1.
Aint nothing like the real thing baby... Very sincere, attractive, romantic, passionate, sensual, and VERY sexual guy. I like who I like, but prefer UNDER 45 (MIGHT be some exceptions) ANY RACE, SKIN COLOR or NATIONALITY. Short or tall is fine, but not into fat or extreme body hair. Love to laugh and enjoy making people laugh. I enjoy Parks, Zoos, Aquariums, Horses, Museums, Concerts, Fairs, Baseball, Swimming, Cooking, home Design/Floorplanning...
A good guy, spiritual (Christian), VERY sexual. Finding someone who I am compatible with sexually is very important, although that’s not all I seek, but it’s important. I like all types of guys. Just be you and be real. Different kinds of guys just bring out different things in me. I lean toward guys with smaller (thinner/average) or muscular builds (versus heavy set/fat). Not into long Distance Rel’s, Cyber, Endless E-Mails. Phone contact welcome, but looking to meet 4 real.
NOTE: I realize some may wrongly jump to the conclusion that all I am about is sex, but THAT IS SO NOT TRUE. I just have dated enough and been in enough relationships to know that if you put a horney jackrabbit with a prudish porcupine, you are going to wind up with1 frustrated rabbit! (And I am tired of always winding up in that situation!) If the sexual chemistry and appetites are well matched, everything won’t be perfect - but if they are not, nothing else will matter.
Age: 42 |
seeks gay dating in
Garland - Mesquite - Rowlett,
Dallas,
Texas (TX)
USA
2.
Genuine man seeks same I have been living in Florida for the last2 and half years, managing2 locations in Downtown Disney. In the last year I have made a lot of personal changes I quit smoking in March of 07 been1 year no smoking, started going to the gym in July of 07 have lost 40 lbs to date (3-31-08) and work out with a trainer 3 days a week, still want to improve more. So now I am looking for that1 true man not looking for hook ups, I am masculine, HIV negative as of 1/08 (you should be as well) usually in jeans and cowboy boots do clean up nicely though, myself am sincere, true romantic, love candle light dinners, I love long slow kisses, kissing is very important if you can’t kiss or don’t like to kiss it won’t work, I love cold evenings on the couch snuggled up tightly, snowy weekends in Tahoe with friends and that special man, believe in total monogamy do not believe in the open relationship concept. I prefer quite evenings at home cooking dinner together or entertaining for friends, love going to Seattle, Las Vegas, Lake Tahoe and trips along the coast. Looking for a man who is masculine, non-smoker, love a man in cowboy boots and jeans, especially cowboys, prefer a man with dark hair (not set in stone) some body hair and facial hair, shorter than me, must like kissing and cuddling, believes in romance, likes quite evenings at home just the2 of us, love celebrating Christmas and all the magical feelings that go with it. Well if you have read this far drop a line and we can see where it goes...
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Orlando,
Orlando,
Florida (FL)
USA
3.
Seeking A Buddy For Friends Or More I am 51 5’ 11.5 36 w. 195 lbs Brown Eyes Brown Buzz Cut S/P Moustach hvng Well Enough.
Also love the natural feeling when wearing cowboy gear or leather.
I have to say i am getting a little tried of writing to people to only not hear back from them even when i find them dam HOT & SEXY.
I AM LOOKING FOR A GUY THAT HAS SOMEWHAT THE SAME BUILT AS ME HE CAN BE A COWBOY , WHITE COLLAR, BLUE COLLAR, FIREman, POLICE OFFICER, OR A TEACHER OR WHAT EVER HE IS.
Also love to wear a c0ck Ring & Ball Weights at times & when you wear a ring makes you last much longer.
I am looking for someone to build a friendship maybe more between the ages of 40 - 55 Facial hair is a big Turn On, PLEASE Don’t Be To Large.
Mainly looking for a1 on1 relationship with1 who cares alot very much tried of being alone.
If you care to write me direct please do so at addy
[email]
Age: 51 |
seeks gay dating in
Vineland,
Atlantic City,
New Jersey (NJ)
USA
4.
Masculine, intelligent, hard working. Looking for friends and a partner. Masculine, intelligent, hard working, average man here and looking for the same. About my age or a little older. Enjoy rodeos, horses, bowling, travel, history and reading. Not into fems, piercings and longhair. Like to meet friends to travel and do things with.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural,
Rural Area,
Colorado (CO)
USA
5.
Romantic Professional Gay Male I am a single, Gay White Male looking for the same for a long term committed, monogamous relationship, ultimately leading to marriage. I am 5-10, 160#, Brown/blue, gotee/beard, 45 yo, in shape, hairy chest, very well hvng I am a counselor/biofeedback therapist. I like scuba diving, music-piano, choir, remodeling, working out, church, travel, nieces/nehpew, and am open to devloping new interests. I am looking for a long term relationship with a well rounded Christian (protestant) man, health consioucs, nonsmoker, drug free, hiv-, non alcohol abuser, intelligent, emotionally stable, authentic, and a nice person. I am a native Texas with southern values, nammers, and charm. I am wanting to build a life of mutual love, trust, care, respect, & emotional support. I am fairly conservative, and very passionate, My quote: Before Mr. Right comes along...we have to be Mr. Right first.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
Dallas,
Dallas,
Texas (TX)
USA
6.
