1.
I enjoy rural living and a quiet life out in the w I enjoy life out in the country and prefer to be around plainspoken and easy-going folks. I’m not a bar or club person unless it’s a C/W dance club. A few good friends with some cold beer, good music, a nice fire, and sky full of stars is the best way to spend an evening! Looking for folks who enjoy country and rural living and also share some of my interests and ideals. I like men who are masculine and secure in themselves. Older, rough and rugged guys are my style. No twinks or young things.
Age: 29 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural,
Rural Area,
Texas (TX)
USA
2.
rural guy looking for same (PLEASE, read PS at the end before replying).....................................G’day fellas,
moved from my property in drought country down Goulburn way and currently live on 120 acres up the north coast NSW (where it’s been flooding lol ). Into permaculture, growing food, building, appropriate technologies, sustainable living and generally being bush.I have a spiritual bent and really enjoy my own company but if a fella came into my life I’d be stoked..Prefer guys who live or have lived on the land and have a quieter, more playful masculinity than the gay porn version (in all my years in the bush only ever met gay men who act that way)
If anything’s going to happen my heart’s gotta be involved, so not looking for hookups..I’m a man of my word looking for the same..it just makes life so much easier if what comes outta your mouth matches your actions. I’m cheeky,pretty handy,left leaning, fair,balding, work fit and non smoking. I’m told I’m a good listener and I10d to talk things out rather that stew and after 7yrs of drought appreciate the small things (like rain,full dams,a good crop,family, mates a warm fire and my dogs)...Anyway, fellas this is the first site I’ve found that has so many rural based guys and some profiles that make such a refreshing read...it’s great to see and am right glad to know you’re out there..don’t let distance stop you messaging me if you want to know more. I’m open to learning new skills (like horses,building, photoshop,fixing small engines,welding) and sharing mine,travel and new adventures and even keeping an eye out for that fella to share my life with.
..Jed......................................................................
PS.....I am not a member so SOME EMAIL THROUGH HERE WONT OPEN and I CAN’T REPLY TO THOSE EMAILS THROUGH HERE WITHOUT AN EXTERNAL ADDRESS ..just USE jed46 at live(.)c o m..include your nic that has a pic. so I know who’s writing.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Taralga - Barkersvale,
NswAUSTRALIA
3.
Looking for cowboy friendships and possible LTR 6`3, 250, s&p hair, hazel eyes. Looking for bears and cubs. I10d to be attracted to dark haired men, age 40-50, cowboy types, well dressed executives, blue eyes and a southern accent drives me wild. Enjoy big/tall men (porportioned height/weight) but also enjoy shorter stocky furry fireplug men. men`s footwear f*t!sh Hope to find a custom boot wearer. Paul Bond boot wearers move to the front of the line! A well shined pair of dress shoes or sharp toed boots gets my attention! Hope to meet someone in the Bay Area or North Bay or those who maybe making northern CA their new home.
I am an affectionate and loving, caring, romantic, sensual, and masculine man looking for the same. Hobbies include travel, the beach, antiques & collectables, landscaping, western boots and fine footwear. I am a manager of a western clothing store and have a website business too at www.westernexecutive.net.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Sonoma County,
California (CA)
USA
4.
God excist. I am real and honest. i was death1 day when I was6, devils like juif and testemonies of jeovas and churches try to kill me for a day, i dont come back once more i die. All devils and too late to separate from cults called temples and churches and religions. So awful is revench now! I am healty, serious and good manfriend, i am also funny. I dont have myself animals. I live in the forest in a small home, but very cosy. My favorite plate is big stake-paprika-beens-barbecuepotatoes-(vegetables). I look for a boyfriend who wants only to be with me, Easy for happy life, peace and dull days... My happiness is in bed, where I want to start... Id love to hold a person and be allways ready for sex... I have my own money, i can move to him(i have private pension about 20 000 in a year) or take him here. I am simple and common. You can e mail jeanmarc.maatta at g m a i l. c o m. I look for a healthy cowboy or alike from dreams to the couple life. I lay all my love to him. I fit best to a scorpion, birth 23.10-22.11, me 21.11.65. Boy I look for doesnt need to be selfconfident and proud. I am a cowboy: not the feet in the ground, not in the private land, but in my body alive, and I let my boy only keep me alive, the feet in the aire, he is my spitfire... I am totally alone, I have nothing to do with laws, i am nothing really oficialy( the god is word only on earth, thats me) so ONLYto a scorpion who smokes, eats meat even raw and drinks alcohol, bier wine(means no aids) stronger, and havent medicaments too much, i have only 1 headace pill and 2 sleeping pills. Snake in chinese and scorpion, so dont worry with me. And i start from the dick, then the rest of it... Happyness is my secret. Never heart a scorpion friend.. I am only man on earth i dont have gun. Gods word, days are short, i feel like going back to sleep... I tell my segrets., its the end. Human denied 11.9 1994. No changement from any in world. I am last change before aids, from me away is to aids. That is what i know.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Haukivuori - Paratella,
St Michel - Propriano,
Carelie Finland-corse Du SudFRANCE
5.
