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A Good-hearted leather musclecowboy in San Diego Send me mail at sdwulfdawg (at) [----] ([----]) com
IN A FEW WORDS....
A loyal and educated very fit but muscled guy -- very much his own bear in T-shirts, blue jeans and work boots most of the time -- looking for a few good friends. I`m a marketing communications/graphic design/multimedia professional, and a symphony musician who likes to blow -- eh, play, eh...his trumpet. (Almost 6`1, 225 lbs., some kind of facial hair except on my head...where I voluntarily and regularly shave smooth what God is involuntarily taking away from me.)
I have no use for pomposity, stupidity, or disloyalty. Or, as someone said to me the other day, I`d rather be beaten by skill and grace, than with deception and subterfuge.
SOME OF MY INTERESTS: Music performance (trumpet and piano), multimedia and filmmaking, acting, theater, live music, outdoor activities (hiking, camping, etc.). (By the way, camping for is putting up a10t in the wilderness and not renting a room at the Holiday Inn Express next to the Interstate highway.)
AND NOW FOR THE REST OF THE STORY....
For that matter, trying so very hard to be super butch without a soul is another form of drag -- and shows me that you have some very serious major unresolved issues which probably are being discussed behind your back by others. The fact is that there is really no difference between a drag queen with big hair and stiletto heels, or someone who tries to impress and scare the world with big tattoos and dressed in leather drag working overtime trying to look menacing when they are actually trying to mask their severe lack of self-esteem (or their need for a psychiatrist). More often than not, these posers often get themselves pictured in front of their needlepoint on the wall, antiques and stuffed animals in the background. Or for that matter, there is little difference between someone who goes around with the smell of hairspray and cologne and those who have no concept of regular and daily personal hygiene. Don`t be hiding behind Tibetan Singing Bowls, healing crystals, and another materialistic signs of new ageism and spiritualism or other dogmas unless you really mean it and feel it in your heart and your gut. While I respect those who are strong in their spiritual beliefs, I have no use for the evil-angelicals or evil-unethicals.
For me, the meaning of life is about being incredibly human, CONSIDERATE, open and honest with some secrets that are not life shattering to be discovered by others! I have no objections you being dressed up in your leather and harness (skin of a dead cow dyed black), but just be a nice person, be honest, be intellectually honest, have a good sense of humor, and don`t try to make yourself out to be someone who you really are not. Live your life so that when you die, you`re the1 who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
In return, if the chemistry is right, chances are that you`ll meet a kindhearted, straightforward, and upfront and principled guy with an occasionally wicked and whacked sense of humor who actively tries to maintain a NO DRAMA zone around him. While I`m not afraid to a bit goofy at the right time and place...I`m most definitely no vacuous male version of Paris Hilton. (Vacuous: 1. Devoid of matter; empty. 2. Lacking intelligence; stupid. 3. Devoid of substance or meaning; inane: a vacuous comment.)
By the same token, often times I am astonished at the lack of diversity on tolerance in the community. We expect everyone else in the world to practice tolerant to the gay community, but I`ve seen too often than not situations where individuals (and organizations) practice ageism, lack of tolerance to ethnic backgrounds, physical disabilities, etc. It makes me sick to my stomach when I see when it happens and I shun those situations with a deep sense of disgust and indignation. (Indignation: 1. He moved about in so utterly ridiculous a manner that the beasts, in a fit of indignation, set upon him with clubs and drove him out of the assembly. (Aesop`s Fables) 2. outrage 3. a strong emotion; a feeling that is oriented toward some real or supposed grievance.)
IN OTHER WORDS....
If the previous paragraph was too long, here it is in a Reader`s Digest version: I hate posers and people that live for drama and backstabbing. I go out of my way to treat people the way I want to be treated. I really make an effort to not let the little things bother me and I just want to enjoy my wonderful life here on earth and hopefully with someone who loves me endlessly, and will allow me to give the same in return.
And please, for everyone`s sake -- 1) be pleasant, 2) have integrity, 3) be nice to others (but don`t be a doormat), and 4) live life as if you MEAN IT!
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Ca,
San Diego,
California (CA)
USA
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check my profile and see my email address ,,let ch pls email me on [email] not a paying member , let chat on my email [email] am an interesting, educated, open minded, humorous, fun, well-read,-passionate lesbian looking for i am an interesting, educated, open minded, humorous, fun, well-read,-passionate lesbian looking for the same to date...hopefully a long term relationship. i like to play sports, drink dirty gin martinis, spend time with family, volunteer for charities, watch movies, play scrabble, listen to music and discuss lyrics(especially indigo girls...other artists i like include- ani, cake, fleming and john, tracy chapman, jewel, patsy cline, beastie boys, madonna, billie holliday, al green, mary chapin carpenter etc etc) i believe in living life to the fullest, fighting for what you believe is right and giving back to the-munity. i also believe, that above all, laughing is the most important thing in the world!ople.
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Nevada,
Las Vegas,
Nevada (NV)
USA
3.