Gay single moderately hairy man seeking burly/beefy/thick/stocky hairy man for long term relationshi Gay single moderately hairy man seeking burly/beefy/thick/stocky hairy man for long term relationship, friendship
Age: 54 |
seeks gay dating in
Temple,
Waco,
Texas (TX)
USA
7.
Looking for loving, monogamus LTR I'm 46, 6'1", 240 lbs (need to tighten things yet), blk/grey hair (usually cut short), always a mustache and goatee most of the time, blue eyes (bedroom eyes I have been told). Like to receive what I give and vice versa, although prefer b0tt0m Descriptives: energetic, down to Earth, blue jeans and t-shirt, shorts,10nis shoes, boots, swimmer, sweaty, leather, cold beer, cuddling, big time kisser, romantic, hand holder, naturist, camping, travel, professional, educated, country boy, music lover, singer, movies.
Candlelight, fires, moonlight walks and swims ( [email] of course) are great ways to spend the time. I enjoy hiking, swimming, travel, movies - sci-fi especially, theatre, music, love to cook and damn good at it! Sexual compatibility is important. I am a nurturing and caring person. Always care for the man I am with and want to be cared for in return. Love to cuddle, kiss, long love making sessions. Especially enjoy making love outdoors. I enjoy learning and experiencing new things. While romantic, can be adventurous out in the woods to keep things interesting and exciting.
More specifics: I am kind of a nudist, and a leather man (the look and wearing it, not S&M). I enjoy traveling (even spur of the moment if I get a deal too good to refuse and I can take off of work). I am a music lover. I like country, dance, 80's retro and1 hit wonders, adult contemporary and new age. I enjoy trying new restaurants. I am more of an introvert but always looking to meet new friends.
Too many people take for granted the simplest things in a relationship. Falling asleep cuddling, midnight love making, waking up to take a shower together... Family is important, and want my partner to be part of my family and I part of his. I am a country boy at heart. I grew up in rural NE. Finally, I am HIV+ and have been for 9yrs. I am undetectable and very healthy. I want someone who accepts that upfront and either is poz or is very poz friendly. Am totally honest, probably to a fault. Will say what I am thinking even if it pisses someone off.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
St Louis,
Missouri (MO)
USA
8.
Seeking a Lifemate Hello men, I am currently looking for a Lifemate and or a Business Partner for my 95 acre ranch in the Southern majestic mountains of Colorado. I am just you're average rural countryman looking for a decent masculine guy to build a life with here at my ranch. I am looking to find mature masculine down-to-earth man who loves ranching and farming to share my life with. Ideally I am hoping too find someone to have a LTR who is deeply passionate as well as healthy emotionally and available.I am really not interested in having casual sex or hook-ups. However if you were looking for a meaningful relationship I would love to hear from you. I enjoy the company of masculine men, someone to cuddle up next to with either in bed or cuddling in front of the fire on a cold night. I really like guys of any age as long as our personality compliments each other and we are wanting the same kind of lifestyle that being a Rural lifestyleI'm a masculine, creative, adventurous, affectionate, passionate, intelligent, Husky Bear, 5'10, 269#, blue eyes, balding, brown hair, trim beard, moderately hairy, honest, and very sincere I am a non-smoker, drug free and HIV-. Also I am very open to just finding a business partner that would like to invest in a Alpaca raising business with me here at the ranch. There is a lot of potential profit to be made as well as some great tax savings It can be completely platonic or something more.I'm a genuinely nice guy and I am not into games, drama or the typical Gay lifestyle. I am looking someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff and sees the big stuff as challenges that can and will be overcame. I love rural country living and wide open spaces. This is an area where Cowboys live and play. I truly love living in the mountains of Southern Colorado. I enjoy cooking, movies, photography, camping, river rafting, horseback riding, ranching, computers, music, gardening, country living, love to be romantic, having fun, vacationing in exotic places once a year and staying at home at the ranch much of the time since I am a true homebodyI enjoy Lovemaking and intimacy. It is rare to have both at the same time, but when it happens it is beyond incredible. I am also into making love, which means courtship dating falling in love. I love kissing, cuddling, giving and receiving [email] as well as [email] intercourse. I am attracted to all men from short to tall to slim to husky, smooth to hairy like grizzly bear to anything in between, from a Bear to an Otter or just an average kind of a guy. I am truly attracted to facial hair, it really is a big turn for me I am looking for a man who is considerate, loving, affectionate, honest and emotionally available.I am very interested in sustainable alternative housing and alternative energy such as solar & wind power, permaculture, animal husbandry, sustainable living, agriculture, etc. I wish to share this special place with man who is also looking for the same type of simple quite country living and is willing and able to relocate. My ranch located at the foot of the Sangre de Cristo Mountain range in Southern Colorado. Great views in all directions. There is also a refreshly cool seasonal mountain stream that flows throw the ranch. This is a place of great beauty and tranquillity.There is elk, deer, pronghorn antelopes, coyotes, jack rabbits, eagles, hawks, owls, humming birds and plenty of springtime wild flowers. A place were rural country living is the everyday focus. Thanks to all for the messages here as well as the emails. I appreciate hearing from you. I try to respond to everyone. I hope to hear from you soon
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural Area,
Colorado (CO)
USA
9.
