1.
Sincere, warm, fun, intelligent, serious, confiden I guess I talk a lot here mostly about how I feel and think about marriage (to a guy, I hope) and things related to that, but I think you see a lot about me as a friend by what I say, too, and I do enjoy chatting with different people of all types, even if it is only friends -- though as you can see, I will be very happy to find more with the right person!
Ako ay pag-aaral ng kaalaman tungkol sa filipino kultura at maraming mga bagay-bagay na ginawa ng isang malalim na impression sa akin at gulat ako bilang tunay sumasamo, at ang pahinga, mabuti at masama, ay napaka-interesante sa akin. Marami sa mga tao doon, hindi lahat ng course, ay masyadong mainit-init, masayahin at walang awa sa sarili sa adversity, at higit sa lahat, nagpapahayag at masigasig - tulad ko na. Subalit kung saan ko mahahanap ang tamang tao, na may mga katangian o sa iba discover ko, ang kanilang lahi o nasyonalidad ay hindi mahalaga. Ako ay hindi nagsasalita ng tagalog, ingles lamang, sa gayon ito ay computer-isinalin (ginamit ko ang online na kasangkapan sa http://translation.imtranslator.net/translate/default.asp )..... Umaasa ako na ito ay hindi sabihin ang anumang bagay na kasuklam-suklam o nakakahiya sa pamamagitan ng aksidente, hehe!
I apologize if it is hard to read....it is hard to find how to express everything in the simpest clearest way....but I hope you can notice the important things --
I enjoy talking to new people, so send me a message or let me know you’re interested to know more about me -- I think my membership allows anyone to send me a message, but I’m not totally sure of that. I would like to meet new friends, and eventually I would like to find someone special for marriage. The best relationship for me is where both people are different but equal -- equal in respect, understanding, honesty, reliability, comfort with everything about the other person, curiosity about each other, care and consideration, initiative with each other etc. In general, it should add up to equal, but each person can be very different from the other.
I really enjoy jolly people with an affectionate playful sense of humor who are engaging and just feel good to be with. People who are honest, warm, genuine, a mischievous sense of humor (or enjoy that in another!), curious about life, enjoy life, intelligent, earnest, so many other things I enjoy. I am very curious person, honest, interested in many things, science, politics, human nature, I love to read books about engineering and the story of how things were invented or challenges were overcome, and I want to have a deep trust and comfort with a person where I can be open and feel deeply and they can too. I love music and play the piano, compose songs sometimes, enjoy outdoor explorations, making things, many other things.
And ideal of mine is that we each will also share our own weaknesses with the other, and get to know, and care for the other’s weaknesses, too, accepting those vulnerabilities and weaknesses in a safe haven, while also supporting each other however we can so those weaknesses do not hold back each other individually, or hold us back as partners in life.
I think I would like someone who thinks of adopting children, or who is open to the idea of helping young people in need get a better start in life if and when we as a married couple are so fortunate to have the time or resources to be able to do that.
I have been single for 4 years, after I broke up with my previous boyfriend after we had been together for about 6 years. I have learned a lot about myself and about life and about other people in my years, including during my last relationship and in the 4 years since, and I feel very secure in my priorities and very much ready to know the right person if I find him, and I’m very serious about finding somebody for marriage for life this time. : ) If I don’t find someone where we both will be very good for each other and bring out the best possibilities in each other and be very happy together, I will remain alone. : (
I would of course do whatever it takes to relocate to another country, or work equally with my partner to help him relocate (to1 of our original countries, or a third country) so we can be together -- if I’m fortunate enough to find my partner for life and he is in another part of the world.
I acknowledge that age and looks also both affect my attraction to and response to a person, I think this is true to some degree for most people, just some more or less than others --- for me, I relate sometimes to a younger age I think partly because I feel a sense of adventure, and most of all, new discovery, and a new beginning at this time of my life, and I am an idealistic, passionate, exploring and exuberant person by nature, and relate to that sense of those things in some young people even though those things were buried and lost from me for way too much of my adult life (I can tell you more about that when we chat or talk if you want), and maybe also because I missed so much of life in my younger years and now I’m finally ready to go, hehe --- anyway, I accept that about myself (yet a kind of solidness and maturity, like a person with an old soul which has known much of life beyond his years, is also very very beautiful to my own soul and to my admiration of a person). But this is something that varies according to the person....for example here in the U.S., I don’t relate in an intimate way to most of the much younger people that much, perhaps people here mature much older in life, not until their 30s, and maybe are not as open-hearted and idealistic either (I know that’s a horrible generalization, everybody is a unique individual, even in the USA, but still I notice this)....but sometimes I feel more of a real connection to some younger people in other cultures, though there are also things I don’t understand yet and I don’t know what to feel or think about them.
