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______INTO AUTHENTICITY AND PERSONAL GROWTH,
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UPFRONT: I may not answer if:
---- 1) NOT into: super Smooth or Clean Shaven, (East Asians, Twinks, kids)--If you are Clean shaven, live outside the USA, smoke, drug, or way out-of-shape:
---- 2) NOT into: cigarettes, cologne, bourgeois values, fanatics, addictions – but I am not afraid of demons, yours or mine -but I’ve got to meet mine
---- 3) I am a Dawg:: Loyal but Polyandrous, Meritocratic, Androphilic, Authentocracy demanding--- a butt-lickin leg humper - (NOT the doggie hood at Folsom kind)
Men are not LT monogamous, fess up!
---- 4) I love butch Authentic Men, connected to themselves, looking for HIV-, drug free, non-jaded, out-of-fashion men
---- 5) Crazy for Hairy Italian looks
---- ME
I am a systems/builder kinda guy: restaurants, business software, social media, special effects (laser) director, builder, Realtor, Plant Geek, Science wonk, SmartGrowth/Sustainability dude.
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I’m told I’m Good looking (my Mendocino Finn ancestors!)
6’2 180 silver S&P short hair, goatee, very hairy chest, legs, butt--HAIRY!
---- SEX: I am an enthusiastic Top or sometimes a great b0tt0m for Dads or DL guy. Can be kinky and open to ur fetishes. In love I am very versatile and indulgent.
I’m not sex-centric
---- INTO: I have avocations/mission/purpose- ideas, computers, NPR, botany, sustainability, entrepreneur, graphics, big words, cuisine, creating stuff
---- GAY: polyandry, Mens work, balance, intelligence, leather/cowboy bars, old barber shops NOT Into: Cher, Barbara, Movies, TV, Pop-Culture
---- SPIRIT: Classic California Native with Hawaii Ohana/Aloha flavor. Raised Hindu, but more buddhist/Pagan/Unitarian. Very into ManKind Project. I know that “Gay” is a made up American idea. I have an entire “topology” about shadow and demons and the chains th[----]nk men around – and I have written a show about this.
---- LOVE: Im very affectionate, cuddly and I had my ruff lessons, can be a caretaker and mentor.
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YOU: Strong, Interesting Men or Subs
---Working cl [email] outdoorsy fvck buds
--- b0tt0m Subs for LTR
---Daddies LTR
Facial Hair, short-hair, in shape, sportive, Non-Smoker, DDF
be authentic, not perfect
---- PLEASE not into: shallow, pretending, rabid, dogma, twinks, new-age babblers, pnp etc
The Strongest Leader is vulnerable - Loyalty, Openness, Humility and accepting responsibility for your own projections Fessin’ up - BIG TURNONS
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Much Aloha My Brothers
Age: 54 |
seeks gay dating in
Long Beach,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
2.
centered, educated, compassionate, nice looking ma Out and comfortable with that, have 2 grown kids- was single dad for long time-, retired from being health care provider. Have centered my life around raising my kids, now have a whole new phase ahead of me. Have just rented a house in Mexico, plan to spend parts of year there. I`d love to find somebody to form a real bond with, share what life has to offer. In short, I`m ready for the right man. But I am not so needy that just anybody will do. I`m a low maintenance kind of guy, but loyal, a good friend, caring. Also rather serious, intelligent, and spiritual- a practicing buddhist.1 cannot really capture a life or person in just a few words, but if you want to know more, just ask. Age is not an issue with me- I have met twits of all ages. lol OK, full disclosure- I have been poz for over 20 yrs, never had trouble with it- but if that freaks you, so be it. And for some, it will be a deal breaker, I know. But better to start off knowing than have to work thru it later. OK, hope to hear from you. I have given this till end of August before I decide to cancel. Hope something comes of the venture. :)
Age: 59 |
seeks gay dating in
North Central,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
4.
Looking to contact good looking people. I like zen meditation and I’m looking for a buddhist boyfriend to practice together.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Oviedo,
AsturiasSPAIN
5.
