1.
Looking for an HONEST guy. Single for 6 years now after my partner passed away, and I HATE IT!!! My question is simple, I think anyway. Are there any "Normal" gay men out there that actually still date, I mean guys that aren't practicing alcoholics, Crystal Meth addicts, liars and/or just plain game players? I am a very honest, dedicated and down to Earth single individual. A good portion of my time is spent doing volunteer work as a Peer Counselor. I like going out for coffee, going to the mall, playing volleyball, swimming and hanging out w/ friends. I was born in and lived most of my young adult & teenage life in New Orleans. I lived in both Illinois (Quad Cities area) and Kansas City, Mo. w/ my partner of 11 years. Ok, I'm a very down to Earth and honesty means ALOT to me. Without complete HONESTY, no relationship will ever work out. I have been Hiv+ since: 1990. I am 6' 3'' ,have hazel eyes, light brown hair. I'm a social smoker, but would date a smoker, drink socially. I am a 37 year old New Orleans born and raised cajun boy, now living in Covington. I enjoy most all outdoor stuff. Hiking, camping (w/ the right people), swimming, volleyball, shopping, gardening, walks, sittin on the porch, going to parks and museums, cooking, Tv and movies too as well as family and friends. I am very much a monogamous type guy who knows the value of sharing life with his partner. I was married (in my heart) for 11 years to a man that I loved very much. We were loyal and true to each other. In February 2002 he died from cancer. This was the darkest day of my life, and the pain was beyond words. I have dealt with this, and now am moving on. I know what love is and how much better life is with another by your side to share it with. To sit and watch a good Movie, or go for a swim, or just sit on the porch holding hands listening to nature all around you, or play footsie under the table while you eat dinner...its all good. I know many gay men do not believe2 men can truly love each other, but I am here to say they are wrong. I had that once and know it is real, and out there. All it takes is a man whom knows there is more to life than being gay, and having sex with every male he meets. It takes a real man to live in a monogamous relationship, and to keep himself true to the1. Life is a test and many men fail due to their weakness for sexual pleasure. A relationship is work, and it takes2 to make it work. You have to be open to each other and love has to be the foundation upon which you build your lives together. Communication, trust, honesty, understanding, caring, give-n-take are all part of it as well as never keep anything from the other. I`m looking for a quality man who is ready to walk trough life with his partner at his side. Facing all that life may throw our way. Just remember, it takes a man to "take a man".
Age: 37 |
seeks gay dating in
Covington,
New Orleans,
Louisiana (LA)
USA
2.
Seeking friends with benefits & possibly LTR Masculine guy here previously married, but with long hidden gay desires. Want to find a discreet buddy for playtimes. Open to eventual LTR with the right guy.
Want passion & relationship. In the long-run I`m looking for some great guy to be my man. A guy to share life`s experiences with. A guy I can be in awe of & he be in awe of me. Somebody that I know has my back and I his. A guy who gives me butterflies in my stomach every time I see him. Meantime, while I wait for such a guy to come along, I`m seeking friends with benefits -- some routine get togethers for fun.
I`m not into exploring the bar scene to find guys. I`m clean, masculine, straight acting - looking for the same. If the chemistry`s right between us, there`s years of pent up desire waiting for you to discover.
My ideal partner would be a masculine, considerate, caring and affectionate man (that means lots of hugging, physical touching, and kissing), within a few years of my age, passionate about life and our relationship, open and involved in sharing life together. I need for him to also share my Christian faith. He would be intelligent, have had an education, and know what he wants in life. If you have some of these qualities and are attractive to me, too, then you may be the man I`m after. I hope so. :) Write me . . . Will
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
In Burnet County Nw Of Austin,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
3.
Want to give and have it all with Right Man. Real guy here who is capable and able to be great a friend, maybe more. Would enjoy a long term friendship.
I am healthy, hwp, good sense of humor, sensual, grounded, balanced, passionate, great outlook, non smoker, masculine and negative.
Want honesty. Communication-vital for any kind of relationship to work. Want an emotionally mature and available man. Want someone who can laugh. Does not take things/life too seriously. Able to cope and deal with reality. Respectful of self and others. Want someone who has compassion and able to forgive and accept forgiveness. Someone who is intelligent. Someone who has had a past and does not live in it. Someone who has had a LTR. Someone who is spiritual, not fanatical.