Bearish seeking LTR Here`s a Little on Me:
I am1 of the Nicest Guys you will ever meet... Down to Earth Country Born and Raised Single / Divorced, Honest,Trustworthy even keeled guy here, Good-looking, 6`2" Stocky Big man 315#`s trying to lose a few... but I am taken "AS IS" HIV- never even had and STD, I have a wide variety of interests, enjoy being Outdoors, Going to Rodeos (PRCA) not gay1s, Throwing Darts, Tinkering with Cars and Trucks, Nascar, Camping, spending time with my Kids and extended family and friends. I do not Smoke, gave up Dipping a few yrs back, and rarely Drink! But do enjoy a cold Budweiser now and again.
What I am Seeking:
A great guy... who`s seeking to date with the hopes for developing a long term relationship, someone that has some Morals, and is Honest. I prefer men who are non-smokers, do not use drugs and or use/abuse alcohol, an occasional drink is fine. I prefer Younger men under40, White or Hispanic, H/W/P,(Slim to Average, Stocky Builds) hairy is a huge plus, but not a necessity, Masculinity is, You should have similar interests as my self, I should also point out, I just do not participate in the Gay Community... being gay is only a small portion of who I am, and my life is not defined by that! So hopefully this will interest someone, that is looking for more than the next night in a strangers bed. Gentlemen When Responding Could You Please Include A Pic and Way to Contact you! Thanks for reading my AD
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Castroville Tx,
San Antonio,
Texas (TX)
USA
10.
Black Male Seeks Younger Male For Intimacy Hey! I am glad I caught your attention. I am a direct and open minded male. Most people would say I am kind, considerate, honest and compassionate and have an interesting sense of humor. I am not flashy or pretend to be something I am not. I am in shape and have an average build. As far as my appearance, I am not trendy or have a desire to be. I am most comfortable in my pants, shirts, jackets and hoodies. I like other types of clothing. I wear nice sandals most of them time. I am relationship minded, but that has been very difficult to obtain. If I find it here, that would indeed be a huge plus. I am here for companionship, friendship, and a sex friendship( friends with benefits) with1 younger male.
I am not interested in married men or men in relationships.
I am seeking a younger white or interracial white male
(European/Latino/Pacific Island mix). He can be: gay, bisexual,curious, straight or not out. He cannot be married. I am hoping to connect with him on a sexual and emotional level. He would be accepting the good and bad faults of each other. Communication and conversation is important too. He would be someone open to each others wants, needs, and desires and opinions. On the physical side: a smooth body (a little body hair is cool) and face, different shades of darker hair (long or short), a warm smile and tattoos are fine. I am most attracted by brown, green, blue, hazel eyes. mannerisms are not important. But honesty is important. I am turned off by drugs, smoking, and face and mouth and tongue piercings. You must be drug and disease free and play safe.
TURN ONS:
Honesty, longhair, smooth bodies, smooth faces, brown eyes, kissing, blue eyes, hazel eyes, butts/behinds, green eyes, boyish features, younger men, brown hair, black hair, dark brown hair, dirty blonde hair, [email] sex, twinks or younger guys who are transforming in to men physically with their bodies, hoop earrings on some guys, short hair in a style, [email] sex, auburn hair, svck!ng 6ty9, fingering, r!mm!ng rubbing and touching, foreplay, l!ck!ng mutual masturbation, showers or baths together, sex and fun with food, dating, twinks, swimmers, preppies, the boy next door, college boys, gays, bisexual boys, curious boys, farm boys, nude white boys bodies, fairness, sharing, and safe sex.
Age: 40 |
seeks gay dating in
Southeast,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
11.
Single aesthete/oenophile seeks romance. Hello all. Thanks for checking me out.
Like everyone else on this site I`m sure, I`m looking for my perfect match, my soulmate, my other half (depending on your philosophical proclivities). I wish us all luck.
I`ll start with some random stuff about me. First off I`m a nice guy. I`m not a sketchy wierdo, or some vacuous narcissist. I care about the human race, though some of its individuals piss me off. I`m passionate and compassionate, and that imforms my politics to a great extent. I`m very liberal, so it would probably be a bad idea to request a date with me if you`re at all right leaning. I am also very much an aesthete. I`m very much moved by beauty in all its forms. That includes beauty`s edgier and gritty sides. I`m well traveled, well read, and well educated. I love wine, cooking, and coffee. I spend perhaps too much time in coffee-houses, and I`m an ace Scrabble player.
Personality-wise, I`m a bit shy, often too serious, and love to laugh, although simetimes I`m the only1 who get`s my jokes. You can really win my heart if you can keep me laughing. I10d to be a bit of a procrastinator, but when I get going, there`s no stopping me.
Physically, I`m not the most buff guy around. I`m not fat, but there are some wiggly parts on my otherwise thin frame. I love to run when I have the time, and have every intention of getting into a routine of regular workouts. Perhaps you can inspire me to do so. I have all my teeth and never a cavity. My hair is seldom the same colour. While I have it, I`m going to have fun with it. I love longhair, but think I look much better with it a bit shorter. As of this writing, I have1 small tattoo, but have plans for a few more. I have several piercings too. I like all the above on other guys, but that`s not a deal breaker.