here 4 Dating/LTD. READ ALL FOR E ADDRESS. Dating, LTR is all about me. Well not all some fun until he arrives. UNABLE to read you mail here not a member so say hi in E-mail, HoldingCage. mention your Gaycowboy name. A O L dut c o m I am a Cowboy and Gay at heart. Although I have never been active in participating in rodeo events, I do enjoy going. I do love to ride horses for pleasure or just to exercise them. But I call the pleasure on horseback. Last time I was able to really do a lot of riding is when I was in NV and took care of5 horses. And I exercised2 of them with a friend2 of the others.1 was the owners horse and were not allowed to ride. "I AM WHO I AM" (La Cage aux folles) and I am a composite of what I`ve been. That says most of it. I`ve been married (2 girls and 1 grandson and 2 granddaughter). Partnered then widowed, He was1 fantastic guy. Oh so wanting a Life Time Relationship but has eluding me for the past several years. versatile. Occupation: Work only on my home, friends’ and families homes. Ret. Very early consider myself independently poor. Reality, went out on medical disability but doing great My thoughts: "I love you forever" is what I can`t wait to here it from the right guy. Some time after I meet the right guy and the time is right. And say it to him when the time is right. Lots of "Rights" RIGHT? Sex and Romance: I`m an old fashion guy, want to date and hope for a LTR . Yes I like sex but a nice slow evening, cuddling into the morning is real nice and look fwd to the next time we meet and continue growing into whatever we might be growing into Hobbies & Interests: Scuba diving (you need a dive buddy, I could use1), Kayaking, Riding my motorcycle, sometimes with my dog. Prefer it with a nice guy behind me or on his own bike. A nice days ride on horse back ending with a fireside chat at the campsite or at home in front of a/my fireplace. Travel, mostly by car/motorcycle, you can go more impulsively whether for the day, weekend or longer. You can stop anytime and see more. Theater, movies, eating out, and playing from hard core play to sensitive bedroom, who I`m with and what they want really set my mood as I enjoy it all equally, anytime. “You can lead a heart to love, but you can`t make it fall. That only comes in time. Want to give us the time?” by me with a bit of literary lic. Don`t bother with those XXX PIC`s. I`m not that interested in them anyways. Plan on being in LA, CA area ASAP but not soon, now that my newest granddaughter has been born. Maybe it would be nice to meet some local dudes for Coffee,lunch, something like that. AGAIN UNABLE to read you mail here not a member my mail HoldingCage at A O L dut com State Req a date and name in your mail. Remove spaces in the A O L .
Age: 55 |
seeks gay dating in
Palm Bay,
Melbourne,
Florida (FL)
USA
6.
Looking to contact Country men, (Cowboys) who like country music, outdoors, horse back, camp fires a Looking to contact Country men, (Cowboys) who like country music, outdoors, horse back, camp fires and more, only men not boys who are in shape.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
New Orleans,
Louisiana (LA)
USA
7.
Fun , Masculine Man , with a Great Heart ! A friend to a serious Relationship....HI ! ME - TALL and Dark , you make the call on Handsome !
6`5 , 205 , Dk Short hair , Fun loving guy ! I enjoy traveling to new places , especially the blue oceans and the white sandy beaches. I do scubba dive time to time . Another favorite thing I like is camping , and hikking far into the woods , nestled up to a roaring fire . I enjoy life to it fullest ! I`m seeking a partner for life. I10d to enjoy men around my own age . Tall is good ! I`m a real person so I want the same . Also , I`m non-jaded . Life is short . So if you want to take scenic route give me a shout ! It would be Great to meet a tall , Dk haired GUY ! For Friendship first and see where the road takes us !
A great "SMILE" gets my Attention !
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Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Minneapolis St Paul,
Minnesota (MN)
USA
8.
Apparently, there are few and far between of Apparently, there are few and far between of "real" guys who are genuine and true to themselves and others. Sooner or later the truth comes out and bites you in the ass! If you are an honest, caring, handsome, and good-hearted guy who just happens to be looking for the same...well, here`s1 of them! At this point in life, I am looking for the opportunity to love and be loved just the same. I am 110% genuine, monogamous, affectionate, and not an ego-driven man...Like that in another guy, then shoot me line or2! It is quite ridiculous to not have a photo of yourself, so please have1 or I`m gonna guess you are a "Troll" who is hiding under the bridge waiting to grab me! LOL
I am a Social Worker working with mentally challenged individuals in a group home setting and am now pursuing my Masters in Psychology. I love nature and animals, and would like nothing better than to share an incredible day, evening, and starlit night with "the man of my reality" on a warm Summer night...The2 of us holding each other and sharing the best of1 another by a roaring fire out in the country.
Age: 39 |
seeks gay dating in
Sherman Dale,
Harrisburg,
Pennsylvania (PA)
USA
9.
I am: At best an OPTIMISTIC person (I always try and find the best in any person and situation I am:
At best an OPTIMISTIC person (I always try and find the best in any person and situation) . I am hopeful and appreciative.
INQUISITIVE (I like to learn, challenge myself to grow and become a better person every day ,some days I do better than others) Challenge my mind not my patience LOL
HEAD STRONG ( Like Popeye I am what I am LOL . I try to have an informed opinion, meaning I have to be able to argue both sides of any argument )
COMMUNICATIVE ( I failed at mind reading, so I expect that if someone is wanting me to know something that they will tell me, as I will do to them )
Likes: People with passion, heart, strength of character, sense of humor, optimism, focus, kindness. I have an attraction for fur (facial/chest) on men -though not a necessity. A great kisser and cuddler , a man who holds hands while driving and with a look from across the room you know that you,rock his world?.
Beliefs: I follow the power of positive thinking or the law of attraction. Esther and Jerry Hicks, abrahamhicks[----] are2 people that I believe embody this way of experiencing and living.
I do not follow a formal institutionalized religion but take from the world that which best helps me to move to a place of inner peace and become a better person to others.
I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it passes me by.
Favorite Authors: Abraham-Hicks, Robert Fulghum, Michael Losier, William Glassier, don Miguel Ruiz, and anything else that makes me smile/laugh.
TV shows: A big Star Trek the Next Generation fan, Corner Gas, Twilight Zone
Music : a fan of country and folk music mostly.
