1.
- Like a lot of people in Los Angeles, I’m hyphenated: contemporary art gallery owner - attorn - Like a lot of people in Los Angeles, I’m hyphenated: contemporary art gallery owner - attorney - writer.
- On the outside, I’m a Westernized, urban professional, but inside, I’m pretty much Chinese peasant.
- I’m confident, but kind; logical, but sentimental; fiercely romantic, but don’t care for most cliches of romantic gesture.
- I’m passionate about monogamy, in a seemingly post-monogamous world, but I do not rush into a relationship. Life is long.
- I’m a decent, sweet-natured, and loyal person, but also extremely sexual.
- I am out and proudly gay, but the world knows I am gay by the views and values I express, not by my mannerisms and speech, and I am usually most attracted to men who are the same way.
- I like the ocean, but love the woods; like sunshine, but love fog; love the city and the country equally. Hate parades, clowns, and pouty lips on men. Love the arts, but hate most examples of it. It used to be that artists suffered for their work. Now it’s usually their audiences who have to suffer.
- I am HIV-negative and other STD-negative, and would probably be most comfortable with the same (HIV results from 09-03-09, full STD panel from Dec. ’08, happy to exchange written results if you need).
- I am a spiritually-questing person and curious about various expressions of spirituality, but haven’t embraced any1 form of it (yet).
- Assorted turn-ons: confidence and charisma coupled with humbleness, a nice speaking voice, a love of words, good [email] skills (in both senses), an interest in foreign cultures, a love of animals, kindness to the elderly, lots of life experience, an ability to face crises with a cool head and good cheer, and a personal knowledge of what suffering, courage, and valour are. It also helps if you love what you do for a living.
- Some things I like: dogs, steampunk, taiko drumming, Chinese gardens, Zhang Yimou, Charlie Kaufman, Hayao Miyazaki, Krzysztof Kieslowski, Ang Lee, Tarantino, David Lynch, Philip Glass, Tchaikovsky, Beethoven, Wagner, Magnetic Fields, Interpol, Lady GaGa, Scissor Sisters, Arcade Fire, Siouxsie, Cocteau Twins, Rembrandt, Magritte, Lee Bontecou, Odd Nerdrum, Andy Goldsworthy, The Edison, Huntington Library, Japanese design, Art Deco, art-house martial arts films, conversations that don’t sound like they’re taking place in Los Angeles, Philip K. Dick, Austen, Poe (poetry only), Calvino, Borges. Best books I’ve read in past 5 years: Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norell, Years of Rice and Salt, The Arrival, A Canticle for Leibowitz.
- Piercings -- Prince Albert as well as both nipples pierced.
Age: 39 |
seeks gay dating in
West Hollywood,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
2.
I am looking for that special guy in my life. I am very romantic, love to kiss and cuddle, and touch I am looking for that special guy in my life. I am very romantic, love to kiss and cuddle, and touch. my stats:36,6`, 235 but losing, be-ing a MUSCLE BEAR, HAIRY, red goatee, buzzed blondish head hair, pierced ear, laid back, top
Age: 28 |
seeks gay dating in
Dorchester,
Boston,
Massachusetts (MA)
USA
3.
Looking for SEXY POZ or friendly men 4 play Facial,Chest,Back, it does'nt matter,just be masculine,HAIRY,pierced and ready to play!
Into laborer types with rough hands and big feet. I like eating out guys hairy assholes (not a prelude to topping you, unless you like to get fucked).
Natural man smells are a turn on; pits and feet big ++, and facial hair preferred.
I’m into body rubbing, kissing, suckin dick, jerkin each other off, 69, [email] play, jock straps, sexy underwear, boots, toys and giving massages.
Me: African-American 41 yrs of age, cute, 5'11,slim build,165lbs,33w, med brn complexion, light body hair, blk hair, brn eyes, moustache & goatee, piercing’s.
I Poz and very healthy, safe play OK
Age: 41 |
seeks gay dating in
Seatac,
Seattle Tacoma,
Washington (WA)
USA
4.
This is my brief intro. What to say?? I’m looking to meet or rather would like to meet a guy that I’d be physically attracted to. I10d to get guys that have ed zachary disease. Not that there’s not someone out there for them, I’m just not that someone. Some guys should ask themself, Would I date me?.
I’m picky and to be honest have absolutely no right to be. I’m told I’m attractive, but that’s from friends who care about me. I don’t see it. Would I date myself? I don’t know.