One more thing about the age thing -- I’ve given a lot of thought to it, and here’s my feeling about1 aspect of it -- I think it’s possible and sometimes good if there is a big age gap, but when it comes to marriage both people have to think very honestly and realistically about the future and look into their hearts, especially the younger1. I will try to stay healthy and energetic and vital and attractive until I am at least 120, but if I fail, the younger1 will the1 who is frustrated, or won’t be able to enjoy his full capacities for joyful interactions, or who may be robbed of a strong shoulder to lean on and nurture him, or who may be burdened or have worries or sadness about his spouses failing health or fading light, or who may be left alone. What might seem good for now with a big age gap may look very different to the younger1 in 25 or 30 years, or less. It doesn’t mean it’s impossible or that it can’t be wonderful if the2 people are very special to each other, but it’s something to think about....in this instance, honest soul-searching and serious thought is important -- about this issue, youthful abandon is not the way to go!
But anyway, I will give up some of both of those things for other things, things that bring joy and meaning and feeling when you get to know someone closely, for what is really good and will make the most difference over a lifetime . . . when I see those strong and deep qualities of character in a person and lovely personality, I just love being in the presence of those things, interacting and sharing with them ..... I feel an equality, a trust in their appreciation of life, a joy. . . and 20 extra years or beady eyes and a big nose and ears and slightly snaggly teeth become endearing to me, hehe . . . they become my new type. . . can you understand that?
In romance I am nurturing and affectionate, playful, emotionally open and intimate, confident, sometimes rambunctious, very passionate when we share something intensely in a full way for both people, and I am versatile, but I am more towards being a top with most people I’m attracted to.
Oh, also I don’t want a marriage that is isolated or cut off from the rest of the world, or from friends and family . . . in other words, I like to be ourselves wherever we go, just be open and free and friendly with all the people in our society, and live a normal social and family life, not hide away by ourselves all the time (only sometimes, hehe).
And I think the most important thing of all for both people is that they are can rely on each other, to be honest, sincere, reliable, thoughtful and caring to the other as you would like him to be to you.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Hilltop,
Seattle Tacoma,
Washington (WA)
USA
2.
Regular down-to-earth guy Interests: Anything outdoors- working around the place, riding, fishing, hiking, camping, road trips to the mountains or high desert. Good times at home with friends making a meal or gathering around a fire and sharing stories. Simple things like the smell of the earth after it rains, small town rodeos, country music, jeans, boots and old barns.
Looking for: A regular guy who doesn’t define himself in terms of gay. Just a guy. Someone who doesn’t sweat the small things and lives to enjoy each day. Someone who would rather spend his energy smiling than frowning. Someone who gets a kick out of everday things like sunrises and sunsets, watching a hawk riding the wind, the sound of rain on the roof, the beauty of the valley, ocean and mountains.
Someone who likes to laugh and spend good times with family and friends. A man with a good heart who likes being outdoors and doesn’t care about getting dirty. A man who likes wide open spaces, laughing, sharing dreams and being with just1 man.
Other information/notes: Someone once asked me what I would do if I won the lottery. I would take care of my mom, family and friends; donate money to land preservation, senior and certain health-related organizations; and then build a little place (2 bedrooms - 1 for guests) on a large piece of land with views for miles where you wouldn’t see another building or neighbor. Where, when you lay in bed at night, you would hear nothing but the sounds of nature.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural,
Sonoma County,
California (CA)
USA
3.
Looking to contact good looking cowboys & good people. Into horses, trail-riding, Looking to contact good looking cowboys & good people in FortWorth, Tx, I Travel btwn No.Calif. and Texas, Into horses, trail-riding, boarding. Love rodeo`s, swimming, hiking, nat`l parks, outdoors, tahoe & vegas, coastal to mtns & lake, amusement funs, other cities, travels. Considered nice looking cowboy type, masculine, romantic, great kisser, very comfortable in mostly wrangler & boot attire or can be preppy at times. Nonsmker, healthy. Prefer single same type for friendship, dating.
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Fort Worth - Waxahachie,
Ft Worth,
Texas (TX)
USA
4.
I look friends, cowboy man, biker, i love the mature man, i love to ride whit my bike whit all frien I look friends, cowboy man, biker, i love the mature man, i love to ride whit my bike whit all friends.I love horses and nature outdoor
Age: 39 |
seeks gay dating in
ModenaITALY
5.