I am 6` tall, hwp, average, smooth and good looking. Able to recieve and give. I look young, and more importantly, act younger. I Love romance. Love to kiss.
I was married for 20 years and have 2 grown kids. Accepted my gayness at age 40. So if you were married and/or have kids, you I really want to meet. You know as well as I do, what it takes to be in a relationship. Would like to find my soul mate.
Don`t want any drama. Don`t want any drug dependant individual. Don`t want a chemical imbalanced individual. Don`t want a twink, immature man. Don`t want a bar scene. Don`t want any games.
Not looking to save or be saved.
You MUST BE: single (and if you`re dating to seek the right man, that I understand). Disease free. A person who enjoys life and sees the good in situations.
A hairy body is great, but heck, a man`s body is great. But it`s the core of the man that matters most, and if you are not hairy, but you have what I write about, then I want to meet you.
Just want someone real.
And finally, and MOST importantly, YOU MUST BE A KIND MAN! And if you don`t know if you are, ask your family and friends how would they describe you.
What I ask for is what I am able to give.
Be who you are and if you have many of these thoughts/attributes I write about, contact me. I don`t expect anyone to have all of it, nor do I expect perfection.
I am able to move for the right man.
If you can`t give this, but know someone who is able or capable, please refer them to me.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Plantation,
Ft Lauderdale,
Florida (FL)
USA
4.
soul mate seeker I am looking for a guy who is healthy height weight proportionate, clean, smoke and drug free, active, stable mentally, emotionally, and financially. muscular, fit, like to cuddle all through out the night, kiss, .... Enjoys going out for fun or just staying home. single. not married, ( I don`t share) fun energetic, out going, spontaineus, romantic, funny, charismatic, strong, passionate, affectionate, honest, truthful, enjoys life, willing to teach me new things and willing to learn new things, not ridged or unyielding,
Age: 41 |
seeks gay dating in
St Louis Park,
Minneapolis St Paul,
Minnesota (MN)
USA
5.
sub fem cd looking for a husband 29 mwm closet cd. I am a smooth, plump, full figure gurl weighing about 195 pounds- so very curvy. I have natural t!ts that bounce, and I keep my small clit shaved. I have blue eyes, and i keep my blond hair close cropped for my wigs. I adore boy panties and push-up bras and tube mini skirts.
I am married, so still something of a closet gurl. I do like voice over [----] or skype, and I am looking for any number of types of relationships, from being a good wife to the occasion fling. I consider myself a woman, and I am very svbm!ss!v* most of the time. Men who would like a gurl looking like a woman (what I dream to look like someday) with that tiny something extra are always welcome. I also enjoy the lesbian side of my femme side... I carefully watch my identity, but you never know... giggle.
Age: 29 |
seeks gay dating in
North,
Inland Empire,
California (CA)
USA
6.
gentle,concentrated,symmetrical gay im174cm-61kg-29y,a gentle,concentrated,symmetrical gay from
china, wish to find a consentrated man who is willing to marry
me and comes from a country that can allow gay couples get
married. because ,in china, the government dosent allow gay
couples get married; and people always have deep prejudice in
gay crowd; most of gay in china will marry a woman eventually,
but i will not follow this way, i want to spend the latter half
of my life with my partner who i really loved. i especially like
travelling all over the world with my lover and there are many
interesting things i enjoyed,such as
music,dance,movie,badminton,skating, body building etc. hope i
can find my mr.right1 day.
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Tianhe,
Guangzhou,
GuangdongCHINA
7.
discrete married athletic man.... I am 40 yo, married, athletic professional...looking for a hairy, active, clean and discrete arab man for safe fun.
Age: 40 |
seeks gay dating in
London,
XxxUNITED KINGDOM
8.
I am a bisexual male looking for his other half. We are a married committed couple looking for a man who would like to try and forge a committed relationship with us and make the nashville area a new home with us. If you think you have what it takes, from a psychological standpoint, to enter into such an adventure...then by all means..please contact us. We would really love to hear from you. All we ask is that you be single, height/weight porportionate - as are we. Thanks and hope to hear from you soon! Tim and Caroline
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Antioch,
Nashville,
Tennessee (TN)
USA
9.
