trent321
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4.
Sincere, warm, fun, intelligent, serious, confiden I guess I talk a lot here mostly about how I feel and think about marriage (to a guy, I hope) and things related to that, but I think you see a lot about me as a friend by what I say, too, and I do enjoy chatting with different people of all types, even if it is only friends -- though as you can see, I will be very happy to find more with the right person!
Ako ay pag-aaral ng kaalaman tungkol sa filipino kultura at maraming mga bagay-bagay na ginawa ng isang malalim na impression sa akin at gulat ako bilang tunay sumasamo, at ang pahinga, mabuti at masama, ay napaka-interesante sa akin. Marami sa mga tao doon, hindi lahat ng course, ay masyadong mainit-init, masayahin at walang awa sa sarili sa adversity, at higit sa lahat, nagpapahayag at masigasig - tulad ko na. Subalit kung saan ko mahahanap ang tamang tao, na may mga katangian o sa iba discover ko, ang kanilang lahi o nasyonalidad ay hindi mahalaga. Ako ay hindi nagsasalita ng tagalog, ingles lamang, sa gayon ito ay computer-isinalin (ginamit ko ang online na kasangkapan sa http://translation.imtranslator.net/translate/default.asp )..... Umaasa ako na ito ay hindi sabihin ang anumang bagay na kasuklam-suklam o nakakahiya sa pamamagitan ng aksidente, hehe!
I apologize if it is hard to read....it is hard to find how to express everything in the simpest clearest way....but I hope you can notice the important things --
I enjoy talking to new people, so send me a message or let me know you’re interested to know more about me -- I think my membership allows anyone to send me a message, but I’m not totally sure of that. I would like to meet new friends, and eventually I would like to find someone special for marriage. The best relationship for me is where both people are different but equal -- equal in respect, understanding, honesty, reliability, comfort with everything about the other person, curiosity about each other, care and consideration, initiative with each other etc. In general, it should add up to equal, but each person can be very different from the other.
I really enjoy jolly people with an affectionate playful sense of humor who are engaging and just feel good to be with. People who are honest, warm, genuine, a mischievous sense of humor (or enjoy that in another!), curious about life, enjoy life, intelligent, earnest, so many other things I enjoy. I am very curious person, honest, interested in many things, science, politics, human nature, I love to read books about engineering and the story of how things were invented or challenges were overcome, and I want to have a deep trust and comfort with a person where I can be open and feel deeply and they can too. I love music and play the piano, compose songs sometimes, enjoy outdoor explorations, making things, many other things.
And ideal of mine is that we each will also share our own weaknesses with the other, and get to know, and care for the other’s weaknesses, too, accepting those vulnerabilities and weaknesses in a safe haven, while also supporting each other however we can so those weaknesses do not hold back each other individually, or hold us back as partners in life.
I think I would like someone who thinks of adopting children, or who is open to the idea of helping young people in need get a better start in life if and when we as a married couple are so fortunate to have the time or resources to be able to do that.
I have been single for 4 years, after I broke up with my previous boyfriend after we had been together for about 6 years. I have learned a lot about myself and about life and about other people in my years, including during my last relationship and in the 4 years since, and I feel very secure in my priorities and very much ready to know the right person if I find him, and I’m very serious about finding somebody for marriage for life this time. : ) If I don’t find someone where we both will be very good for each other and bring out the best possibilities in each other and be very happy together, I will remain alone. : (
I would of course do whatever it takes to relocate to another country, or work equally with my partner to help him relocate (to1 of our original countries, or a third country) so we can be together -- if I’m fortunate enough to find my partner for life and he is in another part of the world.
I acknowledge that age and looks also both affect my attraction to and response to a person, I think this is true to some degree for most people, just some more or less than others --- for me, I relate sometimes to a younger age I think partly because I feel a sense of adventure, and most of all, new discovery, and a new beginning at this time of my life, and I am an idealistic, passionate, exploring and exuberant person by nature, and relate to that sense of those things in some young people even though those things were buried and lost from me for way too much of my adult life (I can tell you more about that when we chat or talk if you want), and maybe also because I missed so much of life in my younger years and now I’m finally ready to go, hehe --- anyway, I accept that about myself (yet a kind of solidness and maturity, like a person with an old soul which has known much of life beyond his years, is also very very beautiful to my own soul and to my admiration of a person). But this is something that varies according to the person....for example here in the U.S., I don’t relate in an intimate way to most of the much younger people that much, perhaps people here mature much older in life, not until their 30s, and maybe are not as open-hearted and idealistic either (I know that’s a horrible generalization, everybody is a unique individual, even in the USA, but still I notice this)....but sometimes I feel more of a real connection to some younger people in other cultures, though there are also things I don’t understand yet and I don’t know what to feel or think about them.
