ltrwithfitchase
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To Build a Long Term Relationship with You Well, I am a nice chubby - kind of bear - very nurturing - daddy-ish type of guy (does not show up much in the pictures with clothes on, but I am a chub) that is looking for a long term relationship with a chaser (slim to fit man who is attracted to chubby men). I am attracted to slim to fit men with a tight tummy and love hairy legs, but not a requirement.
I am mostly a top, but will b0tt0m for the1 I love. I am HIV negative and disease free and looking for the same.
Enjoy driving with the top down on roads less traveled. Road trips are fun, when I have the gas! I enjoy watching DVD`s, love photography, hanging out having a beer, cigarette (my ex got me to smoking.. want to quit), playing cards, other games, going to movies, shopping, concerts, plays, going out for drinks, dinner, messing around on the computer (just replaced my old laptop), going to McDonald`s for a super-sized coke and using their wifi (yeah, whoo hoo... wild and crazy times!! HA!) and much more. I love laughing, staying on the go or staying at home watching a movie holding and cuddling with you.
I want someone that is ready for a long term monogamous relationship. I want trust, honesty, affection and someone that I can share my life with. I want us to be as1 not only in the bedroom, but in everything we do.
I am a trustworthy person that will love you with my entire heart, support you in everything you do and always be by your side through the good and bad. I have a lot of love to give and I hope I can find my match here.
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
Northwest,
Bakersfield,
California (CA)
USA
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eck0731
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substance seeks quality I'm a very friendly, open, honest, genuine, masculine, warm, caring, gregarious, happy man. I believe in truth, spending time with special people, loyalty and ultimately seeking a LTR, but willing to enjoy those special moments with anyone that's willing to share their heart, monogamously. I primarily talk and listen from my heart and have a deeper threshold for caring, listening and understanding than most believe.
Okay, so I also like to have loads of fun, sing, laugh, joke with silly puns. Walks in the city, bowling all night, hitting the road or staying in and cuddling with a warm soul. Yes, I have a DVR addiction! I need someone to get me out more, bike, hike and explore each others interests.
Sex is great, but making love is better. I shouldn't need to explain the difference, so don't expect a romp in the sack the first week or longer. I'm old-fashioned and take it slow. I want it to be special and it will be! Of course, that doesn't mean that I won't be lusting after you immediately, but I can wait and so can you.
I can have a strong personality, with opinions and goals, but intimately, I'm more reserved and looking to please and comfort the1 that I'm with (you?).
I appreciate lots of body contact, holding hands, caressing, snuggling, love taps, and cuddling with a man that wears a manly, but understated cologne. Wash daily and P-L-E-A-S-E brush your teeth! Gargle, rinse, floss, mints...etc. Trust me, nothing will end a date sooner (gross).
I'd like to find a man that is strong, bold (not shy), assertive (not shy!), confident and definitely goal-oriented. Actually, I find confidence (self-assurance, mild cockiness) the most attractive quality in a man. Good looks start the attraction, but inner qualities get my boat rocking! Seriously, be confident and you've got me!
Really skinny men can pass. I prefer fit to average (real) men. Yes, a slight gut is okay!
I go for bears, wolves, otters, chasers, admirers, but not other chubbies!
Please be very close to 28-43, intelligent (street-smarts or book-smarts), caring and have the ability to really listen and respond. Talking over each other is bothersome. I've learned the value of listening (and may seem quiet at times), but when I have something to add, I want to be heard.
Darker features are a plus as well as some facial hair, but not required, but masculinity is. You must be safe, d/d-free, HIV-, light-smoker or non. Hairy or smooth; either is okay, but I prefer that you have a smooth back and butt! Caucasian, Middle-Eastern, European get the front of the line. Please don't say you're 'Asian', what does that really mean anyway? It's anything from Indian, Japanese to Russian! Be specific. (I do like Japanese/Korean.) Oh and 'size' is not an issue, however warmth and attitude are.