It has been an interesting journey - As I have believed - you attract into your life that which you are resonating. Nothing really ever happens by chance but more so by OPPORTUNITY to teach us that which is in our best interest to learn. I have a variety of interests; the most important being my interest in others and helping to create the conditions upon which people can be successful (I am open to increasing my interests as the opportunity presents). I believe that building a life with someone is not a 50/50 input ratio but more of a 100/100. I take care of myself both physically and emotionally as best I can, acknowledging that there is always room for continued growth and development. I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it passes me by. I am a man with faults (or areas for future development as I call them), but am also working to become the better man that I want to be for myself and those around me. I am a man who is fairly educated and have been told (and I believe it) quite opinionated, although I like to think of it as strong willed. I believe that it is important to be able to see both sides of any issue (or as many sides as their might be) and to be able to argue for both sides - doing such ensures a greater likelihood of being informed and opens1 up for the opportunity for greater growth and development. The motto, Seek first to understand and then to be understood, is1 I try to (not always successfully) live by.
Here is a list of some of the things that I like : holding hands with a special man (The spaces between your fingers were created so that another’s could fill them in.), holding (spooning) all night long, looking across the room and knowing that the man across the room is mine (with or with out the handcuffs - LOL - just joking), kissing with my eyes open so that I can see deep into the depth of his soul, making love with the lights on (I am not great at brail so sometimes have to see where I am going - LOL), kissing my partner in a way that I can take in his breath and share with him mine, spending the mornings in bed with my partner connecting, having date night at least once a week with my man DANCE LIKE NOBODYS WATCHING, SING LIKE NOBODY?S LISTENING, LOVE LIKE YOURE NEVER GOING TO BE HURT/LIKE ITS NEVER GOING TO HURT AND LIVE LIKE THIS IS HEAVEN ON EARTH is a statement that encapsulates what I continue to strive for - hmmm - tough I could use some practice in2-stepping, keeping on key and well having a man to love - grrrr (so am open to offers of help in any of the areas)
I think it is important to hold out for a man that not only moves your world but creates a world for; a man who can match or better1s sense of creating a life of partnership. A man who is his own person and who is educated (not necessarily from academic institutions), motivated (but heck also can be comfortable just laying around), optimistic, an equal (it is the whole walks beside me, not ahead or behind ) though at some time1 may be more of a leader or organizer), smells good when wearing nothing (though cologne can be nice - lol), who laughs well and often, who knows the pull of the moon and the power of the slightest touch, who dances to the slowest of songs really, really well . A man should stand up for what is m [email] and right, respects himself and others (always), would give up his seat on a bus to someone in need and would help those less fortunate than himself. He should be polite, say please/thank-you/excuse-me/bless-you. He is into family, friendships, high/rough surf, Christmas mornings, fireplaces, Country music, holding hands while driving, keeps his eyes open while kissing , bathtubs not quite big enough for2, laying on a blanket or in the back of a pick-up watching the stars, holding on tight in a hug - never being the first to let go, the sound of rain on a tin roof... Inside the man should exist hope, faith and courage with the ability to be honest.
A partner should not run from conflict and understands what it means to say, fvck you with love. Physical attraction is important - can’t deny chemistry, and we all have a physical type that gets us going. It is the heart of the man that is important. A man to who will not follow or lead, but1 that will walk aside - sometimes gently pulling or pushing.
RELATIONSHIPS--of all kinds--are like sand held on your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand,the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively and the relationship slips away and is lost. I’m looking for a partner who has already spent time experiencing life on his own and feel’s he has sowed his oats. And finally (probably by now you are thinking -well it’s about time!, someone who is fairly independent and can be left alone in a room without getting into trouble or feeling outnumbered.
If you have chosen to read this far I thank you. If want to know more feel free to ask - doesn’t cost you anything . If you might be looking for a great guy for a friend then stop in - you may be surprised at what you find.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Denver,
Colorado (CO)
USA
10.
hi I am just new on this, I just want to explore a bisexual side of living, maybe I like it, I intend just to chat or to have h0rny mailing (cybersex), however I am not seeking intimate relations (for now), just mails for manly talk, and even web-camming to have a good time in healthy ways.
As for myself I practice martial arts (boxing and katana sword-play), and like doing adventure sports, I was for a couple of years a volunteer fireman and conscripted some yrs ago for military service in my country.
I like having a good time. I DO NOT LIKE GIRLISH OR DELICATE/DRAMATIC ATTITUDES IN men,I expect a direct, cocky and confident talk as man to man like buddies (for men I prefer masculine, non-twink, and average/good looking (not girly looking)); I DISLIKE SHEMALES very much. I WILL NOT ANSWER TO PPL WITHOUT PICS. (TAMBIEN HABLO ESPAÑOL)I can not see messages by here so write me to [email]
Age: 23 |
seeks gay dating in
Lima,
SurcoPERU
11.
Looking for loving, monogamus LTR I'm 46, 6'1", 240 lbs (need to tighten things yet), blk/grey hair (usually cut short), always a mustache and goatee most of the time, blue eyes (bedroom eyes I have been told). Like to receive what I give and vice versa, although prefer b0tt0m Descriptives: energetic, down to Earth, blue jeans and t-shirt, shorts,10nis shoes, boots, swimmer, sweaty, leather, cold beer, cuddling, big time kisser, romantic, hand holder, naturist, camping, travel, professional, educated, country boy, music lover, singer, movies.
Candlelight, fires, moonlight walks and swims ( [email] of course) are great ways to spend the time. I enjoy hiking, swimming, travel, movies - sci-fi especially, theatre, music, love to cook and damn good at it! Sexual compatibility is important. I am a nurturing and caring person. Always care for the man I am with and want to be cared for in return. Love to cuddle, kiss, long love making sessions. Especially enjoy making love outdoors. I enjoy learning and experiencing new things. While romantic, can be adventurous out in the woods to keep things interesting and exciting.