Just here to tell my husband to come come. My husband and I are not seperated but my husband is temporaraly at his parents 3 sates away. I love my husband very deeply. We were having money problems only no marital problems. So this should not be happening. The problem is friends and family give advice because he thought of suicide when I wasn`t home due to an emergency for a day, they told him the beast place to be was at his mothers and not with me. All the friends and I am sure family too say to him not to come back. I am not going to give up and my husband told me our marriage is not over yet to hold on. It`s been 30 days and I am ready for him to come home! Our wedding anniversary is coming up on June 6th, we wnt to Canada to make it legal! We love each other and what ever problems we have we need to work it out face to face together not on the phone. I love you John please come home I miss you terriblly!
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Southaven,
Memphis,
Tennessee (TN)
USA
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i am an interesting, educated, open minded, humorous, fun, well-read,-passionate lesbian looking for i am an interesting, educated, open minded, humorous, fun, well-read,-passionate lesbian looking for the same to date...hopefully a long term relationship. i like to play sports, drink dirty gin martinis, spend time with family, volunteer for charities, watch movies, play scrabble, listen to music and discuss lyrics(especially indigo girls...other artists i like include- ani, cake, fleming and john, tracy chapman, jewel, patsy cline, beastie boys, madonna, billie holliday, al green, mary chapin carpenter etc etc) i believe in living life to the fullest, fighting for what you believe is right and giving back to the-munity. i also believe, that above all, laughing is the most important thing in the world!
Age: 27 |
seeks gay dating in
Midtown,
Memphis,
Tennessee (TN)
USA
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21, 5`9", 180lbs. Blak hair, hazel eyes. I get along with everyone and always like meeting new peop 21, 5`9", 180lbs. Blak hair, hazel eyes. I get along with everyone and always like meeting new people. I love the people God has put in my life and truely appreciate all my friends.~~Sometime we put up walls to cage the beast within, sometimes to block him out. For me they`re there to see who can past them and their trials to get to me.~~ Looking for someone willing to past these trials. I want to find a friend. Not the type you call once in a while but the type that never stops being your friend no matter what. I want a partner, lover, friend, confidant...someone I can adore and love. Someone who is lookin 4 the same and is not just interested in the way sum1 lookes, but also their personality.
Age: 21 |
seeks gay dating in
Aurora,
Denver,
Colorado (CO)
USA
6.
http://www.requestadate/langloimsw Some about me: Sometimes I shave, sometimes I don`t. Last movie s http://www.requestadate/langloimsw Some about me: Sometimes I shave, sometimes I don`t. Last movie seen: The Fast Runner, a 3 hour Inuit saga. Bucky from Get Fuzzy cracks me up. I`m adopting a dog. I want children. Knee-deep in the great Amerian novel, sidetracked by literary criticism. Recent authors browsed: Dickinson, Dillard. Hiking is cool. Only 2 hours of regular TV weekly: Buffy and6 Feet Under. I have returned to the gym but refuse to be-e fanatic. Run Lola Run is the best running music this side of the beastie Boys. Places I`ve been recently: Iceland, Labrador, Newfoundland. Most recent (surprisingly) fun household task: tearing up a floor. Least fun: painting. Likes: Coffee. Chocolate. Hello Kitty, Dark Shadows, poetry slams, humor, integrity, stubborn disagreement, psychology, New Yorker cartoons, Economist. Not dramatic, interesting. Not baggage, character. Not-plicated, honest. Sushi, BBQ, diners, folk music, NPR, my hammock. Loyal, capable, offbeat. Stubborn, insightful and loveable. Anime night at Brattle. Rosie`s cupcakes, 1369 coffeehouse, Sandwiches at Darwins, Walden Pond, road trips to Maine and points North. Bumming around Cambridge. Notice how sex is not discussed or described in this personal. Have seen how great a LTR can be: So not in a hurry. In the meantime, spontaneity, laughter, and a note with picture are good things.
Age: 32 |
seeks gay dating in
Somerville,
Boston,
Massachusetts (MA)
USA
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I`am a good guy ,i`am not a very good looking man but neither a beast. I`am looking a sex date just I`am a good guy ,i`am not a very good looking man but neither a beast. I`am looking a sex date just that
Age: 24 |
seeks gay dating in
Grand Rapids,
Michigan (MI)
USA
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Hey, Im looking for a cute, sane, guy around my age for friendship and hopefully more. Feel Free to Hey, Im looking for a cute, sane, guy around my age for friendship and hopefully more. Feel Free to ask any questions you`d like. DJbeastonMA- [----]
Age: 21 |
seeks gay dating in
Easton South Shore,
Boston,
Massachusetts (MA)
USA
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I dunno sky`s the limit. I`m a fly by the seat of my pants kinda guy when it-es to relationships. So I dunno sky`s the limit. I`m a fly by the seat of my pants kinda guy when it-es to relationships. So what I`m looking for is you I guess and what happens we`ll take from there. Anyway if you want to talk to me on AIM my s/n is DabeastHTDAANFPP
Age: 18 |
seeks gay dating in
Arlington,
Dallas,
Texas (TX)
USA
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