B and there are other ways of getting it, but we’re not sure how I did. I would prefer the man I date/encounter also be HIV . Sexually, I am a top. (no BBing) Nothing wrong with bottoming, just not my preferred method of sexual contact. I’m [email] and like dirty talk. My size is average and I’m pierced with a 00 Prince Albert. I have tattoo’s and nostril and nipple piercing as well. I’m bald and happy that I don’t have to spend my time fluffing my hair or spending $30.00 a month extra on hair care products.
Age: 46 | seeks gay dating in Northwest, Houston, Texas (TX) USA

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scott43082

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I love the outdoors, hiking, adventuring, off roding pretty much anything outdoors. I also enjoy goi I love the outdoors, hiking, adventuring, off roding pretty much anything outdoors. I also enjoy going to shows, concerts, and dining out, so in general i could safely say my interests cover a broad spectrum of arias. I’m looking for someone who is as flexible as i in there interests and enjoys the simple yet beautiful things in life such as a sunset or walk in the woods if you catch my drift.
Age: 27 | seeks gay dating in Medford, Oregon (OR) USA

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benrod6969

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Big Guy looking for HOT TOP CHASERS Big Guy who if large and in charge looking for HOT TOP CHASERS. I am 40 years old with hazel/blue eyes and brown/gray number 1 shaved. I am very hairy with a nice large belly and 48DD tits and real thick long legs for 327 pounds. I am a b0tt0m I am drug and disease free and HIV- as of 10/2009 and only play safe. My nickname is the Hoover you know what that means. I have my shit together so no drama.
Age: 40 | seeks gay dating in Tampa, Tampa St Petersburg, Florida (FL) USA

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whereruman

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Looking to meet new friends Want to meet MEN for friendship, hope to meet my Life Time Partner. I am a very masculine MAN who likes the same in his friends and partner. I LOVE BEING A MAN. Love life. I know there are many MEN out there who share my ideas and thoughts. We do not have to have all the same interests. When I say: “Looking to meet new friends”, this means I WILL BE YOUR FRIEND. Some use this strategy to get a chance at a sexual encounter, and, have no interest in becoming friends. That is BS. I, as many MEN want to find my life long partner, and, through my search I intend to find many GOOD FRIENDS along the way. I can be friends with any/most MEN as long as they are good, honest, friendly, responsible, clean, masculine, and, are MEN. There are many traits I just cannot deal with, but, don`t judge people for them, I just cannot handle some of the more effiminate acting guys. I am by no means perfect..., but, when I say I will be a friend, then I mean it. If you are not interested in me other than being a friend then I will be the best friend I can be too you. If I am not interested in you except for being a friend then please, by all means, respect that, don`t hate me because I am not interested in you sexually. We all have our tastes. Don`t take it personally or negatively. We are not all cut out for each other. Hey guys, lets not make what the women say about us MEN a fact. We are not all pigs, self-centered, non-caring and sexually uncontrolable. I have a very high sex drive, but, I can control it. I find many men out here very sexy, hot etc... however, it hurts when they drop you as a friend if they cannot have you sexually. I like to workout, live a life that will keep me young and healthy. Love anything to do with the outdoors. So guys, hit me up & lets add some fun, excitement, happiness and then some to our lives. I am loving & love to be loved. I love people. Help me out here men. Take care & everyone have a safe & good time. Love, peace & good will to everyone. I’m for real. PLEASE DO NOT CONSIDER YOURSELF BELOW ME, AND, PLEASE DON`T THINK YOU WILL BE TURNED DOWN BY ME BECAUSE YOUR NOT GOOD ENOUGH OR GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH. BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER... DON`T CUT YOURSELF SHORT AND DON`T CUT MY CHANCES OF MEETING A SPECIAL MAN BECAUSE YOU DON`T FEEL WORTHY. DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY ME. I AM A MAN, WITH A HEART. NOTHING LIKE HUMAN TOUCH, LOVE, LANGUAGE. I NEED TO BE LOVED AND NEED TO LOVE. LOVE TO HOLD, KISS, SNUGGLE, MASSAGE, NAP, MOVIES, COOK, CAMP, FISH, WATCH SUNSET/SUNRISE FROM HHILLTOPS IN WOODS OR ON BEACHES. LOVE TO GO FISHING BEFORE SUNRISE AND WATCH SUNRISE FROM BOAT OR TOP OF SNOW/ICE COVERED MOUNTAIN... WANT TO DO THIS WITH MY MAN, HOLDING ON TO EACH OTHER AND SHARING LIFE TOGETHER.... LOVE TO FIT/SPOON AND WANT TO WANT YOU. LOVE TO LOVE YOU... I NEED IT... I`M A MAN, HUMAN.... YOU`VE GOT TO BE HIM OR KNOW SOMEONE WHO MAY WANT THIS. PLEASE DO US ALL A FAVOR AND LETS HELP EACH OTHER GUYS. LIFE IS WAY TOO SHORT.
Age: 44 | seeks gay dating in Oxford, All, Alabama (AL) USA

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bigmasculineguy

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looking for cool, safe and masculine guys wanting to have fun. looking for cool, safe and masculine guys wanting to have fun.
Age: 38 | seeks gay dating in Ledyard, All, Connecticut (CT) USA

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obesegemini48

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Sexy Fat Bear looking for some Man Honey Big, hairy masculine guy searching for average/fit/athletic chasers’ for No Strings Attached Fun and if love comes..great...but having fun for now. Versatile, single..HIV negative as of 7/13/09. I play safe but do like to suck, fvck b0tt0m rim, [email] toys, porn, and role play..no drugs or pnp cvm get you some!!!! You know you want it!
Age: 48 | seeks gay dating in Pinellas Park, Tampa St Petersburg, Florida (FL) USA

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