Some of my turn-ons are sexy hair I can run my fingers through, and I think it`s very sexy when guys shave their legs. I`m at my best in bed when exploring the kinkier notions and my partner`s fanticies. Sadly, however, I haven`t had anyone to play with for a while.
What I`m looking for: I want love and romance. I get all kinds of goofy when I have love and romance in my life. I give my whole self to the1 I love which leaves me vulnerable to devistating heartbreak if things don`t work out, but such is the life of those of us with a sentimental heart.
Beyond love, I want someone I can explore the universe with, to become mundane with, and cry with when things get rough, and someone with whom I can have mutual support so we can conquer the world.
I am, however, a realist, so a chance to get to know some good people is good enough for now.
Now, on to the revolution!
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
Northeast Slc,
Salt Lake City,
Utah (UT)
USA
12.
IN SEARCH 4 SOULMATE AND GENUINE LOVE, NOT LUST. Hi everybody.....im a professional male nurse,who is musculine, simple, decent,dedicated, VERSATILE, honest,loyal, caring,hairy, broad minded,good hearted, moreover trustworthy and very CUDDLESOME is keenly looking forward for a gay partner , who is genuine, honest,loyal, very caring, broad minded, good hearted, kind hearted and professional and truelly committed for GENUINE love, affection and monogamous long term relationship rather than having sex to settle down my life with .of course sex also plays an important role but need negotiation.... Im a STRAIGHT acting gay who seriously does not like feminine typed gay guyz .it does not meant that im fake since im straight acting but i have to be here.... Please ignore me those who are fake, uneducated and looking forward only for hook ups.... Sorry for that... For me sex comes only after i built up love and relationship with the1 who i love. Im very passionate for love and affection and share it with my soul mate. I value human relationship than any other thing in this world....Those who do not have a pic in their profile please feel free to send it to me at, faru.bedi at [----] [----] com... I need to chat with those who come in contact with me before i fall into any type of relationship. I love to make gay friends around the world and share something with them. Really i dont like to have sex with many but with the1 who i love . I do strongly believe in MONOGAMY... I am very attracted to hairy men who are 35 plus yo. But i welcome all. I love travelling....It does not mean that im perfect but you can perfectly expect what you want from my heart... thank you so much for taking look at my profile...take care...
Age: 25 |
seeks gay dating in
Mangalore,
Mangalore,
KarnatakaINDIA
13.
Well I am going to let you know 1st off hand - I am disabled by being legally blind. I CAN NOT trave Well I am going to let you know 1st off hand - I am disabled by being legally blind. I CAN NOT travel alone because of it. So if you want me to relocate to you then you will need to come get me.
I am a Down-to-earth, stable (not stabled -LOL), easy-going, independent insightful, masculine, kind of guy. I am playful, educated; assertive (well not with the whips and chains, but maybe cuffs - LOL) man seeking others for friendship and a date would be nice.
I welcome opportunities to correspond/and maybe meet others who are optimistically minded, and passionate about BEING. I don’t put up with stuff that isn’t mine (a guy should walk the talk) and don’t have any addictions (well, maybe to guys that have facial/chest hair and big hearts- LOL).
[----]: dads_lil_pigglet
AIM: Tupperwarestud
I am: down-to-earth, stable, romantic, passionate, compassionate, loving, sharing, assertive, communicative, understanding, head-strong and educated.
I do not believe in placing borders or restrictions on attaining happiness or success in a relationship/career/living environment.
I have a variety of interests; the most important being my interest in others and helping to create the conditions upon which people can be successful (I am open to increasing my interests as the opportunity presents).
I strive for forward momentum in my life (welcome new challenges and respect and consider different opinions/perspectives) and I am learning to pause, breathe and take life in before it passes me by.
I am a man with faults (or areas for future development as I call them), but am also working to become the better man that I want to be for myself and those around me. I am a man who is fairly educated and have been told (and I believe it) quite opinionated, although I like to think of it as strong willed. I believe that it is important to be able to see both sides of any issue (or as many sides as their might be) and to be able to argue for both sides - doing such ensures a greater likelihood of being informed and opens1 up for the opportunity for greater growth and development.
Here is a list of some of the things that I like : holding hands with a special man (The spaces between your fingers were created so that another’s could fill them in.), holding (spooning) all night long, looking across the room and knowing that the man across the room is mine, kissing with my eyes open so that I can see deep into the depth of his soul, making love with the lights on, kissing my partner in a way that I can take in his breath and share with him mine, spending the mornings in bed with my partner connecting, having date night at least once a week with my man.
I am sensitive to others and admire those who are sensitive to me. I like compassion motivation. I am mostly a happy person but can sometimes be melancholy and sad. I can cry at sad movies and songs. Still, I can be emotionally forceful and assertive. I am sensitive to the spoken word so I prefer people who are verbally sensitive and tactful.
I do not believe in open-relationships, or1 partner who demands commitment and the demanding1 do not know it applies to them also. I am not out to prove my masculinity by being in control of someone else and expect the same from you.