Love conquers all. I carry with me the world in which I must live. When I have a great dream, my mind is always my biggest form of encouragement. I am single, never married, still searching for that special man. I do not have children, though I have passion and desire for children. The world is full of love when the heart is full of beauty.I am romantic, emortional,caring, passinate, kind and beautiful. An individual should find pleasure not only in the accomplishments, but also in the small simple things in life, also find solace in our hobbies and interests, social interaction in our friends and family, and a sense of enjoyment and accomplishment in our career. A relationship and the changes it brings to our life should be an addition to, not a replacement of our life, as partner, we should enrich and embellish our routine and our future.I will continue searching and seek for my other half, my true and desire partner.
Age: 29 |
seeks gay dating in
Venice,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
10.
Living in this crazy messed up world Since this is what most guys want to know off the bat, here are my stats:
6’
225lbs
Moderately hairy
Hazel eyes
TOP only……. though very [email] and very tactile.
Negative HIV status
Here`s what I am looking for in someone: (and Yes I am looking for a future partner!!)
1) Emotionally stable
2) Financially stable
3) Honesty
4) Integrity
5) Out……… I don`t mind if you`re not out at work, but I don`t want to have to go into the closet for family or friendly interaction. Family is everything to me, since they will always be there when you need them. If you haven`t experienced a good family existence, I pity you, and if we were together, my family will treat you as my spouse and include you in all gatherings as if you`ve always been there.
6) Maturity
7) Romantic
8) Self-Controlled
9) Monogamy………. I would like someone who isn`t screwing the world. Yes, we all have our needs, but self-control is a sign of a lifetime partner.
Notice that I did not specify age, looks, weight, etc. Age is not an issue with me. These things are secondary, and it`s all about chemistry. For me, sexual attraction is the dessert (and I LOVE dessert), but the meal (chemistry) is what binds you together and keeps you going. Don`t be offended if I don`t think the chemistry is there.
If we meet, it may be for coffee, dinner, or lunch ……..a romp at your place may happen but it’s a consensual thing on both parties. We all have needs I understand however, there will be no expectations on your part as long as there isn’t1 on mine.
A bit more about me:
I like romantic comedies, horror films and action adventure type films. Don’t watch a lot of TV and would rather be outside doing something. I am a big kid at heart and like to do things like splash in mud puddles, roller coasters, etc.
I am an artist and invest my time in pursuing that as my means of income.
I occasionally like to go out to the bar, I sometimes go to Wrangler sometimes Eagle depending on mood. I don`t go to the bars looking for sex or a partner. Nor do I go to get drunk and party. I have all types of friends some at the bars and if someone is interesting or friendly there or elsewhere, I will include them in my circle. That means lesbians, vanillas, straights, etc.
Oh1 more thing once upon a long time ago I was married, and yes we remain friends today. Don’t be jealous or feel threatened by that relationship. Friends is just that friends. I had a daughter from this marriage and she never calls unless looking for money or wants to have a BMW (bitch, moan, and whine) moment. So be prepared for that Uncle or Step Dad status.
PLEASE UNDERSTAND, THAT IF YOU CONTACT ME AND IF YOU WANT TO KNOW THE SIZE OF THE FAMILY JEWELS ... THEN I WONT EVEN RESPOND TO YOU. YOU OBVIOUSLY DIDN’T UNDERSTAND MY PROFILE AND WE SIMPLY DON’T HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON.
I HAVE MANY PICTURES, ALL OF ME. SOME RECENT, SOME FROM ADVENTURES IN THE PAST FEW YEARS. I WOULD BE HAPPY TO SEND THEM UPON REQUEST. I JUST DON’T LIKE FEELING LIKE A PUPPY IN A PET SHOP WHERE PEOPLE COME TO STARE AT YOU AND TAP THE GLASS.
Age: 42 |
seeks gay dating in
Aurora,
Denver,
Colorado (CO)
USA
11.
I would love to meet some new friends in my area, that I can go do things with like chat on the phon I would love to meet some new friends in my area, that I can go do things with like chat on the phone about our day, go horseback riding, shopping, do girly things or just hangout and have lunch or drinks and if anything else more develops that would be great also. I am very attracted to women and desire the touch and softness of a woman that I can’t get from my husband. I hope to find someone that is understanding don’t mind that I am married and my family life comes first, and is willing to take their time with me as I am very shy until I warm up to that person then I can be wild and outgoing and as my husband calls me a nymphomaniac in the bedroom.
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Santa Fe,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
12.