I`m basically an urban cowboy. Hello, I can say many things about myself but I will just outline my most important attributes. If you think they are a lot, it is because that’s what makes me extra special! (sarcasm) I guess that is1 of my top attributes --__-- LOL! Moving on I am very Monogamous- I really do not understand individuals who aren’t. Especially people who say I don’t believe in love anymore because I had a really bad experience with love Um... I say Move on! Also, saying I don’t believe in love does not make it ok to sleep around, like if saying it gives people a green light to being promiscuous.
Honest- I am a very honest guy, I really can’t lie. Really, I have tried but failed many times. I usually scare guys because I am too honest. If you know me and are reading this and haven’t wrote back to me, you know I am telling the truth... lol
Spiritual- I am a practicing Catholic, I go to church every Sunday. I am part of the choir. I sing and play my saxophone at mass. I do not mind dating outside my religion as long as we respect each other.
Family oriented- I like spending time with my family. Going out with my parents to dinner or watching a movie with my brother. I like spending quality time with them. I like family values.
Romantic- I can say I am romantic, but10d to have my guard up. I do the basic little things that makes a guy smile but10d to do more if I see a connection between me and a guy. I am very inventive in how I show my love to someone..... I would not like to elaborate because I think this is something someone interested in me should find out for themselves.
Homebody/Out going- Yes I am both lol....Homebody- I like staying at home,watching movies, playing chess, starring at my fish aquarium (I have done it for a straight hour once, I know.... how exciting is that!!! WOOT!) Playing video games once in a while, cooking, composing music and writing songs, You Tube/internet time, Dancing or Judo chopping in the basement when no1 is around and stopping quickly when I hear the door being opened, In the summer ( gardening: when bees are not chasing me ), in the winter (creating igloos for snow ball fights with my nephews and nieces in the back yard, I created a castle with all the snow that fell this past year [email] ), shining my boots and cleaning my cowboy hats ( I play in a norteno band during the week-ends), etc. blah, blah, blah.... yara yara yara.
Outgoing- I like going out to Museums, theme parks (riding rollercoasters), clubbing (I love dancing), Movies, Window shopping, Zoos, Ice skating,running, roller blading, the gym( I am still working on my chest, sigh... it is so hard but1 day I will have a mad chest!) . I am open to try new things! Haven’t tried a lot of things I would like to do because I don’t have friends who do extreme things or outdoor activities. Would love to go camping1 day T_T ..... I guess I am down for whatever.
Music- All over the place, literally!
Food- I can eat almost anything, with the economy this bad, who can’t right? lol --__--
Pets- When I was a kid I had a zoo in my closet. I am ok with pets.
Politics- I follow a bit, would know more if I had someone close to me that was really into politics.
Dork- 100%
Punctuality- Very important, I like being on time, hate being late.
Career- Very important, I am a full time accountant part time musician-1 day I will be famous. I have goals in life and prefer someone who has goals and dreams of their own. More important is to have goals and dreams and to share them with that special someone so that we can both help each other towards accomplishing them.
I am pretty much masculine and looking for guys who are average or the same.
Well I know I have more things to say but I guess this is where you would ask me. so drop me a line and we will go from there. later dudes!
Sincerely,
Tony
Age: 28 |
seeks gay dating in
Chicago,
Illinois (IL)
USA
6.
Some one who enjoys horses, outdoor activities. Someone smart enough to know that two horses is a lo Relationship oriented. Realize there's a process to getting there and that its worth it. Enjoy the romancing as much as the sex. Strong work ethics. Can't stand dead beats. Love horseback riding and outdoor activities. Love taking on projects with a partner and seeing them through. Have a horse and dogs. Drug and desease free and u must be too. In good shape due to farm work. Also have a very creative ability that I intend to give more time to.
Age: 54 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural Area,
Pennsylvania (PA)
USA
7.
Looking to contact good men for meaningful connections. I’m down to earth, spiritual minded, well travelled, easy-going and open-minded. I’m 48, 6’2, slender build. General interests are art, music, spirituality, nature, outdoor activities a.o.
I10d to choose the path less travelled rather than the well-trodden1s. I value qualities like honesty and integrity in a man - other keywords are good conversation, friendship and humour.