I have the capacity to be inspirational, and the ability to lead merely by my own example. An inborn inner strength and awareness can makes me an excellent teacher, social worker, philosopher, or advisor. No matter what area of work I pursue, I am very aware and sensitive to the highest sense of my environment. My intuition is very strong; in fact, many psychic people and those involved in occult studied me. I have a good mind with keen analytical ability. Because of this I can probably succeed in most lines of work, however, I will do better and be happier outside of the business world. Oddly enough, even here I generally succeed, owing to my often original and unusual approach. Nonetheless, I am more content working with my ideals, rather than dollars and cents.
My thinking is long term, and I am able to grasp the far-reaching effects of actions and plans. I am disappointed by the shortsighted views of many of your contemporaries. I am deeply concerned and supportive of art, music, or of beauty in any form.
I may be too sensitive and temperamental. I10d to dream a lot and may be more of a dreamer than a doer. Fantasy and reality sometimes become intermingled and I am sometimes very impractical. I10d to want to spread the illumination of your knowledge to others irrespective of their desire or need.
My desire in life is personal expression, and generally enjoying life to its fullest. I want to participate in an active social life and enjoy a large circle of friends. I want to be in the limelight, expressing my artistic or intellectual talents. Word skills may be my thing; speaking, writing, acting, singing. In a positive sense, the 3 energy is friendly, outgoing and always very social.
I have a decidedly upbeat attitude that is rarely discouraged; a good mental and emotional balance.
I give intuitive insight, thus, very high creative and inspirational10dencies. The truly outstanding trait shown by my Soul Urge is that of self-expression, regardless of the field of endeavor.
I may at times become too easygoing and too optimistic,10ding to scatter forces and accomplish very little. Often, the excessive energy produces non-stop talkers. Everyone has faults, but the soul urge doesn’t appreciate having these pointed out.
My crave authority and recognition of executive skills. My secret self may have very strong desire to become an entrepreneur.
IF YOU ARE GOING TO PLAY GAMES WITH ME - DO NOT RESPOND TO ME.
I want a man who is his own person and who is educated (not necessarily from academic institutions), motivated (but heck also can be comfortable just laying around), optimistic, an equal (it is the whole walks beside me, not ahead or behind ) though at some time1 may be more of a leader or organizer), smells good when wearing nothing (though cologne can be nice - lol), who laughs well and often, who knows the pull of the moon and the power of the slightest touch, who dances to the slowest of songs. A man should stand up for what is m [email] and right, respects himself and others (always), would give up his seat on a bus to someone in need and would help those less fortunate than himself.
He should be polite, say please/thank-you/excuse-me/bless-you. He is into friendships, the waves of life, Christmas mornings, fireplaces, Jazz, Country, holding hands while driving, bathtubs not quite big enough for2, laying on a blanket or in the back of a pick-up watching the stars, holding on tight in a hug, the sound of rain on a tin roof... Inside the man should exist hope, faith and courage with the ability to be honest.
Honesty, integrity, good morals is the person I am seeking to share all of what life has to offer, the good times and the bad. You must have dreams of your own and not along for a free ride.
I’m looking for a partner who has already spent time experiencing life on his own and feel’s he has sowed his oats. And finally (probably by now you are thinking -well it’s about time!, someone who is fairly independent and can be left alone in a room without getting into trouble or feeling outnumbered. If you have chosen to read this far I thank you. If want to know more feel free to ask - doesn’t cost you anything . If you might be looking for a great guy for a friend then stop in - you may be surprised at what you find. There are4 things in life that you can never get back: The fired arrow, the said word, time spent, and missed opportunities. Make the most out of life.
UPDATE: I may be only 30 years old, but I have sown my wild oats. I was in a LTR from 13 til 24. So I know I can be faitful can you be?
Age: 29 |
seeks gay dating in
Union City,
San Francisco,
California (CA)
USA
14.
Looking to contact good looking people.Single Successful Professional Enlightened Adult Male.
50, 6ft, 165, Italian, Hiv- Dk hair, Haz Eyes, Attractive Top
Considering an adult, stable, emotionally free and mature man for potential Friendship/Relationship. Marriage Material. Lifetime relationship Vs. long term. Interested in cool hip men with minds, heart, soul and good health and life. Fun loving and quality are key elements, good communication and personality are essential. Conservative and old fashioned in thoughts and ideas. Romance and affection offered for the right life affirming gentlemen.A good kisser is a must. Sports fan, and dog lover, father to2 loveable big dogs.Music, arts, sciences and most important to me is my faith
New to Alabama, NY/NJ transplant. Great personality, easy going, laid back. Likes to laugh,no games. Never was into bar scene/clubs drinking or drugs. Down to earth,Looking for real men who are spiritually connected and passionate about life. Caregiver by nature, not looking to [email] or play roles.I am looking for guys who know what committment means and is willing to give 100% of themselves.I am conservative in my thinking.Not into hook ups or looking for sexual encounters. While sex is vital to me,the heart and the mind come first. I prefer white guys similar in age and character.
I am looking for a semi/hairy b0tt0m man who is stable and grounded and sane. I am a romantic and want a romantic man to build a quality life with.I am not looking to rehabiliate anyone, or play therapist with you or your friends.I am looking for basically a masc reg guy who at this and point in time have learned what the finer things in life mean and have no pretenses about themselves.Social drinkers/smokers are fine but I do not want to be in a 12 step relationship, in or out of the bed.