I hunger for you, stranger I`ve been married for 30 odd years, who has never found sexual satisfaction with a woman. I`ve had many affairs but have never ventured out into this unknown. I`ve always had fantasies. And while I used to be merely curious, that curiosity has grown into an obsession.
Age: 51 |
seeks gay dating in
Cleveland,
Chattanooga,
Tennessee (TN)
USA
13.
* MASCULINE, BEEFY WHITE GUY SEEKS SAFE, DISCREET You: Total top. [email] Masculine, discreet, safe. Bi, married, or straight preferred -- or a masculine gay guy who`s not into the club or bar scene.
Me: 38 yrs old white guy, 6`3", 260 lbs (height/weight prop. beefy guy), brown hair & beard, masculine, laid-back & discreet. Not a "gym rat" here -- and I`m not looking for1 either AKA like the "West Hollywood pretty boy sculpted look" -- instead, looking for a guy that is more or less an "average joe" type -- rugged, a man`s man.
Looking for a bud to hook up with from time to time for some fun and good times.
HIV neg and disease free here and looking for the same.
Hit me up with an email, let`s chat and take it from there!
Age: 38 |
seeks gay dating in
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
14.
Relationship and Friendship My name is Effah. I am looking for a nice man to share my life with and to live openly and proud as a gay man.
Gay intercourse is forbidden in Ghana and crooks and a corrupt police force use this against gays even when there is no proof for sex between men. Therefore I don`t dare to be active as a gay man. You have to be very careful. It is a depressing situation.
It would be great to live where you can live openly as a married gay couple. And if I meet the right man, I would leave Ghana and follow him and to where he lives. To a country, where you don`t have to be afraid of being arrested for your way of love.
I have an art shop in Sunyani, Ghana. My shop gives me a modest income. I do not need support from someone else.
I am aware that there are a lot of crooks here with a profile. It is a disgrace for my country. - But I hope you will not hold this against me. There are honest Ghanaians. I am an honest Ghanaian.
I am a kind and patient person. I don`t like drama. Quarreling is a bad way to express intimacy, I think. Be nice to whom you love.
My experience as a gay man is limited. I rather date a man I really feel for than `giving it a try`. I want to find `my soulmate` and believe that it is more than a phrase.
I am shy at first. Yet when I know someone better, I become more funny.
I took away my pics from this profile because a lot of men reacted who were not serious. If you are seriously interested, I can send you some pics.
I would love to show you Ghana. Visit me.
Akwaaba!
PS: Effah (underscore) Febri and then the usual Ya-who ending...
Age: 28 |
seeks gay dating in
Sunyani,
Sunyani,
Brong AhafoGHANA
15.
Married professional and in-shape man I am a str8 married man looking to hook up with a jack-off buddy. Prefer other married or bi men. Look me up if you are the same or get hard thinking about fucking around with a married man. Love all kinds of fantasies.
Sono un sposato etero che vuole fare una bella sega con un altro. Scrivimi se tu ti trovi nel uno situazione simile....
Age: 41 |
seeks gay dating in
Geneva,
GenevaSWITZERLAND
16.
Handsome, older german guy - unhappy married - without experience and still virgin. Please train, te Handsome, older german guy - unhappy married - without experience and still virgin. Please train, teach and lead me to be your svbm!ss!v* lickslave and hot b0tt0m You like and can handle me?
Age: 18 |
seeks gay dating in
Central,
Flensburg,
ShGERMANY
17.
Wow, so where do I begin. It is sooo difficult to truly express oneself in writing. I`m better verba Wow, so where do I begin. It is sooo difficult to truly express1self in writing. I`m better verbally. OK, to begin I have quite an interesting life that may sound complicated but has enriched me over the years. I am1 of those latino guys whom has denied his sexuality for reasons that are not stereotypical. I even got married to a woman, which of course the relationship ended up divorce. I want the same things when it comes to a life of love, affection, travel, consideration, security. But I want this with a man. For many years, I have denied my inner yearnings. I have had opportunities to meet quality guys, but ended up running away for stupidity. I guess1 of the reasons I would run away was that the guys I would previously meet did not have patience with me especially in learning about me and my thoughts which is what I really respect in another man.
I have always been attracted to guys since the age of 11. I guess in a way, I have always been afraid of how my parents would feel discovering that I am gay. I had this internal conflict until the present. Just because I am very sensitive to how my parents may think. I guess1 of my flaws in general is that I am always trying to please others hoping I get in return some sort of thanks. Which I rarely have!