One more thing about the age thing -- I’ve given a lot of thought to it, and here’s my feeling about1 aspect of it -- I think it’s possible and sometimes good if there is a big age gap, but when it comes to marriage both people have to think very honestly and realistically about the future and look into their hearts, especially the younger1. I will try to stay healthy and energetic and vital and attractive until I am at least 120, but if I fail, the younger1 will the1 who is frustrated, or won’t be able to enjoy his full capacities for joyful interactions, or who may be robbed of a strong shoulder to lean on and nurture him, or who may be burdened or have worries or sadness about his spouses failing health or fading light, or who may be left alone. What might seem good for now with a big age gap may look very different to the younger1 in 25 or 30 years, or less. It doesn’t mean it’s impossible or that it can’t be wonderful if the2 people are very special to each other, but it’s something to think about....in this instance, honest soul-searching and serious thought is important -- about this issue, youthful abandon is not the way to go!
But anyway, I will give up some of both of those things for other things, things that bring joy and meaning and feeling when you get to know someone closely, for what is really good and will make the most difference over a lifetime . . . when I see those strong and deep qualities of character in a person and lovely personality, I just love being in the presence of those things, interacting and sharing with them ..... I feel an equality, a trust in their appreciation of life, a joy. . . and 20 extra years or beady eyes and a big nose and ears and slightly snaggly teeth become endearing to me, hehe . . . they become my new type. . . can you understand that?
In romance I am nurturing and affectionate, playful, emotionally open and intimate, confident, sometimes rambunctious, very passionate when we share something intensely in a full way for both people, and I am versatile, but I am more towards being a top with most people I’m attracted to.
Oh, also I don’t want a marriage that is isolated or cut off from the rest of the world, or from friends and family . . . in other words, I like to be ourselves wherever we go, just be open and free and friendly with all the people in our society, and live a normal social and family life, not hide away by ourselves all the time (only sometimes, hehe).
And I think the most important thing of all for both people is that they are can rely on each other, to be honest, sincere, reliable, thoughtful and caring to the other as you would like him to be to you.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Hilltop,
Seattle Tacoma,
Washington (WA)
USA
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jiminord
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5.
A nice guy looking for new friends. I am in all honesty just about the nicest guy anyone would want to meet as either a fun person to hang out with, a lasting friend or a committed partner. I have a sincerely kind and generous personality. I am very happy to not fit into the typical lifestyle of many gay men in today’s world. I do NOT care for the bar scene for several reasons. I have my profile on this site in the hopes of contacting, maybe even meeting other masculine gay men who also have little care for all the silly games that, sadly, many gay men continue to play, even well into their 50s. I am looking for other, again, masculine, men who are also individuals of solid character, depth, integrity and who have within themselves a sincere, kind and generous heart. I am interested in nice looking men around the ages of 35-52. I possess a good, in shape body and am in excellent health. If you are looking for someone with rock hard abs and a killer body, I am not for you and you, not for me. I am interested in men who have height and weight proportionate to each other; who are also in good physical shape. There must always be mutual physical attraction between any2 people, but what really matters is the soul of the person; the depth of character, the level of integrity and the sincerity of heart. A great sense of humor and ability to laugh often also goes a long, long way. I know this profile will cause many men who read these words to not want anything to do with me. And that is OK. For what I hope this profile also accomplishes is to enable me to...separate the wheat from the chaff. I what only good wheat, grown in good soil. While I have needs just like anyone else and as such am open to some possible play along the way, my intent is not focused on finding sexual hook ups. For1 who has matured and grown into true adulthood, life is not just about seeking instant gratification. What I truly desire to find is genuine and meaningful connections with other gay men. I have an established, professional job for 18 years with the same company. You also should be well employed or in this poor economy, actively seeking new employment. I am a practicing Catholic and while I consider myself a spiritual man, I also recognise my need still do better in living the kind of loving, compassionate life that the Gospels call me to live. Again, these words will cause many gay men to have no interest in me. Again, I am not looking for numbers, but quality. I live right on the very edge of Lake Michigan in Chicago. If you closed your eyes while on my deck you would not know you were not on an ocean beach. The sound of the waves is so peaceful and why I love my condo. While I live in the city now, in a few years I plan to move to a place in the country. My plan is to have a nice home surrounded by trees on at least 4-8 acres of land with nice flowers, fresh vegetables from the garden, newly cut wood for the fireplace and hopefully, the Good Lord willing, a loving, sweet man sitting next to me on the front porch on our swinging bench drinking nice wine, while only listening to crickets and the sound of the wind moving through the trees. Oh, and yes a few great dogs by our side, preferably Golden Retrievers. I love to cook, drink single malt scotch and nice wines. I have a BFA in photography and love to paint. I love all kinds of music ESPECIALLY Country, Classical, Classic rock and movie scores, many from John Williams. I love music from the 1940s right through the 80s as well as some current music of today. I do not like rap or club music, which really is not music. Music is defined as that having a melody. I love live theater, going out to eat and looking through antiques stores and flee markets. I love history, world sciences, and things like the Discovery Channel. There is much more more you can find out about me if you want. If you do, you will find that I am really an amazing, kind, wonderful, nice looking guy. If you do not, then I simply and sincerely hope that you may find your heart’s desires in some other person yet to be found. Take care and have a wonderful life.