Looking to contact Buddhist friends Looking to contact buddhist friends. I’m not seeking the attainment of Buddha-hood, because it may be unpractical, but I do know that life is temporary and samsara - reincarnation is true, what we possess materially is impermanent and my be gone tomorrow.
Age: 34 |
seeks gay dating in
My Tho,
Hcmc,
Tien GiangVIET NAM
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Tom Looking For Huck Finn A mystic by Nature,1 cannot help but connect. That is what Taoist do. We connect things.
Things inside with things outside. Things Above with Things Below...inside our bodies.
(Factoid: Kegel’s exercises were actually a very small bit of wu shu training he learned from Wish Asian Uncles.)
These very visceral and ancient arts10d to make men fall in love with me. They are dears, but they are mistaken.
One finally understands, besides the groovy muscle-control, it’s all the chi, of course. Lovers get a fix of all that life Force that1 is honored to associate with and BAM! Addiction.
Simply makes deep, abiding relationships tricky. My mystical Huck understands these things...and their value in the world of men...and the fact that they lead, if nowhere else, to extended male orgasm.
Lol!
Like all mystic poets,1 struggles, but1 moves closer to Tao (or god if you prefer) daily. My mind, body and spirit reflect that.
One is a North American Taoist.That does not mean buddhist-Lite.
We are, in reality, much closer in outlook (and practice) to the First Nation Peoples of North America.
One is very much a real, live tiger among gay men and NOT for everyone.
I am powerful, bold and unconcerned (sometimes) with the opinions of sheep...whether they call themselves bears or no.
But My man will hear this:
I am a trained technical writer/editor by profession.
I am well educated but by no means snobbish. Equally comfortable in suits or jeans, in the mud or in the city...tho, like Chuang Tzu, I generally would pick the mud, myself.
I have studied internal Chinese martial arts and alchemy for 20 years and was infantry before that. So you’re lover could literally have your back in MANY ways.
Hear me? My Jaguar-Man will.
I am comfortable in many different cultures and available to travel on a whim..and do...as Tao recognizes no borders.
Finally, gentlemen,1 is very sensual, sexual and free...Think, TomKat.
Just want an international Tom Sawyer to my Huck Finn.
Jaguar Men = Playful, intelligent, illusive and adventurous these men often never got in the box in the first place.
Scrappers all & Fierce Faeries among us. Gay men that walk their own road.
So,
Why date gay, Canadian Jaguar-Men?
Simple.
Why the hell wouldn’t I?
Look, if you can really grok the words I’m writing, I’d like to hear from you.
Too, I lived in Europe for2 years. I saw how civilized people live.And though shot at for them, my fellow ’mericans don’t feel I’m whole enough to deserve equality.
They do not want gay, Taoist, mystical artists in the us, so they do not deserve US.
One feels this is a very Canadian view of things.
Oh, and as a writer, I have my own money and can work as we travel.
Let’s go EVERYWHERE, Huck.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
North,
Boulder,
Colorado (CO)
USA
7.
On the Joyful Path Looking for on-line friendships; Explore what being buddhist is all about. Also interested in being raised (culturally) Jewish and the connections. Yoga instructor, massage therapist, Dharma artist, community-minded
Age: 48 |
seeks gay dating in
East Side,
Madison,
Wisconsin (WI)
USA
8.
Gay Independent Nichiren Buddhist, Non-Sectarianbuddhist friends and dharma buddies. GLBTI buddhists to chant and meditate with in Iowa.
Age: 49 |
seeks gay dating in
Central,
Des Moines,
Iowa (IA)
USA
9.
Lets meet and connect Single active personality,goal oriented, buddhist (spirituality) and grounded man looking for SINGLE AVAILABLE complement. Height and weight proportionate thru excercise. HIV and healthy. Sexually well versed in all areas of enjoyment, more as a top and willing to expand this with the right person. In the process of moving to Portland, Oregon in June 2010 from New Jersey. More when we meet personally. Not interested in sexual hookups or1 night stands. Intersted in building a connection and relatoonship with my mate and seeing if this can develop into something more meaningful as time pases by.