If this resonates with you, and you feel you have something to offer, please feel free to respond. I am not looking to ’fall in love’. I want to take things slow and develope what will last a life time.
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
Birmingham,
Alabama (AL)
USA
15.
Searching for my Fella 46 yr old male, 5`6", 155 lb, Canadian gay male with brown hair (more pepper than salt) and brown eyes. I consider myself a down to earth average "Joe" who has been told is "a nice guy who is easy on the eyes, masculine, youthful in appearance, passionate, laid back, fun, attentive, adaptable, having a witty - sometimes "off the wall", "dark" (all in good fun - intension) sense of humor". I have a Gemini personality and am non political. Single ... dating .... and taking things in stride. I am a man who is encouraged by fate .. believing it can be helped along the way. It has taken some time .. but .. I am comfortable in my own skin and would not wish anything more or less in another person. Partially defining "comfortable", I mean being a man with understanding of respect, trust, openness, responsibility, amicability, a reverence for life, with heart, love, humility and a sense of humor about it all. Comfortable .. in who you are .. and circumstance. I believe that the past is part of our greater whole and we should not shut the door, nor dwell in it, but move on constructively with the ability to laugh, accept and embrace life`s kindness. "Don`t sweat the small stuff".... I am not monetarily wealthy, my wealth consists of doing the best with what I have to offer .... and that presently being .... myself. Recently out of the closet (4 yrs)... and reinventing myself (I like to think I am always under construction) .... Thru trial and error, I have grown to discover some of what I enjoy and what I do not in queerdom. Somewhat eclectic, a cuddler and romantic (I am a touchy feely kind of guy). With both a wholesome personality (Vanilla - low maintenance) and a wild side (I like to go out dancing every now and then to get my ya-ya`s out). Am easy to get along with, being a nurturer by nature ... (fabulous by choice - *wink) .. am a masculine soul who is not afraid to show my weaker moments and honor moments shared that are entrusted to me. I like to keep an open mind and an open heart with those I am sensitive to. I am not a cowboy, but am every bit country, country at heart and identify with the values. Physically, some describe me as an otter. I10d to be attracted to other otters and light weight bears. I feel most comfortable in denim and a T and yes ..... cowboy drag when occasion rises. I am not into anything non consensual and have no f*t!sh that I am aware of .... unless my attraction for a dominant, assertive, mature, healthy, ruggedly handsome man with a high sex drive is considered? Learning that life can turn on a dime I appreciate instants, moments and seasons in time, ultimately hoping in meeting the man whose heart and life "together" are meant to share and whose beings, our gift to each other.
Age: 46 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural - N - E - Winnipeg River,
ManitobaCANADA
16.
I`m tall and hairy and I`m into tall and hairy. I I`m tall and hairy and I`m into tall and hairy. I`m blond though and typically find dark haired men more appealing. Thick dark chest hair and leg hair just gets me going. I keep in shape by running and working out. I`ve got decent abs but before you get excited it`s mostly because I`m skinny; not buff heh heh. My arms are still kind of stick like. The right guy will click regardless of his looks. I`ll fall in love with the mind after the body. A physical attraction must exist up front for anything to get going. It`s just the way I am. I don`t do1 night stands or hookups. That`s also the way I am. And cheaters don`t stand a chance at staying in my life. My idea of a handsome man is somewhat outside the norm. I don`t care for pretty boys. I prefer a man in his 40s or 50s that has a few battle scars. Bald or balding doesn`t matter. If there`s facial or chest hair I think that`s pretty sexy. Older men are just more confident and able to carry out the alpha role I`m looking for. I really just want to be owned. I`m an extremely jealous individual and wouldn`t mind having someone that is as well. I'm having some issues with my Email here. It won't let me read anything. It's kind of pissing me off. If it keeps up I'm ditching the site and will be at some other places I already belong to.
Age: 22 |
seeks gay dating in
Pensacola,
Florida (FL)
USA
17.
I am a muscular and athletic GWM with a passion fo I am a muscular and athletic GWM with a passion for bicycling long distances-- I have bicycled over 13,000 miles since 1998! I like to walk, bicycle (obviously!) and watch college football. Enjoy movies (out or on the Home Theater), live theater, museums and I especially love travel adventures. I am also a technophile who loves electronics and gadgets. I have spent months out of circulation-- mostly in training-- now I am ready to regain some social life! I had the honor of carrying the Olympic Torch as it was on it`s way to the Winter Games in SLC... ANYWAY... I am stocky (beefy), have a furry body and a military haircut. I am very disciplined about taking care of myself, both physically and emotionally. I don`t smoke and I drink very little, but still can have a great time without being cocktailed. I am a degreed professional who lives alone in a great neighborhood in the Montrose... You should be somewhat athletic (or at least in reasonably good shape), masculine, PASSIONATE, sincere, educated, confident and ARTICULATE. If you are honest, sincere and a passionate lover, chances are good I will adore you! :-) I want a man that would be proud to be seen with me in public-- as I would be to be seen with him. Average looks are fine, but you must have a great smile and great eyes. I especially love dark skin, dark hair & brown eyes. Latin / Mediterranean / Middle Eastern a plus. Smoking is a minus...NO DRUGS. (If you are still reading this, you must still have some interest!) I`m a bit choosy, but when I make my choice, I stick with it. Will YOU be my choice? Let me hear from you... let`s talk!