More specifics: I am kind of a nudist, and a leather man (the look and wearing it, not S&M). I enjoy traveling (even spur of the moment if I get a deal too good to refuse and I can take off of work). I am a music lover. I like country, dance, 80's retro and1 hit wonders, adult contemporary and new age. I enjoy trying new restaurants. I am more of an introvert but always looking to meet new friends.
Too many people take for granted the simplest things in a relationship. Falling asleep cuddling, midnight love making, waking up to take a shower together... Family is important, and want my partner to be part of my family and I part of his. I am a country boy at heart. I grew up in rural NE. Finally, I am HIV+ and have been for 9yrs. I am undetectable and very healthy. I want someone who accepts that upfront and either is poz or is very poz friendly. Am totally honest, probably to a fault. Will say what I am thinking even if it pisses someone off.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
St Louis,
Missouri (MO)
USA
12.
Seeking a Lifemate Hello men, I am currently looking for a Lifemate and or a Business Partner for my 95 acre ranch in the Southern majestic mountains of Colorado. I am just you're average rural countryman looking for a decent masculine guy to build a life with here at my ranch. I am looking to find mature masculine down-to-earth man who loves ranching and farming to share my life with. Ideally I am hoping too find someone to have a LTR who is deeply passionate as well as healthy emotionally and available.I am really not interested in having casual sex or hook-ups. However if you were looking for a meaningful relationship I would love to hear from you. I enjoy the company of masculine men, someone to cuddle up next to with either in bed or cuddling in front of the fire on a cold night. I really like guys of any age as long as our personality compliments each other and we are wanting the same kind of lifestyle that being a Rural lifestyleI'm a masculine, creative, adventurous, affectionate, passionate, intelligent, Husky Bear, 5'10, 269#, blue eyes, balding, brown hair, trim beard, moderately hairy, honest, and very sincere I am a non-smoker, drug free and HIV-. Also I am very open to just finding a business partner that would like to invest in a Alpaca raising business with me here at the ranch. There is a lot of potential profit to be made as well as some great tax savings It can be completely platonic or something more.I'm a genuinely nice guy and I am not into games, drama or the typical Gay lifestyle. I am looking someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff and sees the big stuff as challenges that can and will be overcame. I love rural country living and wide open spaces. This is an area where Cowboys live and play. I truly love living in the mountains of Southern Colorado. I enjoy cooking, movies, photography, camping, river rafting, horseback riding, ranching, computers, music, gardening, country living, love to be romantic, having fun, vacationing in exotic places once a year and staying at home at the ranch much of the time since I am a true homebodyI enjoy Lovemaking and intimacy. It is rare to have both at the same time, but when it happens it is beyond incredible. I am also into making love, which means courtship dating falling in love. I love kissing, cuddling, giving and receiving [email] as well as [email] intercourse. I am attracted to all men from short to tall to slim to husky, smooth to hairy like grizzly bear to anything in between, from a Bear to an Otter or just an average kind of a guy. I am truly attracted to facial hair, it really is a big turn for me I am looking for a man who is considerate, loving, affectionate, honest and emotionally available.I am very interested in sustainable alternative housing and alternative energy such as solar & wind power, permaculture, animal husbandry, sustainable living, agriculture, etc. I wish to share this special place with man who is also looking for the same type of simple quite country living and is willing and able to relocate. My ranch located at the foot of the Sangre de Cristo Mountain range in Southern Colorado. Great views in all directions. There is also a refreshly cool seasonal mountain stream that flows throw the ranch. This is a place of great beauty and tranquillity.There is elk, deer, pronghorn antelopes, coyotes, jack rabbits, eagles, hawks, owls, humming birds and plenty of springtime wild flowers. A place were rural country living is the everyday focus. Thanks to all for the messages here as well as the emails. I appreciate hearing from you. I try to respond to everyone. I hope to hear from you soon
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural Area,
Colorado (CO)
USA
13.
Well I am going to let you know 1st off hand - I am disabled by being legally blind. I CAN NOT trave Well I am going to let you know 1st off hand - I am disabled by being legally blind. I CAN NOT travel alone because of it. So if you want me to relocate to you then you will need to come get me.
I am a Down-to-earth, stable (not stabled -LOL), easy-going, independent insightful, masculine, kind of guy. I am playful, educated; assertive (well not with the whips and chains, but maybe cuffs - LOL) man seeking others for friendship and a date would be nice.
I welcome opportunities to correspond/and maybe meet others who are optimistically minded, and passionate about BEING. I don’t put up with stuff that isn’t mine (a guy should walk the talk) and don’t have any addictions (well, maybe to guys that have facial/chest hair and big hearts- LOL).
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AIM: Tupperwarestud
I am: down-to-earth, stable, romantic, passionate, compassionate, loving, sharing, assertive, communicative, understanding, head-strong and educated.
I do not believe in placing borders or restrictions on attaining happiness or success in a relationship/career/living environment.
I have a variety of interests; the most important being my interest in others and helping to create the conditions upon which people can be successful (I am open to increasing my interests as the opportunity presents).
I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it passes me by.
I am a man with faults (or areas for future development as I call them), but am also working to become the better man that I want to be for myself and those around me. I am a man who is fairly educated and have been told (and I believe it) quite opinionated, although I like to think of it as strong willed. I believe that it is important to be able to see both sides of any issue (or as many sides as their might be) and to be able to argue for both sides - doing such ensures a greater likelihood of being informed and opens1 up for the opportunity for greater growth and development.
Here is a list of some of the things that I like : holding hands with a special man (The spaces between your fingers were created so that another’s could fill them in.), holding (spooning) all night long, looking across the room and knowing that the man across the room is mine, kissing with my eyes open so that I can see deep into the depth of his soul, making love with the lights on, kissing my partner in a way that I can take in his breath and share with him mine, spending the mornings in bed with my partner connecting, having date night at least once a week with my man.