Age: 59 |
seeks gay dating in
Near Psu,
Portland,
Oregon (OR)
USA
10.
Gay buddhist looking for buddhist friends. I am a single gay buddhist who has settled down in Columbia County with my best friend. I am looking to meet other gay buddhists for friendship, either online or in person (NYC or Albany). I have been practicing for more than 10 years ... no particular lineage, but have been taught by Vietnamese and Korean zen monks. I meditate daily. My interests include the arts (especially classical music), movies, books, cooking, and what’s going on in the world. I love nature and live surrounded by it, but also love urban life. I was raised Jewish, and so am a JuBu.
Age: 65 |
seeks gay dating in
Stuyvesant Columbia County,
Albany,
New York (NY)
USA
11.
Curious explorer of life here... Looking for long term partner who is on the buddhist path.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
N Austin,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
13.
Educated Mindful and Compassionate Italian Male Centered, well balanced practicing buddhist. Into nature, health and well being. Looking for like minded male individuals who are complete unto themselves as I am, and willing to grow and share lives.
Enjoy:
meditation, yoga, music,travel, sailing, gym, cooking, fine arts, gardening and being mindful.
Breath in deep, breathe out and touch my heart!
In the medical profession both western and eastern. DDF and Hiv/std neg.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Westport,
New York,
City (City)
USA
14.
Social worker/artist large man working on re-inhabiting his body in a health way. Totally healthy ex Social worker/artist large man working on re-inhabiting his body in a health way. Totally healthy except for extra weight that is being worked off. I am open to a wide range of activities and have the ability to be present in the moment with what arises. Nature lover, art lover, sensate touch lover, mild to wild safe sex lover - as long as both parties are acting with respect for each other`s experience in the contact/adventure/exploration, buddhist spiritually based guy.
Age: 53 |
seeks gay dating in
Pleasure Point,
Santa Cruz,
California (CA)
USA
15.
Single gay man looking for a stable relationship I am a single openly gay man. I`m 35 years old, 6`3" tall, 155 pounds, with a 30" waist. I am 1/2 American Indian and 1/2 Northern European in descent. I`m HIV negative, and free of any other STDs. I was born on November 5th which makes me a Scorpio. I`m a registered nurse and currently work as a supervisor in a nursing home. I live in New Orleans in an apartment that I rent. I enjoy reading, and I like to draw and paint. I enjoy riding my bike and dancing. My favorite types of music are trance, rave, new age, world music, and classical. I rarely drink alcohol, I don`t smoke, and I don`t use recreational drugs. I spend most of my free time, creating art and socializing with my friends. I enjoy traveling and have visited Central and South America, Europe, and Northern Africa. I speak Spanich well and French poorly. I`m very liberal in my political beliefs. I am clear in my mind about who I am as a person, and what goals I have for my life. My strongest points are I`m open minded, patient, generous, and creative with a great deal of imagination. My weakest points are I`m introverted, detail oriented, and cautious. I`m primarily a buddhist and a Sufi in my spiritual beliefs. I also study A Course in Miracles. My fundamental ideal in life is to become a more loving, kind, compassionate, and joyful person. I realize that the creation of a happy and lasting relationship takes work, and involves compromise. I also realize that it is highly unlikely that I will find the perfect guy of my dreams to love me. With that in mind this is a list of the qualities I find most attractive among men, to use as a barometer of comparison. (Just in case you`ve read this far and you`re thinking, "I kind of like this guy, I wonder if I`m the kind of guy he likes"): Openly gay, Around my age, Seeking a commited LTR, Intelligent and creative, Well educated, Gentle and kind, In touch with his feelings, Spiritual, Mature with a clear understanding of himself, Has a healthy sexuality, A b0tt0m sexually, Enjoys activity, Able to support himself financially.
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Magazine St Uptown,
New Orleans,
Louisiana (LA)
USA
16.