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Montrose - Inner Loo,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
18.
I am a outgoing, loving type of guy. I would like to meet the man of my dreams, with a country accent. :)Someone who can ride me into the sunset on there horse, as long as the horse is sane. ;) I have encountered many crazy horses. IDK. Must be the blonde hair. ;) I like horses, and farm animals. I am used to the country, since my town is a beautiful, country type small town.
Age: 24 |
seeks gay dating in
Germantown,
Albany,
New York (NY)
USA
19.
handsome, sexy, quote chill unquote guy Real, arguably sweet, direct, extremely youthful, masculine and down-to-earth person here. Also considered kinda intense, though, in what can be --to some -- a sort of perplexing manner. I gather that this is because it can be taken a kind of ’intensity’ that appears to incorporate a kind of California casualness in a way that makes it hard to recognize as1 or the other or something, and that there are some humans for whom this is ’distressing.’ You’ll see what I mean soon if you feel like it, and have not already. On the more positive end, I have been called by comparative comrades an ’operatically large liver’ and other things to that effect. Point taken, although to be fair I believe certain hoodlums and philistines might say such things, at least in part, simply because there is Ayyetalian involved. I’m professional but intellectual. Curious about all aspects of life, and interested mostly in people. Rugbyish/runner’s build, depending upon how skinny I am at any given time and on how much I’m running. HIV neg. Clooneyish short grey hair. Sometimes I’ll a rock a scruffily semi-hipsterish beard for kicks, since people seem to think it looks good on me. FYI, since I don’t think I have a pix of it, when I have it the facial hair itself is not so much grey as it is reddish brown. I realize that this sounds potentially disturbing, but somehow it seems to work. Into many different things including most all of the arts (except DANCE, come to think of it), especially film and fiction and all sorts of music. Also philosophy, history, politics, good food and drink, learning anything new, continually stimulating and dynamic conversation as often as humanly possible, cities, architecture, blah blah blah--aside from the more raucous, and less ’rarified,’ kinds of hijinks about which we all know plenty. I have a substantial wild side as well as an ultraserious1, and however this relates to either or both, I really love great sex. I need it badly, often, and sort of extra fiercely these days. Been getting many real ragers on the erectile front that just won’t go away, for instance. Love to be driven absolutely wild, and to drive others crazy nuts, so that everything gets all quote unquote phreaky until it just combusts. Like long, varied, multiply orgasmic sessions when the chemistry and the time are right. Nonetheless, I find that quickies can be equally extraordinary! Looking to meet cool, smart, cute, solid/in-shape, masculine and hot-- as to the last I’m working here from the hotly contested assumptions that you know it if you are, and that if you are you know you are -- XYers for dating, friendship, sex, talk, and other categorizable and uncategorizable forms of shitkickin’. Want to be around serious, attentive, kind and thoughtful (but not humorless) dudes who can regularly laugh at themselves and, as often as can be expected, somehow manage to simultaneously help their peeps enjoy it all thing in the process. Guys who are equipped with whatever it might take to play an unusually strong game of connect much more often than not, creating mutually good and sometimes intriguingly surprising feelings on assorted levels of maneuver. If you contact me, I will include my pic with my first reply. (I am currently going through a break-up, so I do not want it on this site right now.) I’m newly single after a very long time, and looking to romp around as much as possible both sexually and otherwise. Oh, btw those2 are not mutually exclusive imho. As for the sex, hotel room out-of-towners, off-duty cops, firemen, business guys, hot ethnics and internationals--italian, irish, middle eastern, israeli, asian, eastern european, south american, you name it (any boro, and suburbs too)--are all very very good, for example. As are actors, sexy geeks, Bohemians, killer 420, quality skiing and their likes. Read: I’m down with considering, or impulsively engaging in, a wide variety of proposed erotic adventures with appealing people, proceeding on a mostly case-by-case and admittedly willy-nilly basis. Older or younger, individuals or groups, ’romantic’ or not, ’anonymous’ or not, from the sleazy to the so-called respectable, etc. etc. I am not generally very interested in people who stomp around being type queens of any sort, including snobbish and solipsistic scene queens. I’m here for the open-minded, sensitive, expressive, intelligent, and socio-sexually talented men and boys who don’t act as if they can know in advance exactly what they want, or precisely who they wish to meet. The1s who are just as much or even more aware of, magnetized by and interested in the mysterious if menacing cracks and crevices that we all do, and probably should, fall through here or there—again, imho—as they are attentive to and energized by the eternal turn-ons of particular categories, and driven to pop by their fraught, overarching logics and calculi. That is, if there’s even a negligible difference. Sooner or later, I imagine that I will meet someone who will make me want to get into another (mostly)1-to-one relationship. I’ve spent much, maybe most, of my adult life since undergrad school in a few of these hardcore things. Avec cohabitation, in all of the cases. For the time being, however -- though I do not mean to suggest that this is some temporary ’sowing of wild oats’ since I have already been on my share of high velocity spins around various blocks -- I intend to milk the whole Aura of Woundedness thing (is it as effective at attracting people as I think it is?) for every different type of trickle that I can, and for every single solitary drop. Re. the ’dating’ and so to speak LTRs, after much reflection I would claim that, in the past, I have been for the most part quasi-admirably generous, loyal, reliable, flexible, forgiving and honest. Or at least that I’ve gotten much better over time in each of those regards and in others. They have all been certifiably passionate relationships1 way or another, that I can say the most surely. (I will concede that at times they may even have been excessively so, partly because everyone seems to be so god damned anti- ’drama’ these days. As if, poof, you can just eliminate tout court the tumultuousness of emotion? And as though, if in fact you can, it’s so desirable--and that it’s such a nice indication about related, rosy, pleasant things?) In any case, I am v. independent. I am presently bewildered about how much confidence I should have that this is gonna change--or when, why, how, and how much. Ditto about the work necessitating so much of my time and energy, partly because it requires the maddening act of writing. I also travel a lot for my job, both in the US and internationally. So do feel free to contact me from anywhere, rather than only from NYC. If something here appeals to you, please do not hesitate to get in touch. And don’t feel you need to be all witty, or think that I expect you to write War and Peace, or anything like that. (Just as redheaded males remain as supremely fascinating as ever, I personally find all the lingering to-do about strong silent types to be as remarkably well grounded in cold, hard FACT as is anything else that would possibly elicit talk of such a realm in the first place.) Just be reasonably for real. I’m a classical Leo on top of being a NNYorker. Plus, I’m not exactly a spring chicken anymore. My BS detector is fairly well-tuned at this point, and my tolerance for it is not high. I’ll leave that at that. Great cooks always a plus! I myself do it well, but have a limited range. And, to be honest, I am finally beginning to accept that--call me ’J.A.P.P.Y’--I just don’t like doing it when you can order something. Good attorneys generally a big minus, though I suppose You could theoretically be1 of rare and hyper-unlikely exceptions that proves my rule on that. Physically, faces matter much, if not most, to me. Like a lot of other guys I know, I often find quote unquote average looking men to be the most attractive, the hottest, and the most visually stunning of them all. Sorry if you are still reading this and it seems to you that I am an insufferable blabbermouth, to say the least. As the Brits might have said back in the days of the Sex Pistols, even I will admit that this has turned into something of a monkey’s tea party. (I recently watched The Filth and the Fury, which I thought was terrific.) But hey man, if that’s how you feel, we probably wouldn’t have made it to the prom together anyway. Plus dude, I think this is as important and useful as a photo, and not much different anyway, and perhaps less likely to be faked too. Although, yeah, I hear ya, this could at least be plagiarized and collaged, and yeah, ok, you’re right, at most I suppose maybe this could actually be fully computer generated. A la HAL. Fine then, go ahead, ’dis’ it as masturbatorially narcissistic and self-indulgent. Hello!, the pix aren’t? Not to mention, I think it’s a total scandal in the making that people do not normally post such important things on these sites. Interestingly enough, the sites themselves seem to be fully capable of handling it and maybe even built for it. As far as I can tell, nothing explodes when I hit submit. And users are as free to ignore this as they are able not only to ignore the so-often unreliable pix on these sites but also whatever’s constantly transpiring on, say, television. On that note, I am astonished that you can still evidently minimize usage of this dubious conglomeration of websites and make a prototypically hubristic -- if also utterly sensible, apparently warranted, and completely sane/sober/rational -- Wiseguy attempt to evade The System via plain old fashioned eeemale. (Though I guess there’s1 or many, many simple or complicated, and more or less persuasive, reasons for that I am here simply missing. “I’m sorry Dave, I can’t do that.”) Go nuts if you want, using gregg underscore bee elll aaa eee tee zee at hot male calm. Anyway, good luck to you. It’s just your 19th nervous breakdown. Ciao.
Age: 35 |
seeks gay dating in
Downtown,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
20.
United States My name is Dave.
I`m gay, single (obviously), over 40, a Leo, of Siciliano descent, and...for the past twenty years, I`ve been living (quite healthily, I must add) with HIV/AIDS. I was raised in nature by a pack of wolves. Okay, maybe not, but my mother and sisters were all rather hairy. And they snarled all the time. And ate all the food. Okay again, maybe not, but wouldn`t that have been fun?
I`m a writer, a poet, a graphic designer, a dreamer. Oh, and if you couldn`t tell, humor is very important to me (it keeps my virus distracted and laughing). And, quite possibly, a new face in male modeling. No porn or nudies, so you`ll just have to dream on, guys.
Oh, and because I`ve been rejected by HIV- boys so many times because of my HIV status, I have chosen to reject men who do not carry this virus in them. I know I`d be there if they got ill; can`t be as certain that a neg guy would stay at my side if I became sick. My last relationship, thirteen years, ended because I didn`t die after5 years like I was told. He was neg, but refused protection, so I`m glad he`s out of my life. That dip in the stock prices for Rolaids and Tums4 years ago? That was from me no longer needing `em.
So...if you love camping, do not smoke, rarely or never drink, are HIV+ (or poz, however you like to refer to it), are somewhat attractive, and would bring my flowers (and not averse to getting them from me), love to cuddle, love films, love camping (I know I already listed this, but it`s too important to me to not say it again), then contact me.
If you don`t, and I like what I see about you, I *will* contact you... :-)
Age: 42 |
seeks gay dating in
Nw,
Austin,
Texas (TX)
USA
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