I am sensitive to others and admire those who are sensitive to me. I like compassion motivation. I am mostly a happy person but can sometimes be melancholy and sad. I can cry at sad movies and songs. Still, I can be emotionally forceful and assertive. I am sensitive to the spoken word so I prefer people who are verbally sensitive and tactful.
I do not believe in open-relationships, or1 partner who demands commitment and the demanding1 do not know it applies to them also. I am not out to prove my masculinity by being in control of someone else and expect the same from you.
I have the capacity to be inspirational, and the ability to lead merely by my own example. An inborn inner strength and awareness can makes me an excellent teacher, social worker, philosopher, or advisor. No matter what area of work I pursue, I am very aware and sensitive to the highest sense of my environment. My intuition is very strong; in fact, many psychic people and those involved in occult studied me. I have a good mind with keen analytical ability. Because of this I can probably succeed in most lines of work, however, I will do better and be happier outside of the business world. Oddly enough, even here I generally succeed, owing to my often original and unusual approach. Nonetheless, I am more content working with my ideals, rather than dollars and cents.
My thinking is long term, and I am able to grasp the far-reaching effects of actions and plans. I am disappointed by the shortsighted views of many of your contemporaries. I am deeply concerned and supportive of art, music, or of beauty in any form.
I may be too sensitive and temperamental. I10d to dream a lot and may be more of a dreamer than a doer. Fantasy and reality sometimes become intermingled and I am sometimes very impractical. I10d to want to spread the illumination of your knowledge to others irrespective of their desire or need.
My desire in life is personal expression, and generally enjoying life to its fullest. I want to participate in an active social life and enjoy a large circle of friends. I want to be in the limelight, expressing my artistic or intellectual talents. Word skills may be my thing; speaking, writing, acting, singing. In a positive sense, the 3 energy is friendly, outgoing and always very social.
I have a decidedly upbeat attitude that is rarely discouraged; a good mental and emotional balance.
I give intuitive insight, thus, very high creative and inspirational10dencies. The truly outstanding trait shown by my Soul Urge is that of self-expression, regardless of the field of endeavor.
I may at times become too easygoing and too optimistic,10ding to scatter forces and accomplish very little. Often, the excessive energy produces non-stop talkers. Everyone has faults, but the soul urge doesn’t appreciate having these pointed out.
My crave authority and recognition of executive skills. My secret self may have very strong desire to become an entrepreneur.
IF YOU ARE GOING TO PLAY GAMES WITH ME - DO NOT RESPOND TO ME.
I want a man who is his own person and who is educated (not necessarily from academic institutions), motivated (but heck also can be comfortable just laying around), optimistic, an equal (it is the whole walks beside me, not ahead or behind ) though at some time1 may be more of a leader or organizer), smells good when wearing nothing (though cologne can be nice - lol), who laughs well and often, who knows the pull of the moon and the power of the slightest touch, who dances to the slowest of songs. A man should stand up for what is m [email] and right, respects himself and others (always), would give up his seat on a bus to someone in need and would help those less fortunate than himself.
He should be polite, say please/thank-you/excuse-me/bless-you. He is into friendships, the waves of life, Christmas mornings, fireplaces, Jazz, Country, holding hands while driving, bathtubs not quite big enough for2, laying on a blanket or in the back of a pick-up watching the stars, holding on tight in a hug, the sound of rain on a tin roof... Inside the man should exist hope, faith and courage with the ability to be honest.
Honesty, integrity, good morals is the person I am seeking to share all of what life has to offer, the good times and the bad. You must have dreams of your own and not along for a free ride.
I’m looking for a partner who has already spent time experiencing life on his own and feel’s he has sowed his oats. And finally (probably by now you are thinking -well it’s about time!, someone who is fairly independent and can be left alone in a room without getting into trouble or feeling outnumbered. If you have chosen to read this far I thank you. If want to know more feel free to ask - doesn’t cost you anything . If you might be looking for a great guy for a friend then stop in - you may be surprised at what you find. There are4 things in life that you can never get back: The fired arrow, the said word, time spent, and missed opportunities. Make the most out of life.
UPDATE: I may be only 30 years old, but I have sown my wild oats. I was in a LTR from 13 til 24. So I know I can be faitful can you be?
Age: 29 |
seeks gay dating in
Union City,
San Francisco,
California (CA)
USA
14.