The guy I’d like to meet has to have some sort of morals. Not just convenience morals. I don’t play well with others and only share my ice cream, my love and my life. NOT my men.
I honestly don’t date well either. I’d prefer to have coffee and sit at the local Starbucks than to go to some fancy restaurant. Hell, take me to Mickey D’s and I’m happy.
I don’t stand on pretense and don’t stand for pretentiousness.
I’m guess’in you’ve read this far just to find out the good and bad. Well here it is.
I am HIV and have been for more than half my life. (24 years) I know who gave it to me and why. (he was a coward) That’s a long story, just suffice to say it wasn’t from sleeping around unprotected. I do practice safer sex since. I’m also Hep B and there are other ways of getting it, but we’re not sure how I did. I would prefer the man I date/encounter also be HIV . Sexually, I am a top. (no BBing) Nothing wrong with bottoming, just not my preferred method of sexual contact. I’m [email] and like dirty talk. My size is average and I’m pierced with a 00 Prince Albert. I have tattoo’s and nostril and nipple piercing as well. I’m bald and happy that I don’t have to spend my time fluffing my hair or spending $30.00 a month extra on hair care products.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Northwest,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
5.
Perv dom hvng guy luvs hairy pierced inked freaks Love svbm!ss!v* hairy inked and pierced freaks into body mods. Diease and drug free all honest type of employeed guy here. No hook ups, looking 4 a man with a open mind for a commitment.
Age: 34 |
seeks gay dating in
Northside,
Chicago,
Illinois (IL)
USA
6.
NOT INTERESTED IN ONLINE CHAT or SENDING SHORT RAPID NOTES Im a Single Attractive 37y/o Transsexua NOT INTERESTED IN ONLINE CHAT or SENDING SHORT RAPID NOTES Im a Single Attractive 37y/o Transsexual 57 (511 with heels), 155lbs. I am extremely feminine and quite serious about certain things. I am HIV-negative, neither tattooed nor pierced. I dont smoke, dont drink and I dont use drugs and a FEW similarities in a potential suitor would be spectacular. I have no children & do not mind dating single fathers. I speak a very little Spanish and have been told that Im a great cook among many other things. Completely honest, down-to-earth, open minded and good hearted. Always a positive attitude and a pleasant disposition until given a reason to show another side of me I possess a very loving supporting family and have many rewarding friends around the world and hopefully with our fingers crossed, you could become the next. We all have certain dislikes and likes and I can only dictate what is right for me. I am not interested in anyone for material gain or to find my way in life. The little things are more important, the big things are nice but does not define what I am about. In my free time I like to camp, barbecue, hang with family and friends, listen to a variety of music from Arabic to Opera, model/photography, play pool/darts, read a good book, write poetry, sew and design my own clothing, long walks with someone who is also non-materialistic, travel on the weekends and some.
Age: 38 |
seeks gay dating in
Northwest,
Las Vegas,
Nevada (NV)
USA
7.
Big Loving Cuddly Teddy Bear Looking for True love I`m a Hopelessly Romantic 39 Y/O, 6`4" 395 lb, Big Cuddly Teddy Bear. I am a Christian and Very Spiritual. I have been a member of Pottershouse Fellowship for 6 years and I Love My Church Family. I Live In Tampa Florida, and I am Also a Native of Florida. I`m pretty much a homebody, because I am Disabled due to Multiple Injury`s to my Neck and Back. I`m Not Paralyzed or anything like that, just ask me about it, don`t be shy. I have Blue/Green Eyes, they change depending on the day. I`ve got short Brown hair, with a Goatee and Side Burns most of the time, and I have both ears pierced with Surgical Steel & Heamatite Captive Hoops.
I`m an artist. I like to do Graphic Illustration, Design, and High Contrast Work. My Favorite Medium is Pencil, and Design Marker Renderings. I have done some Tattoo Design Work for a few friends, but not the actual Inking. I wanted to be a Car Designer, but due to family issues after High School, I ended up taking care of Family Instead. Check out some of my Art on my [----] Page at BearsNeedLove2.
I am a Car Nut! I`m into Fords,(I have a 97 Thunderbird LX 4.6 V8) I also Love Mustangs, Avanti, Studebaker`s, Lincoln Mark VII`s, and many more. I Always Go To the Turkey Rod Run in Daytona every Thanksgiving Weekend.