I like a man that can't wait to see me, calls or texts often, helps me get up when I fall down, thinks of me with little gestures and is excited at the opportunity to be with me. Have a fully developed sense of empathy.
Be romantic, impress me with your thoughtful affections!
Someone that can trust me, share with me and confide with me. I promise all of that in return...and more.
I don't care about your income or education, only your potential as a person.
My experience is limited with relationships and the full range of sexual experiences, but I'll probably surprise you with my imagination!
If I HAD to categorize myself, and so many of you need to know, I'd say that I'm a svbm!ss!v* versatile- b0tt0m and I'm looking for a strong-in charge, aggressive-dominant, yet caring, compassionate, romantic and mostly gentle (rough sometimes!!) top man.
I offer a great foot massage to men with clean feet. Boots are a definite plus, wear them.
Whew!
I'm an architect (almost!), working in the Flatiron District/Chelsea, but living uptown Manhattan, in Inwood, near 207th & Broadway.
44, but look 36 (seriously, check out the pics!), 5'7", 305#, stocky-solid (bearish/chubby?), brown hair, hazel eyes, ever-changing facial hair, some chest hair, masculine (but not butch), glasses/contacts, dimples, cut & average 'size', d/d-free, HIV-, non-smoker, social drinker, Polish heritage, but all American.
I'd like to lose some weight to be more active and healthy as strongly urged by my doctor.
Born in Cleveland, OH, grew up in Erie, PA (get ready for the endless mentioning of it), schooled in Philadelphia and working in Manhattan for the past 4+ years.
I find country music fun!, but don't listen too much. I listen to pop, foreign, easy listening, 60's pop is my favorite, and American Idol!
I detest the sound of an electric guitar, but I'm currently striving to learn banjo and have played flute and piano. I'd like to get into photography and reading more. I love to travel, when I can afford it and have lived in Rome and Australia. Planning my first cruise in 2009!
I don't dance; too much jelly in the belly! Don't ask, but I'll watch!
Lately I've embraced the text term "lol", but I used to hate it, for some reason, I always think "lots of love" and not "laugh out loud", which no1 really does when they use lol anyway! I do have an affinity for "KoOol"!
I love dogs and cats, but my landlord won't allow. Don't we all need a little unconditional love from time to time?
Actually, I'd like to move closer to my office and get a puppy!
I was raised with both, breeding and training and have picked out my next pet's name, I just have to get1!
I'm far from vain, and I don't believe in labels (K-mart and Wal-mart rule!, but Target can suck-it!).
I'm a Leo and thrive on attention and compliments. Guess that I need that ego boost (note; not 'want' but 'need')
My favorite color is orange. If you mention that in your message, then I'll know that you've read through my profile. :)
Friends/co-workers describe me as charismatic, charming, cute and a great catch, really!, so who has a net ready? LOL.
Please don't take all of the above as a 'must-have' list, if you are caring and LTR-oriented, get in touch. Friends are GREATLY appreciated.
Oh, and my name is 'Edward', which is how I prefer to be addressed. Please don't use 'Ed'. Actually, almost anything BUT 'Ed' is preferable. Be creative. Thanks!
I'm not perfect, and I have stuff to work on; items to fix and goals to achieve, but isn't that the point of life? I'm not looking for perfection either, just be you, be real and share that. Your ups and downs, your talents and your faults and ultimately we can find a harmony together.
Too sappy? Maybe, but remember I lead with my heart.
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Inwood,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
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ny2la
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NY2LA - Just moved to LA from NY I just moved back to LA and am kinda lost without my friends, and the things we used to do together, so I am looking to make some new friends.