handsome, sexy, quote chill unquote guy Real, arguably sweet, direct, extremely youthful, masculine and down-to-earth person here. Also considered kinda intense, though, in what can be --to some -- a sort of perplexing manner. I gather that this is because it can be taken a kind of ’intensity’ that appears to incorporate a kind of California casualness in a way that makes it hard to recognize as1 or the other or something, and that there are some humans for whom this is ’distressing.’ You’ll see what I mean soon if you feel like it, and have not already. On the more positive end, I have been called by comparative comrades an ’operatically large liver’ and other things to that effect. Point taken, although to be fair I believe certain hoodlums and philistines might say such things, at least in part, simply because there is Ayyetalian involved. I’m professional but intellectual. Curious about all aspects of life, and interested mostly in people. Rugbyish/runner’s build, depending upon how skinny I am at any given time and on how much I’m running. HIV neg. Clooneyish short grey hair. Sometimes I’ll a rock a scruffily semi-hipsterish beard for kicks, since people seem to think it looks good on me. FYI, since I don’t think I have a pix of it, when I have it the facial hair itself is not so much grey as it is reddish brown. I realize that this sounds potentially disturbing, but somehow it seems to work. Into many different things including most all of the arts (except DANCE, come to think of it), especially film and fiction and all sorts of music. Also philosophy, history, politics, good food and drink, learning anything new, continually stimulating and dynamic conversation as often as humanly possible, cities, architecture, blah blah blah--aside from the more raucous, and less ’rarified,’ kinds of hijinks about which we all know plenty. I have a substantial wild side as well as an ultraserious1, and however this relates to either or both, I really love great sex. I need it badly, often, and sort of extra fiercely these days. Been getting many real ragers on the erectile front that just won’t go away, for instance. Love to be driven absolutely wild, and to drive others crazy nuts, so that everything gets all quote unquote phreaky until it just combusts. Like long, varied, multiply orgasmic sessions when the chemistry and the time are right. Nonetheless, I find that quickies can be equally extraordinary! Looking to meet cool, smart, cute, solid/in-shape, masculine and hot-- as to the last I’m working here from the hotly contested assumptions that you know it if you are, and that if you are you know you are -- XYers for dating, friendship, sex, talk, and other categorizable and uncategorizable forms of shitkickin’. Want to be around serious, attentive, kind and thoughtful (but not humorless) dudes who can regularly laugh at themselves and, as often as can be expected, somehow manage to simultaneously help their peeps enjoy it all thing in the process. Guys who are equipped with whatever it might take to play an unusually strong game of connect much more often than not, creating mutually good and sometimes intriguingly surprising feelings on assorted levels of maneuver. If you contact me, I will include my pic with my first reply. (I am currently going through a break-up, so I do not want it on this site right now.) I’m newly single after a very long time, and looking to romp around as much as possible both sexually and otherwise. Oh, btw those2 are not mutually exclusive imho. As for the sex, hotel room out-of-towners, off-duty cops, firemen, business guys, hot ethnics and internationals--italian, irish, middle eastern, israeli, asian, eastern european, south american, you name it (any boro, and suburbs too)--are all very very good, for example. As are actors, sexy geeks, Bohemians, killer 420, quality skiing and their likes. Read: I’m down with considering, or impulsively engaging in, a wide variety of proposed erotic adventures with appealing people, proceeding on a mostly case-by-case and admittedly willy-nilly basis. Older or younger, individuals or groups, ’romantic’ or not, ’anonymous’ or not, from the sleazy to the so-called respectable, etc. etc. I am not generally very interested in people who stomp around being type queens of any sort, including snobbish and solipsistic scene queens. I’m here for the open-minded, sensitive, expressive, intelligent, and socio-sexually talented men and boys who don’t act as if they can know in advance exactly what they want, or precisely who they wish to meet. The1s who are just as much or even more aware of, magnetized by and interested in the mysterious if menacing cracks and crevices that we all do, and probably should, fall through here or there—again, imho—as they are attentive to and energized by the eternal turn-ons of particular categories, and driven to pop by their fraught, overarching logics and calculi. That is, if there’s even a negligible difference. Sooner or later, I imagine that I will meet someone who will make me want to get into another (mostly)1-to-one relationship. I’ve spent much, maybe most, of my adult life since undergrad school in a few of these hardcore things. Avec cohabitation, in all of the cases. For the time being, however -- though I do not mean to suggest that this is some temporary ’sowing of wild oats’ since I have already been on my share of high velocity spins around various blocks -- I intend to milk the whole Aura of Woundedness thing (is it as effective at attracting people as I think it is?) for every different type of trickle that I can, and for every single solitary drop. Re. the ’dating’ and so to speak LTRs, after much reflection I would claim that, in the past, I have been for the most part quasi-admirably generous, loyal, reliable, flexible, forgiving and honest. Or at least that I’ve gotten much better over time in each of those regards and in others. They have all been certifiably passionate relationships1 way or another, that I can say the most surely. (I will concede that at times they may even have been excessively so, partly because everyone seems to be so god damned anti- ’drama’ these days. As if, poof, you can just eliminate tout court the tumultuousness of emotion? And as though, if in fact you can, it’s so desirable--and that it’s such a nice indication about related, rosy, pleasant things?) In any case, I am v. independent. I am presently bewildered about how much confidence I should have that this is gonna change--or when, why, how, and how much. Ditto about the work necessitating so much of my time and energy, partly because it requires the maddening act of writing. I also travel a lot for my job, both in the US and internationally. So do feel free to contact me from anywhere, rather than only from NYC. If something here appeals to you, please do not hesitate to get in touch. And don’t feel you need to be all witty, or think that I expect you to write War and Peace, or anything like that. (Just as redheaded males remain as supremely fascinating as ever, I personally find all the lingering to-do about strong silent types to be as remarkably well grounded in cold, hard FACT as is anything else that would possibly elicit talk of such a realm in the first place.) Just be reasonably for real. I’m a classical Leo on top of being a NNYorker. Plus, I’m not exactly a spring chicken anymore. My BS detector is fairly well-tuned at this point, and my tolerance for it is not high. I’ll leave that at that. Great cooks always a plus! I myself do it well, but have a limited range. And, to be honest, I am finally beginning to accept that--call me ’J.A.P.P.Y’--I just don’t like doing it when you can order something. Good attorneys generally a big minus, though I suppose You could theoretically be1 of rare and hyper-unlikely exceptions that proves my rule on that. Physically, faces matter much, if not most, to me. Like a lot of other guys I know, I often find quote unquote average looking men to be the most attractive, the hottest, and the most visually stunning of them all. Sorry if you are still reading this and it seems to you that I am an insufferable blabbermouth, to say the least. As the Brits might have said back in the days of the Sex Pistols, even I will admit that this has turned into something of a monkey’s tea party. (I recently watched The Filth and the Fury, which I thought was terrific.) But hey man, if that’s how you feel, we probably wouldn’t have made it to the prom together anyway. Plus dude, I think this is as important and useful as a photo, and not much different anyway, and perhaps less likely to be faked too. Although, yeah, I hear ya, this could at least be plagiarized and collaged, and yeah, ok, you’re right, at most I suppose maybe this could actually be fully computer generated. A la HAL. Fine then, go ahead, ’dis’ it as masturbatorially narcissistic and self-indulgent. Hello!, the pix aren’t? Not to mention, I think it’s a total scandal in the making that people do not normally post such important things on these sites. Interestingly enough, the sites themselves seem to be fully capable of handling it and maybe even built for it. As far as I can tell, nothing explodes when I hit submit. And users are as free to ignore this as they are able not only to ignore the so-often unreliable pix on these sites but also whatever’s constantly transpiring on, say, television. On that note, I am astonished that you can still evidently minimize usage of this dubious conglomeration of websites and make a prototypically hubristic -- if also utterly sensible, apparently warranted, and completely sane/sober/rational -- Wiseguy attempt to evade The System via plain old fashioned eeemale. (Though I guess there’s1 or many, many simple or complicated, and more or less persuasive, reasons for that I am here simply missing. “I’m sorry Dave, I can’t do that.”) Go nuts if you want, using gregg underscore bee elll aaa eee tee zee at hot male calm. Anyway, good luck to you. It’s just your 19th nervous breakdown. Ciao.