I am also a Movie Nut! I`m into Sci Fi, Fantasy, Action, Adventure, Comedy, Needless to say, I have a good size DVD and Video Collection. I also like to collect 1:18 scale Die Cast Metal Cars, Star Wars, and Alien Action Figures, and a few other toys.
My Favorite Band of All Time is Duran Duran, But....I Love all Kinds of Music. I know a Lot of People Say that, But In My Case it`s True. I Like Everything From Bluegrass, to Vivaldi. But The Kind of Music I Listen to Mainly is Trance/Techno, and 80`s New Wave and Punk, & Older Country. I am Not Crazy about Latin Music, Opera, or Hard Core Rap Though.
Age: 39 |
seeks gay dating in
Brandon - Valrico,
Tampa St Petersburg,
Florida (FL)
USA
8.
Smoking Leather Pig Seeks TwisTed/Raunchy Play. WHO I AM:
-Dominant SSir/Bruder lkg for svbm!ss!v* respectful subs to take care of SSir's many needs. SSir owns a few part-time slaves & open to more. SSir will submit on occasion too, but only 2 the few superior males who exist.
THE STATS:
-6'3, 200 lb, 33w, 44c, 35yo, Italian, buzzed brown hair, steel blue eyes, goatee, Tom-of-Finland tattoo. Intense fucker, butch, hairy, hard-wired thick pierced nips, veiny 8. 5 inch hole-wrecking tool w/ PA. Hairy [email] that loves a tongue worshipping it deep!
-Perverted, abusive, demanding, cigar/marlboro reds smoker, always horned up 4 full gear pigsex, rugged yet sensitive & spiritual, sexy as hell, like 2 cuddle & be rough & nasty. Make My slaves feel safe, secure, and fully used!
-Few limits and twisted.
WHAT TURNS MY CRANK:
-BIG f*t!sh 4: smoking, gloves, MY nips nursed just right, fisting & Master/slave exchange.
-cigars, pipe, cigarettes and smoke admirers
-leather, rubber, chaps, gloves, boots, uniforms, mirrored shades, tats, breath control, hardcore BDSM/CBT, pigsex, dogs, pigs, bears & cubs.
-Masculine men a MUST. . muscled men an extra treat.
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What I'm looking for: True pig, few limits, healthy, sane, know how to show respect to a superior Male. Prefer white slaves but consider others. I have limited interest in novices & NO intrest in cyber. Must be in decent shape, self-assured, out of the closet, follow orders, be sub in/out bed.
TOPS WHO TURN MY HEAD: leathermen, smokers similar interests, know how to take what THEY want, old guard, experienced.
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Queens Manhattan,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
9.
single leather guy wanting his leatherman 30 yo leather guy 5`10"/175/brown/green/tats/pierced/hungXXL ... single and looking to meet a Dominant leather guy for LTR . Keywords include : cigars, vacuum pumping, piss, boots, [email] Dad/boy, beer (and recycled beer), porn, jo, suck, fvck cuddles, laughs .
I`m a laid back guy with a shy side and tho i love to cuddle and be sensual, i definately love kinky sex . I wanna grow physically and mentally with a guy in a loving and kinky relationship . I prefer Dominant guys . I have a big f*t!sh for size ; i.e : pumped nips, c0ck balls, roided muscles, silicone or saline injections, ballbellies, musclebears, bodybuilders . Well you get the picture . So if there`s a hot and kinky beefy leatherman out there looking for his boy, i`m here man . Let`s talk . Seb
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Verdun,
Montreal,
QuebecCANADA
10.
Just a masc country loving - hell on wheels / Just a masc guy looking for a masc man.Tatts/pierced/out-spoken/great freind. loyal to family, freinds, dog.
Don't need a man, but a compatible1 would be nice.
If your cautious or afraid of challenge. don't stop.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
Doraville,
Atlanta,
Georgia (GA)
USA
11.