My Name is Kris, I’m 37 (Tho I dont think look it), White, 6` Weight: 190-195lbs, Dark Brown & Short Spiky Hair, Hazel Eyes, very str8 acting and appearing, and have a little hair on my chest. I have the typical average build, tho its not the LA Swimmers or Gym god bod, I’m not overweight/chubby or fat. I guess the easiest way to describe myself is that that I have a pretty average build and look maybe 29-32. I havent been to the gym in the past 2 years, tho once I get situated here in town, I plan to spend a couple days there a week, get some shape back into me, and drop back down to about 170 and a 34 waist. Right now im a 36, and I cant for the life of me figure out how I got there! Other then that I`m pretty laid back, friendly and out-going, loyal, dependable, responsible. God I sound like my dad. LoL, I guess what Im trying to say is that I’m kewl with just about any atmosphere – be it doing stuff at home with 1 or 2 friends, or going out and doing the dinners, movies, and clubs. I’m easy to please. It’s the company that makes me happy! I am in the music/club industry and10d to spend a lot of time in the studio working, and when I’m not there I like to check out what everyones doing online, or sit back and watch CSI or 24. I started smoking about 2-3 months ago, though more occasionally now and should probabaly quit. I drink sociably, and am not afraid to get absolutely totally shit faced plastered, which is fun every now and then.
My relationship history is really pretty simple, Im single. Ive had 2 BFriends, my first for 8 yrs and my last for 4 yrs, which ended 2 yrs ago in1 of those days of our lives events. He was 26 and enjoyed making me miserable. After that experience, I guess I just havent been focused on another relationship. So for the past 2 and a Half years I have remained single and celibate (other then the occasional help myself program). My first lover who was the world to me, was killed in 2001 by a drunk driver. I mention this because its a part of me I think defines who I am. Lets see, other then that Im versatile and have no expectations, other then like I said - hoping to meet some new friends and get situated here in LA, so I can focus on my career and and then possibly finding another special someone. Im a little discouraged at being 37 now but cant complain. Ive had a great life and spent 8 of the best years with my best friend in the entire world. Dont let my age scare you, I dont think I am anything like others my age, I cant say that I really feel 37, am Im still to much of a kid to act it. Im still a club kid at heart. If I was to define what my TYPE is I guess Id have to say I prefer smooth, and slender, sk8ter/twink type, but hey its not a Must. Besides I don’t have preferences for FRIENDSHIPS.
OK, About being gay. I am NOT OUT, unless when its ok to be, and even then I dont think people can tell. In a way it just makes me uncomfortable, plus Ive got my career, and unfortunately, I dont need the attention. Even tho I COULD be OUT, its just not my thing, tho I`m not opposed to those who are. I think this is the closest I get to telling people Im gay, which is probably why I dont know that many gay people. I’m very closeted out in public. When I was in a relationship, most people thought we were brothers. Youd be amazed at how well that just seemed to work for us. Lets see, what else. I don`t like to play games, or get caught up in the whole hit the internet for sex thing, tho I think its pretty awesome way to make some new friends, and get to know people first before you find out their into some really off the wall shit, or they owe everybody money.
As for Sex Im versatile, experimental, and am Drug/Disease free, safe, and HIV-NEG, (And plan to stay that way). I enjoy cuddling, kissing and exploring new things. Im a hopeless romantic and dedicate my existance to my music, my significant other and my friends. Let me go back and define experimental – it does not include, leather, [email] piercing, or any of the freaky shit there shouldnt even be a name for it kinda stuff. Believe me, Ive been to Germany, Netherlands, Australia, and some other pretty way out countries that have some pretty off the wall stuff going on there, then again I guess LA has its share of scary shit too.
So, there it is. if your interested in possibly a basic friendship, with NSA, maybe someone to get to know and someday hang out with and do the whole dinner, clubs, movies thing, hit me up and we can get to know each other. I’m even kewl with just chatting online, again - NO Expectations. If you got a pic you want to send that would be awesome, Please just make sure its yours, I dont10d to take alot of pictures, they just never seem to make me look like me. PS this1 was taken 4/20/08 on my cell phone at Disneyland with my mom, she is my world. The rest are of me doing my thing - Told you I dont take good pics.
Peace Out ~~
Kris
Age: 37 |
seeks gay dating in
North Hollywood,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
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