Lets see.... I had moved to sunny miami about two years ago. I am originally from northern new jerse Lets see.... I had moved to sunny miami about2 years ago. I am originally from northern new jersey! I now live in Hallandale Beach. I love to laugh, especially at myself, and I love people who see life in the same way. I love people who live their lives to the fullest, who are willing to try anything once, and either have a good laugh about it later, or actually incorporate it into their life. I do not practice an organized religion, but if I had to explain, I would say that I`m quite spiritual and follow buddhist beliefs. I meditate and also practice Feng Shui. I am a Reiki Practitioner. Due to these spiritual practices, I am studying sport and therapeutic massage as well as neuromuscular therapy, Aromatherapy, Shiatsu, Reflexology, Ayurvedic practices, Chinese Medicine and Bach Flower...to name a few! LOL I dont believe that anything is wasted time...life is a journey, and should be treated as such. I believe that the true measure of a man`s real character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out. I10d to be an affectionate person, who is honest, respectful, supportive and loving. I hope to meet someone with those same qualities. The connection begins with the search for your own heartbeat... A heart that is yearning to expose its inner sanctum in the presence of a familiar light. This light shines not within another... It is first discovered within you. Knowing, that to experience true love and connection you must bring it forth in the beat of your own heart. Embraced with respect, love and truth, the creation within impacts the world with joy and light... Blazing so bright, a racing, honest beat emerges with virginal breath and aged patience. It sends out a powerful pulse... Searching to connect to another... Praying, trusting, opening on its voyage to experience the reality of love...Filled in1`s self, reflected in another. The connection begins... I would like to meet someone who profoundly moves me. I would be open to the possibility of a romantic relationship with that person.
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Hallandale,
Miami,
Florida (FL)
USA
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Smart Student Seeks Outgoing Man for Dating, More I’m an easy-going, sensitive, intellectual, idealistic, and spiritual-minded person who would like to date and eventually form a long-term relationship. While at first I can be shy getting to know somebody, I quickly warm up if I sense an interest and attraction in the other person.
I enjoy balancing a healthy social connection with other people with my privacy and personal space. I have a decent-sized, not a gigantic, circle of friends--I believe in quality of friendship over quantity, I value the friendships I forge, and I am loyal and constant to those who have earned my trust and proved similarly loyal to me.
I also enjoy an ironic sense of humour. I like outrageous stand-up comedy, shock humour, and even some insult comedy. My own style of humour is extremely subtle and nuanced, barely detectable on the radar--if you can detect it and avoid standing there like an impassive, poker-faced sheep, that’s half the battle won! I believe that a wild sense of humour is vital to mental health--a therapeutic, even cathartic, release from stress--and that we need to take ourselves a little less seriously. I’m kind of eccentric, chaotic, and unpredictable.
I have a strange smattering of tastes which range from Old English literature to science fiction and fantasy. The type of person I’d like to meet would be more outspoken and enjoy my soft-spoken way, even finding it attractive.
I’d like to meet somebody who complements my social habits--somebody who has a bold, assertive personality, whose self-confidence is evident (but not cloying), who is prodded on to explore my reflective personality, and who appreciates and even thrives on it.
My ’match’ needn’t possess my desired sense of humour ’to a T’, but he does need to enjoy it, especially when it surfaces in me. Of course, if he has this type of humour, that’s a bonus.
Overall, I’d like to meet someone with similarly eclectic interests. For example, a buddhist punk-rocker might fit this description. I like ’em paradoxical and rough around the edges. The permutations are endless!
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
West End,
Vancouver,
British ColumbiaCANADA
18.
Looking to meet other Buddhist men for friends or possible dating. Looking to meet other buddhist men for friends or possible dating.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Midown,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
20.
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Black,Latin,Asian,Latin,Mixed ..Your Dick Size Big should not be the sum of who you are I hope.Im looking for a Man with that,and a little more to offer..like a Independent Spirit...Someone that can enjoy a Hike in the Woods,Black Sand Beach,across The Golden Gate Bridge or spend a Rainy day Reading to each other,Cooking,Dancing,Fucking..I love Jazz,Soul,Blues and Social and Politically Conscience Hip Hop..
Im Very Open to Meeting Positive, Creative, Nonconformist TopSon,that can follow my lead..
Age: 53 |
seeks gay dating in
San Francisco,
California (CA)
USA
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