Jim in Chicago.
Age: 49 |
seeks gay dating in
Rogers Park,
Chicago,
Illinois (IL)
USA
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hryhornybttm
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Looking for loving, monogamus LTR I'm 46, 6'1", 240 lbs (need to tighten things yet), blk/grey hair (usually cut short), always a mustache and goatee most of the time, blue eyes (bedroom eyes I have been told). Like to receive what I give and vice versa, although prefer b0tt0m Descriptives: energetic, down to Earth, blue jeans and t-shirt, shorts,10nis shoes, boots, swimmer, sweaty, leather, cold beer, cuddling, big time kisser, romantic, hand holder, naturist, camping, travel, professional, educated, country boy, music lover, singer, movies.
Candlelight, fires, moonlight walks and swims ( [email] of course) are great ways to spend the time. I enjoy hiking, swimming, travel, movies - sci-fi especially, theatre, music, love to cook and damn good at it! Sexual compatibility is important. I am a nurturing and caring person. Always care for the man I am with and want to be cared for in return. Love to cuddle, kiss, long love making sessions. Especially enjoy making love outdoors. I enjoy learning and experiencing new things. While romantic, can be adventurous out in the woods to keep things interesting and exciting.
More specifics: I am kind of a nudist, and a leather man (the look and wearing it, not S&M). I enjoy traveling (even spur of the moment if I get a deal too good to refuse and I can take off of work). I am a music lover. I like country, dance, 80's retro and1 hit wonders, adult contemporary and new age. I enjoy trying new restaurants. I am more of an introvert but always looking to meet new friends.
Too many people take for granted the simplest things in a relationship. Falling asleep cuddling, midnight love making, waking up to take a shower together... Family is important, and want my partner to be part of my family and I part of his. I am a country boy at heart. I grew up in rural NE. Finally, I am HIV+ and have been for 9yrs. I am undetectable and very healthy. I want someone who accepts that upfront and either is poz or is very poz friendly. Am totally honest, probably to a fault. Will say what I am thinking even if it pisses someone off.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
St Louis,
Missouri (MO)
USA
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spiritwarrior
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Looking to contact good looking people.Single Successful Professional Enlightened adult Male.
50, 6ft, 165, Italian, Hiv- Dk Hair, Haz Eyes, Attractive Top
Considering an adult, stable, emotionally free and mature man for potential Friendship/Relationship. Marriage Material. Lifetime relationship Vs. long term. Interested in cool hip men with minds, heart, soul and good health and life. Fun loving and quality are key elements, good communication and personality are essential. Conservative and old fashioned in thoughts and ideas. Romance and affection offered for the right life affirming gentlemen.A good kisser is a must. Sports fan, and dog lover, father to2 loveable big dogs.Music, arts, sciences and most important to me is my faith
New to Alabama, NY/NJ transplant. Great personality, easy going, laid back. Likes to laugh,no games. Never was into bar scene/clubs drinking or drugs. Down to earth,Looking for real men who are spiritually connected and passionate about life. Caregiver by nature, not looking to [email] or play roles.I am looking for guys who know what committment means and is willing to give 100% of themselves.I am conservative in my thinking.Not into hook ups or looking for sexual encounters. While sex is vital to me,the heart and the mind come first. I prefer white guys similar in age and character.
I am looking for a semi/hairy b0tt0m man who is stable and grounded and sane. I am a romantic and want a romantic man to build a quality life with.I am not looking to rehabiliate anyone, or play therapist with you or your friends.I am looking for basically a masc reg guy who at this and point in time have learned what the finer things in life mean and have no pretenses about themselves.Social drinkers/smokers are fine but I do not want to be in a 12 step relationship, in or out of the bed.
If this resonates with you, and you feel you have something to offer, please feel free to respond. I am not looking to ’fall in love’. I want to take things slow and develope what will last a life time.
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
Birmingham,
Alabama (AL)
USA
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