I am a rural/smalltown boy at heart and grew up north of the arctic circle here in Norway. Though I now live in the capital city, I love nature and the great wide outdoors, and I intend to eventually live in a (much) more rural area. - I prefer guys from age 35 upwards, though that’s not set in stone. Most people10d to think I am a lot younger than my actual age. I guess you are as old as you feel yourself to be. To me, it’s personality that matters most, not age or looks, though I know what I like when I see it. I appreciate and value genuine masculinity in men and I am not into any of the gay cliché’s or stereotypes. My sexuality is just1 aspect of who I am and I stay well away from the ’gay scene’ except for an occasional bar-visit when I travel. On a general level I’m fairly jovial and10d to get along well with most types of people. - Just give a holler if you’d like to know more! (But have a photo if you want to get in touch.) Thanks for reading this.
Age: 48 |
seeks gay dating in
Oslo,
OsloNORWAY
8.
Big in spirit, heart, and character... Masculine, fun loving guy, 5-10, 185, 33w, hazel eyes, professionally employed, rugged outdoorsy type.
I`m looking for a guy who enjoys adventure and travel. Prefer a guy who`s into the outdoors- maybe hit the lake or a weekend camping, or at least hiking the greenbelt or maybe the mountains out west. Definitely open to a relationship with the right person.
I love the water, mountains, beach, or desert. Rarely do bars, clubs or big groups. The only things I like loud are the sounds of crickets at night, the sound of rushing water, or good music. I look for true connections with people. For me it`s built over time and through actions. I like people who are bright, with big passions in life and who are adventurous. Big in spirit, heart, character and humor.
My interests are not limited to the outdoors. I enjoy many other cultural interests as well... movies, great dining, museums, architecture. I love to explore other cultures, particularly Mexican and South American.
I have great friends and a comfortable, albeit simple life. I just haven`t found that right connection in a guy just yet. But I know he is out there.
Preferences: under 46, non-smoker, DDF, and athletic/fit/slim/muscular (or any combination). Other than that the package is irrelevant. It all boils down to the connection.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
North Austin,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
9.
Firefighter, Paramedic, Cowboy & LEO I perfer to be out riding the range than be sitting on the sofa in front of the TV. I am a career 911 provider. Looking to connect with other real cowboys and masculine guys for friendship or more. Wranglers and boots type here. Ropen & riding are fun ! I love to rodeo. I am an outdoorsman and love to camp. I have herded many cattle & rode miles of fences in my life. I am looking for same. I am normally attacted to guys younger than myself. Although age not important. Just be real and mature in your head. I want to buy a spread of my own in a few years. Then have some horses and cattle. I love horses. I am looking for a partner to share the times with. I offer love, respect and monogramy for life. I believe in the the cowboy code, If it aint yours. Do not take it. If it aint true. Do not say it. If it aint right. Do not do it.
Age: 56 |
seeks gay dating in
Manassas,
All,
Virginia (VA)
USA
10.
Looking for a real TX farmer I have just moved to the San Antonio area with my job. I am a single gay man that grew up working on farms. I have always enjoyed the farm live. I love to be outdoors working with my hands. Would like to meet an older man that likes younger men. I am in pretty good shape could stand to lose a few pounds may we cam work those off together. lol If any of this sounds interesting please give me a shout. Have a great day and good hunting
Age: 41 |
seeks gay dating in
Country,
San Antonio,
Texas (TX)
USA
11.
Very considerate and straight acting good natured person looking to contact nice looking people who share similar interests and values. Honesty and integrity a must as well as enjoyment of the outdoors. Interested only in masculine and straight acting guys. Enjoy many things including following the Colts and Pacers
Age: 48 |
seeks gay dating in
North Side,
Indianapolis,
Indiana (IN)
USA
12.
Good-natured guy looking to settle down Wanna meet a regular, good-looking genuine fella, 30s-40s, who has a sense of fun, good values and just needs to be in the arms of a big man.
I’m an outdoors kinda guy, so hunting, hiking, climbing, etc. I play rugby, too.
I really want to meet a guy who’s not a raving queen, is honest with himself and others, and is trustworthy. I’ve done a lot of big city life and would rather meet someone from a smaller place who’s at ease with a straightforward, uncomplicated, quietish country life, and likes doing the kinda things listed here on my profile. I need a genuine man like myself.
I’m currently living in New York but work in Iraq and Afghanistan frequently. I work very closely with the U.S. military - so I am familiar with you guys who do that incredible job under extraordinary conditions in inhospitable places. I’m right there with you, and I’d like to hear from you fellas - we got a lot to share.
I like physical, tactile affection without. I’m in tune with my emotions and always optimistic about new friendships. I’m conscious of age, if only from bad experience; a guy in his 30s or 40s would be a nice match for something lasting.
Only members with pics should get in touch.
Age: 38 |
seeks gay dating in
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
13.