Anyway, all of these experiences have shaped me who I am today and what I want in a man now & forever. I`m not looking to play games. I`m looking to connect at a higher level when it comes to emotional, comprehension, physical, and intellectual. Am I superficial at times? Aren`t we all to a certain degree. We have eyes of course. Nonetheless, the inner-self of a man is what I want. I want a man who has the patience, the10acity, the intelligence, and the boy in him to always see life to play. Life has its challenges, but it is also too short to only ponder. I want a man who is determined. Enjoys to improve himself and when in a relationship it`s about US. I want a man who wants a life partner not to break-up in a few years because of irreconcilable difference just like straight people do. Relationships take work, so I want a man who is willing to put the effort for life. I want a man who is healthy, disease-free, HIV -. I want a man who enjoys going to the gym as well. What can I say! I go nuts over a man with an adonis-body. Is this superficial of me. Perhaps! But, I know what I like. But don`t forget, the personality needs to go with it. I love a man who is strong and is on top of things. A take charge kind of guy. I love a guy who is cultural. Race and ethnicity is unimportant, but your outlook on life is. I love a guy who can feel sexy about himself. Where we can act like guys to wrestle, play10nis and be a loving & affectionate couple. Am I about PDA (Public Display of Affection). It depends! I prefer a take charge kind of guy so it`s up to you! I love an intelligent guy where we can discuss various topics from soaps & gossip to the latest in the election and global warming.
So about me, well I guess I describe certain aspects of my life. Overall, I love to laugh and always keep a very cheerful personality. I love going to the gym and keep fit. Love to read about positive topics. Currently, I`m reading a book called, "The Guru is You" My ethnic background is latino from South America. But I am born and raised in NYC. I love to dance but I`m not into nightclubbing every weekend. I love to cook, mostly latin. But the healthy way. I have naturally tanned skin which can easily darken in the sun. I am 5`7, about 165 lbs. I have short black hair and black eyes. Yes, I have black eyes. I have a naturally intensive gaze and I am quite animated. It`s just how I am. I am healthy, disease-free, and HIV -. I love travelling to almost anywhere. It`s all about learning.
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Queens,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
18.
Dark Beautiful Strong Silent Male Looking For Fun I wish to meet intelligent Strong Male with private apartment in Saudi,Kuwait City,Qatar Etc.. Do not mind if man is married as i am very discreet. I have beautiful full lips and am always eager to please my sheikh. I like shopping, chocolate from London- not egyptian chocolate as it makes me sick!!!
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
City,
London,
LondonUNITED KINGDOM
19.
I`m just me...Open hearted I know how the value in giving in love and service to mankind is the key to happiness.
I`m a good lady mixed with a mature way of living! Never married but a mother of a beautiful 3 yr old daughter.
I want to cherish a man and treat him in a way that makes him know he is loved and can`t wait to get back to me!
I`m not perfect in my shape but I am working on sexier image. Well, i`m into import and export of textiles and fabrics for fashion designers so i`m in the fashion business. As a result, i travel a lot and i`m willing to settle down with the true and real man.
I already feel beautiful and sexy its just going to get better.
I really want to be with a man that looks at whats insides of a woman too.
I have a busy life but for the right man I am willing to slow my life down to add them in my life.
I hope to meet a man thats not so busy.1 that can communicate when he needs time alone!
It seems to get harder to find someone on the same page as you in life.
I like to keep it simple and its not always that simple.
I really want to go slow in getting to know each other.
Take our time no hurry.
If you use [----] messenger, you can add me. My ID is jennifer_freeman1. You can mail me anytime and tell me more about yourself and ask me anything too.
Hope to hear from you soon.
[email]
Age: 33 |
seeks gay dating in
Roseville,
Detroit,
Michigan (MI)
USA
20.
Openly gay married man and dad looking for buddies Openly gay, Traditional Married, professional, masculine, "young" 52 y.o., beartype...BIG man with ample belly and 60" chest, smaller endowment "more beans than weiner" {:>}
Mod.hairy, flattop, beard, tatts. ISO other masculine gay or bi-married buddies. Open to all masculine men with open mind.
Love Country Dance, Asian gardening,Christmas and Maine Coon Cats!
Age: 52 |
seeks gay dating in
Gwinnett,
Atlanta,
Georgia (GA)
USA
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