Masculine gay Cowboy to call my own... I am 47 ,5-11, 185 lbs, Bald/Shaved head, green eyes, g-tee., I was born in Lorain, Ohio, on Saturday, July 29, 1961 at 1 am to the worlds greatest parents. I lived in New York most of my life for 16yrs and then moved to Orlando with my family of 6 other Brothers and 1 sister, I now have alot of nephews and nices and been here for 24 yrs and then i lived in Fort Lauderdale for 3 yrs, i want to retire there in my condo which is only 10 mins from the beach. I am Hiv Neg. A Non Drug user and a non-smoker. I am Versatile top but am very versatile in a realtionship. I am a very Romantic person, very affectionate and love surprising someone with cards, gift, and unexpected things, love just being spontanous to do things. Love candle light dinners. Self-Employed , Financially stable, I am Independent, I have been in 2 relationships1 for 13 yrs and 6 yrs. I am still good friends with my ex who I am business partner`s with. I am realtionship- oriented, L.T.M.R. I am laid-back down to earth person, fun, & caring .I like walks on the beach, dinner parties,Cooking in the back yard, camping, swimming, playing cards,Shopping, walk on Lincoln Road spending time with friends & Family & that1 special person . I like alot of Sports, theather, Broadway show in New York, movies traveling..etc....I have 3 dogs, Mitzi ( 5 yrs), Pepper ( 2 yrs) and my newest baby Rebel (1year)..... i also like, football, bowling..baseball...etc.... I have my ear pierced and a tattoo on my right & left arms.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Orlando,
Orlando,
Florida (FL)
USA
12.
White Bear 4 Black Man I`m white, 42 years old, 5`9" 250# blond hair green eyes 6.5 inch cut size 12 shoes. I have very short (near shaved) head hair, moustache and soul patch. Both ears are pierced. I wear glasses some of the time. I`m shy at first but outgoing once I know you. I work as a software engineer, drive a Nissan Pathfinder and have a 6 year old doberman named Gus. In my free time I like to do photography, game on my Xbox 360 and workout at the gym. Sexually I am into cuddling, mutual jacking and [email] I don`t do [email] sex.
Age: 41 |
seeks gay dating in
Peninsula,
San Francisco,
California (CA)
USA
13.
Just an average, romantic guy looking for other average, romantic men. Single, GWM, short brown (sal Just an average, romantic guy looking for other average, romantic men. Single, GWM, short brown (salt and pepper) hair, usually in a crewcut/Ivy League, brown eyes, wear glasses, clean shaven, HIV-, average looks and build (not Adonis, but not Quasimodo either), semi hairy (not a bear but not bare), down-to-earth, romantic, professional. I'm a smoker and a social drinker. I am not pierced and have no tattoos. I have many interests. Among them are hiking, biking,-puters, sports, camping, movies/videos, reading, and many more. I also have an interest in uniforms and men's short haircuts (like watching, giving and getting). Like the occasional Friday nights out in the Quarter, and also like quiet evenings at home. Am a big science fiction fan, specially Star Trek, Star Wars, Babylon 5 and Stargate-SG1, and anything written by Aasimov, Heinlein, Niven and Pournelle. I'm looking for a good friend and friendship first and hope it would develop into a monogamous LTR. But if it doesn't, it's not a problem, since good friends are also very valuable and hard to find. I'm looking for someone who is ideally a single GWM, between 25 and 55 years old, average to good looks, height close to mine (+/- 6"), height/weight proportional, short hair, HIV-, clean shaven, with similar tastes/likes to mine. Blonds are a +, but not a requirement. Also, an interest in uniforms and/or haircuts would be nice, but not a requirement. Please, no marrieds, attached (with b/f), or bi.
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
Uptown,
New Orleans,
Louisiana (LA)
USA
14.
ME AT A GLANCE: gay, asian, male, 30, moved to SF from DC, happily out, recovering grad student, sin ME AT A GLANCE: gay, asian, male, 30, moved to SF from DC, happily out, recovering grad student, sincere, a little aggressive, PUNK-ish, 59", normal to stocky build, spikey colored hair, pierced ears, 3 tattoos, glasses, great smile, great hands, studied English/Film Studies, everyday activist, best friend, good cook, non-smoker, occasional drinker-- LIKES: movies especially independent cinema, writing, reading, teaching, hanging out, conversation, queer studies, fantasy/sci-fi/RPGs, British humor, romance, kissing guys, sincerity, tarot cards, dancing, spirituality, and people who dont take themselves too seriously,-mon sense, maturity-- M.O.: Im a little too alternative to the mainstream and not hardcore enough for others, but I definitely have a sense of myself and a sense of my own likes, goals, dreams, and style. Definitely looking to make friends and maybe, hopefully something long-term down the line. Want to know more? Just email and ask. Cheers!
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Mission,
San Francisco,
California (CA)
USA
15.