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Downtown,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
15.
Honest, respectful and very open. New dad to a 16 yo mn boy (adopted from foster care system). Loo Honest, respectful and very open. New dad to a 16 yo mn boy (adopted from foster care system). Looking 2 adopt a second son. rand[#] Love home, the outdoors, cooking, camping friends and our dogs. Life is good but a partner to share and build a family would make it great.
Stats: age 44, 6 tall, 215 #, brown hair, blue eyes, muscular and masculine but Not ’straight-ACTing’. (s0 you dont have 2 ask)
I am seeking other quality gay men of integrity and compassion for Friendship.1 very special life partner would be Great My friends are my family. Your love of kids and dogs is essential. An appreciation for home and the outdoors is also appreciated.
Our family & friends are our support system as we are theirs. I am relationship and family oriented. I don’t drink, smoke, do drugs. My life motto is honest open and respectful. I believe in saying what I mean and doing what say. I Love being a dad (not a dad-dy). It is the most rewarding, most frustratng and hardest ’job’ have ever had. Most importanly, feel like I am doing something to make a difference.
I am perfectionistic but adjusting quickly not that I am a dad and like to be direct and ’take-charge’ although I don’t mind following and supporting when others care to lead. In other words, walk beside me and be my friend, lead, follow, or get out of the way and let me ’git er done.’ I like to get things done, not try to get them done. I also always work hard to do my best.
My friends would call me responsible,10der, compassionate, giving, hard working, loyal, and occasionally a pain in the bvtt (Not that way) as well as sometimes playful in an innocent, mischevious way.
I have made my life what it is and healed many wounds over the years. I have worked hard. I am seeking others to share their experience and the future - proceeding honestly, intimately and with integrity. I am pretty knowledgeable about myself and what I want. Now if I can just find it.
AS for activities, I dont own a decent TV (update: bought a new1 - for the kids of course...lol....and this is called justification) but do enjoy the sappy or funny gay romantic comedies, cooking, camping (tents .. not queens), home renovation, cabins (hope to build my own some day), blazing winter fires (in the fireplace-not the stove), the beauty of pristine outdoor nature like that found in Grand Marais, romantic dinners, lazy sat / Sun mornings in bed, fresh fallen snow, a warm bed on a cold night, sweatshirts and shorts with warm woolly socks in the fall, sailing (dont know how), seafood, Thai, most foods, CHOCOLATE, Coffee......enough 4 now.
If you come with excess baggage, please choose your favorite pieces and leave the rest behind. Also, make sure you are willng to commit to a1-way ticket for this journey. The road may not always be easy travels and it may sometimes take hard work and commitment but Always onward and upward. Progress over perfction. Choose your battles. Please appreciate my oddities (otherwise they will drive you nuts), let me be myself, be yourself, see how my traits have helped me survive and thrive....I will offer you the same consideration. Find humor in as many thngs as you can. It makes the journey easier and seems to help bring life into perspective.
I am fairly well educated and love to learn. I also Love the beauty and simplicity of the country and outdoors. I can cook pretty well....after coming in from a day of cutting wood with the chainsaw & axe. I love a nice comfortable safe home (my refuge) but also want someday to build my own timberframe home (do you even know what that is?). I can be very sensitive and very demanding when needed. I drive both a car and an Old truck. It works. They are serviceable as my grandfather would say.
I have some pet peeves (LOL). Ill share a Few. I dont believe in telling someone they shouldnt feel that way. I find it disrespectful. I dislike shallow people and cheap fake modern things and quick fixes. Im not much of a TV person but I might like reading while you enjoy your show. It makes me crazy when someone says1 thing and then Acts in a way that is contradictory.
Let me know how to get hold of you....rand[#] in all my ads and emails
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Sw Mpls Linden Hills Harriet,
Minneapolis St Paul,
Minnesota (MN)
USA
16.
Wildland firefighter in the summer and geography student at the University of New Mexico in the wint Wildland firefighter in the summer and geography student at the University of New Mexico in the winter. I spent last year studying (kind of) in Ghana, West Africa. It was eye-opening, chaotic, at times difficult, and wonderful. I am interested in development issues and hope1 day to work in Africa using GIS to help meet development goals. Until then, I will be hanging out west studying, fighting fire and having fun. I am not really interested in growing up, but am looking forward to the future.
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Unm,
Albuquerque,
New Mexico (NM)
USA
17.