Masculine Fit Older Country Man I`ve retired, but I dont fit the stereotype of the older man. Im active and I stay fit, lean, and muscular. I own a 30 acre spread on a small lake in central Iowa. I raise and love horses (Saddlebreds, Arabians, and Paints). I`d like to connect with guys interested in a long term (LTR) of riding, going to rodeos, taking road trips, and generally sharing the good life. If you're interested, drop me a line at hunkyoutdoorsman at [----] [----] com and we can chat.
Age: 65 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural Area,
Iowa (IA)
USA
14.
Great caring guy looking for the same. I am a very caring person that has experienced so many different things to make me who I am. I am all about the outdoors. I love most all animals. I would really like to meet a guy that is honest and caring looking for a partner no just a hook up.
Age: 31 |
seeks gay dating in
Middle Of No Where,
Rural Area,
Colorado (CO)
USA
15.
Seeking good men & drive me like you stole me! Pretty much was seeing a man but now seeking friends and hopefully more. I`m usually free to travel and have a construction business and raise horses. Honesty, integrity, and self sufficiency are imperative. No fats, fems, or drug freaks please don`t waste my time. I generally prefer my age or younger and I`m very hairy and prefer some hair on a man but it`s not a pre-requesite. I love anything outdoors, on horseback, roller coasters, traveling, fast fun trucks & cars cooking, hot sweaty times with a man, and rodeos. I moved back here to care for my family who are gone now, so I am ready to make a move back toward Austin or the Texas panhandle(my land) or where ever life takes me!
Age: 55 |
seeks gay dating in
West Of San Antonio-rural,
San Antonio,
Texas (TX)
USA
16.
atypical country boy country boy from a-town, like outdoors, animals and cowboys. i like the respect and dignity that cowboys have for each other and nature. i`m a cultured/traveled guy but always got drawn back to Texas. more of a b0tt0m guy here, skilled at indoor and outdoor duties. i like caring for my man as long as he cares for me back.
Age: 27 |
seeks gay dating in
Cs,
Rural Area,
Texas (TX)
USA
17.
Nice people only need apply. A relationship with a good, nice, and though used too much--real guy. Don’t do the gay bar thing or anything like. Most all friends are straight. I like the outdoors; I call it the Big Church. I love fossils and I’m not talking about men. Like travel, camping, fishing, gardening, and wouldn’t rule out the long walks on the beach. Har, har. Not looking for a quick hookup. If I wanted that, there are other sites. Perfer someone around my own age, but would definately consider others, but not looking to be someone’s daddy. I’m happy to hear from those who only want to chat without the though of a relationship, though I’d be a liar if I didn’t hope for that to be a real possibility. I like romance quite a lot--makes other things all the better. Never been in a true, loving relationship, but have always wanted to be--it just hasn’t happened. Dropping me a line would be just fine.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Fayetteville,
All,
Arkansas (AR)
USA
18.
Down to earth man and very masculine. Just a reg guy here in the DFW area looking to make new friends and eventually have an true loving LTR....Not into drugs and people who use them. Just a basic guy who works in the city and lives in the burbs. I enjoy the outdoors and travelling in small towns in the countryside. Also enjoy spending quality time with1 man I have my heart on.
Age: 36 |
seeks gay dating in
Forney,
Dallas,
Texas (TX)
USA
19.
Looking to contact hunting companions. I am a man who enjoys the outdoors. Born on a farm in the Midwest, I learned to hunt and fish. My passion is Turkey Hunting. I am looking for a hunting companion who shares my passion or just enjoys this sport. It does not matter if you are Gay, Bi, or Straight, Young or Seasoned, if you like to hunt turkeys let’s get together. I am especially interested in hunting the other subspecies of the Wild Turkey, not just the Eastern bird that I have here in the Midwest. So, if you live in south Florida where you have the Osceola turkey; Kansas, Oklahoma, or Texas where you have the Rio Grande turkey or the Western States which have the Merriam’s turkey I would be willing to travel your way. The Old Toyota Truck is wanting to take a road trip in the spring.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural Area,
Kentucky (KY)
USA
20.
Heterosexuality isn`t NORMAL...it`s just COMMON ! Sincere, educated, hard-working, loving, independent, curious natured reader,explorer and outdoorsman with many varied interests seeks similar. Classic country & western music is a passion..Patsy, Merle, etc. Contact me at my regular email address: [email] Also view my profile at http://www.bear411[----]/CJCowboy
Age: 49 |
seeks gay dating in
All,
Pennsylvania (PA)
USA
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