50yo gwm hairy pierced nips loves 0r@l give and receive and getting fucked love toys have many to ch 50yo gwm hairy pierced nips loves [email] give and receive and getting fucked love toys have many to choose from looking for a man who wants to have a good time and let things go as they may pprefer masculine and hairy and of course hvng but thats not a necessity
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
S Past Airport And Turnpike,
Orlando,
Florida (FL)
USA
16.
GWN, 30, br/br, flat top, pierced right nipple and PA. I enjoy movies, hiking, traveling, rodeos, da GWN, 30, br/br, flat top, pierced right nipple and PA. I enjoy movies, hiking, traveling, rodeos, dancing (disco/country), hanging out with friends. I also enjoy romance: candle lit dinners, walks along the moonlit beach, cuddling in front of a fire. I am attracted to masculine, hairy men who are my height or taller and a little bigger than me. Brunettes usually get my attention first, but blondes and redheads have gotten my attention as well. I am not looking for someone to dominator either-just attracted to big guys. Looking to meet new people and go from there. I would eventually like to get into a monogamous relationship after we have gotten to know eachother just a little.
Age: 30 |
seeks gay dating in
Long Beach,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
17.
Hi guys well I am a 19yrs old white 6`2 about 220 brown hair brown eyes, i have my tounge pierced. I Hi guys well I am a 19yrs old white 6`2 about 220 brown hair brown eyes, i have my tounge pierced. I am not skinny but im not fat i have a medium build I guess you could say. I want a long term relationship. I am tired of meeting the same type of guys who only want sex. I want a man who can sweep me off my feet and show me what love is supposed to be like. I love to laugh and have a good time.
Age: 19 |
seeks gay dating in
Houston,
USA
18.
I`m a 42 year old single gay white male,looking for a possible love relationship. I`m 5`8" tall, wei I`m a 42 year old single gay white male,looking for a possible love relationship. I`m 5`8" tall, weigh 160 pounds, have an average build and consider myself masculine and somewhat flamboyant. I wear average size shoes and my best attribute is my intelligence. I consider myself to be Spiritual with no organized faith. I`m both tattooed and pierced. I don`t smoke, I don`t drink (maybe socially), and I don`t use drugs. I`m looking for a travel-panion, on life`s long journey. But.., a casual romp in the sack can be fun, too. A healthy (hiv-) Libra, back in school re-inventing myself for the new millenia. Desperately seeks mature free-thinking men (around my age & younger) who understand the basic concept of respect, for themself, and others. I like to think of myself as funny, furry, insightful, caring, and romantic. A down to earth sort of guy..., happy with the simple pleasures in life. Sexually versatile..., no filth, no pain, please. I`d like to share my heart someday with my soulmate, brother, friend, confidante`, equal, lover & full-time-panion on the long journey..., if you`ve seen him(?), please let me know!! Thanks!! Be well, be safe, and be fabulous!
Age: 42 |
seeks gay dating in
West Side,
Spokane,
Washington (WA)
USA
19.
Professional, educated, and stable masculine(!) man. HWP, HIV+ and healthy. Race is unimportant. If Professional, educated, and stable masculine(!) man. HWP, HIV+ and healthy. Race is unimportant. If you use drugs, please seek elsewhere for a dating-panion. I am a MASC BTTM man. Inked/pierced. Love to play in leather, but it is not my only outlet. I have my own home, 2 dogs, and many friends. I always have room for more.
Age: 37 |
seeks gay dating in
Galveston County,
Galveston,
Texas (TX)
USA
20.
I`m a single furry guy who doesn`t participate in the "usual gay scenes". Inked and pierced, but not I`m a single furry guy who doesn`t participate in the "usual gay scenes". Inked and pierced, but not very kinky. I much prefer hanging out with friends to dousing myself with alcohol or the latest designer drugs. Mental stimulation, laughter, a variety of activities- indoors and out- all make Alex a happy boy. I`m looking for dates- casual to start- with guys who don`t think the perfect night out is a trip to manray or R Place or Arena or wherever. It`s okay to be less than hair-perfect and cleanshaven to go out in public. It`s okay to do things APART from each other- no more "joined at the hip"-ness, no more "we instead of you and me"-ness . Adults only need apply game players will be flamed out of existance. If the casual doesn`t go anywhere, I`d like to remain friends (i.e. invite out for food, a movie,-e over to watch a film or play a game)...if the casual goes somewhere, we`ll write that script as it`s needed.
Age: 33 |
seeks gay dating in
Near Renton,
Seattle Tacoma,
Washington (WA)
USA
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