We host weekend get aways for POZ men We are men living in the national forest at the base of Lake 22. We seek other individuals who enjoy the great outdoors. We offer a clothing optional surroundings. We swim in the Stilly and hike on Mt. Pilchuck. We relax in the hot tub and play by the fire. We enjoy a nice cooked meal, a gl [email] of wine, and the occasional 420 break.
We prefer men who enjoy the same and have new ideas.
Age: 51 |
seeks gay dating in
East Of Granite Falls,
Everett,
Washington (WA)
USA
18.
Have I met you in this life? I stand 5 foot 9, 205 lbs, blue eyes, light brown hair, Sagitarian-Wood Dragon.
Interests include (but not limited to); Community Theatre & music, gardening, backpacking, biking (usually on roads), gardening, long drives, swimming, college football & basketball, quite nights watching videos, soaking in the hot tub, giving massage and an occasional night out, star-watching, and did I mention gardening?
Business Activities currently include running my own business, and volunteering in city government. I can hold a job or create1, as needs be.
I`m a classical guy, who loves the Classics, classic rock (80`s), jazz, new age, the occasional showtune and anything Jimmy Buffett (Yes, I`m a parrotthead).
I`m a big kid who really doesn`t want to grow up, but by necessity sometimes has to. I would rather play 40hrs a week and work 20 than the 50 or so I do work.
I like to travel, and Costa Rica is1 of my favorite destinations.
Reading is big to me, I`ve always got at least 2 books going, and occasionally I`ll write a short story.
I`ve been through more in my first 40 years than most guys do by 60, so I`m always looking for an encore. I feel like I`m still 30, and my spirit is ancient and wise.
Charity/Non-profit and civic involvement are touchstones in my life, and keep me keep me busy while improving my corner of the world.
Living in the middle of nowhere is a choice I have made. I like the slower pace of life, and the closeness of recreational opportunities. But let`s face it, this is not a dating hotspot.
I`m a guy. I like guys. You should too.
I like guy things; hiking, biking, power tools, cooking, decorating, theater, cars, music, gardening, scuba diving and water-skiing. I donÂ’t like: fakes, liars, taxes, snow, soggy bread, Pokemon, and current Republican policy. I`m Gay.
Personal Quote: "The only stupid question is the1 you didn`t ask."
I`d like to meet someone to share the good & the not so good times. He will enjoy a night at the theater, a football game, or a weekend campout. He has a sense of spontaneity and can dance in the rain or cuddle in front of a fire, with a nice gl [email] of wine. He will call into work "well" and go on a picnic. He won`t take life too seriously; because life is too short. He will be able to keep up, and get me to slow down when needed. If you`re him, don`t be shy...Drop me a note. Until I find him, IÂ’m open to suggestions.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Moscow,
Idaho (ID)
USA
19.
Mature, Masculine and Attractive Looking for a real man to love.......quiet
nights in front of the fireplace.......walks along the river........intelligent conversation and
passion.......
I am college educated, world traveled,
gourmet chef, and have a great sense of
humor......if you can`t laugh at life
and yourself.....you will continuously be
disappointed........ I am HIV - and
prefer hairy men between 35- 70
Age: 65 |
seeks gay dating in
St Francis,
Rural Area,
Kansas (KS)
USA
20.
Seeking Strong Arms to Hold Me Tight My Motto is Dont Look for Mr. Right…BE HIM. I am a Single Italian Man, 39. I am Healthy, HIV (-) NEG, I Intend to Always stay this way. Masculine Vers-btm. I`m Reliable, mentally and financially Stable, Good Looking, & Nice. I am Ambitious Intelligent, Thoughtful, & I have good Lovin` to offer The Right Man. I enjoy Traveling The World, Hiking, Camping, fireplace Snuggling, Walking along the beaches & Playing with my dog. I am Italian and was raised on The Island of Capri, in Italy, and grew up with high old fashioned morals and strong values. I am no stranger to the word or the dedication it takes to have a true commitment. I was in my last relationship for a little over 18 years. I am the true monogamous type. I am Romantic, Loyal & Dedicated to my Friends & Faithful to the EXTREME. I FIRMLY believe that sex is the Greatest Expression of Intimacy & Caring between2 people that love1 other and I believe that sex is important but it`s Romance, Love, Laughter, & The Genuine Meaning of True-Bonding that feeds my soul. Most of all I like to be carefree and have fun! I am an artist, and I enjoy creating. My artwork has been shown throughout the world, which leads me to why am I holding an I Dream of Jeannie Bottle in most of my pictures, and why these actors are holding them. I own my own company, in fact I am known as The Jeannie Bottle Man, thats what I do. I make the I Dream of Jeannie Bottle for a living and have been making wishes come true for many years. I work very closely with many celebrities, and I do a lot of work in the Television & Film Industry. I will get more into that at a later time if you are interested. I do thank you for taking your time to read my profile.
What I seek:
seek a SINGLE Employed Sophisticated Dark Featured Handsome White or Latino Well-Built Strong Handsome Protective Un-shallow Man w/a Wacky Sense of Humor, Emotionally & Financially Stable & not afraid to be true Devoted & Protective Man for an Exciting & Phenomenal Relationship! A man who knows what the true meaning of Honor & Integrity means. Someone Enthusiastic to work on a Relationship & in their Careers & Goals as I am. Someone that believes Sexiness includes Candlelight & Intelligent Conversations & wants the very best for himself, & us. I would like him to also be an outdoors man and appreciate nature & its beauty. Most of all, I want a man who has a goal in his life and works on them. I need a go getter in my life, as that is what I am. I am not asking for anything I can not offer myself, and seek a man who is also erotic, masculine, romantic good looking and has the spark in eyes thats willing to go the extra step as I am best suited with a man who in my age group who wants to have fun!
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Queen Creek,
Phoenix,
Arizona (AZ)
USA
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