1.
sexual encounters, friendship, or more with rugged men. I want to see the man and his land...
Sexua sexual encounters, friendship, or more with rugged men. I want to see the man and his land...
Sexually, I am into men 45 , whom have facial hair, big and hairy forearms/hands, trucks, and generally, men who have built there life and who have full-filled their goals.
I get along with most people, any age, any race.
Age: 31 |
seeks gay dating in
Santa Fe,
New Mexico (NM)
USA
2.
Small Town Country Guy Seeks LTR Here`s a Little on Me:
I am1 of the Nicest Guys you will ever meet... Down to Earth South Texas Country Born and Raised Single / Divorced, Honest,Trustworthy Laid back guy here, Good-looking, 6`2 Stocky Big man 290#`s trying to lose a few... but I am taken AS IS HIV- never even had an STD, I have a wide variety of interests, enjoy being Outdoors, Going to Rodeos (PRCA) not gay1s, Throwing Darts, Tinkering with Cars and Trucks, Nascar, Camping, spending time with my Kids and extended family and friends. I do not Smoke, gave up Dipping a few yrs back, and rarely Drink! But do enjoy a cold Budweiser now and again.
What I am Seeking:
A great guy... who`s seeking to date with the hopes for developing a long term relationship, someone that has some Morals, is Honest. I prefer men who are non-smokers, do not use drugs and or use/abuse alcohol, an occasional drink is fine. I prefer Younger men 18 to under 50, White or Hispanic, Latino, Slim to Average, Stocky Builds) hairy is a huge plus, but not a necessity, Masculinity is, You should have similar interests as my self, I should also point out, I just do not participate in the Gay Community... being gay is only a small portion of who I am, and my life is not defined by that! So hopefully this will interest someone, that is looking for more than the next night in a strangers bed.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Castroville Tx,
San Antonio,
Texas (TX)
USA
3.
IN SEARCH 4 SOULMATE AND GENUINE LOVE, NOT LUST. Hi everybody.....im a professional male nurse,who is musculine, simple, decent,dedicated, VERSATILE, honest,loyal, caring,hairy, broad minded,good hearted, moreover trustworthy and very CUDDLESOME is keenly looking forward for a gay partner , who is genuine, honest,loyal, very caring, broad minded, good hearted, kind hearted and professional and truelly committed for GENUINE love, affection and monogamous long term relationship rather than having sex to settle down my life with .of course sex also plays an important role but need negotiation.... Im a STRAIGHT acting gay who seriously does not like feminine typed gay guyz .it does not meant that im fake since im straight acting but i have to be here.... Please ignore me those who are fake, uneducated and looking forward only for hook ups.... Sorry for that... For me sex comes only after i built up love and relationship with the1 who i love. Im very passionate for love and affection and share it with my soul mate. I value human relationship than any other thing in this world....Those who do not have a pic in their profile please feel free to send it to me at, faru.bedi at [----] [----] com... I need to chat with those who come in contact with me before i fall into any type of relationship. I love to make gay friends around the world and share something with them. Really i dont like to have sex with many but with the1 who i love . I do strongly believe in MONOGAMY... I am very attracted to hairy men who are 35 plus yo. But i welcome all. I love travelling....It does not mean that im perfect but you can perfectly expect what you want from my heart... thank you so much for taking look at my profile...take care...
Age: 26 |
seeks gay dating in
Mangalore,
Mangalore,
KarnatakaINDIA
4.
Searching for my Fella 47 yr old male, 5`6, 155 lb, Canadian gay male with brown hair (more pepper than salt) and brown eyes. I consider myself a down to earth average Joe who has been told is a nice guy who is easy on the eyes, masculine, youthful in appearance, passionate, laid back, fun, attentive, adaptable, having a witty - sometimes off the wall, dark (all in good fun - intension) sense of humor. I have a Gemini personality and am non political. Single ... dating .... and taking things in stride. I am a man who is encouraged by fate .. believing it can be helped along the way. It has taken some time .. but .. I am comfortable in my own skin and would not wish anything more or less in another person. Partially defining comfortable, I mean being a man with understanding of respect, trust, openness, responsibility, amicability, a reverence for life, with heart, love, humility and a sense of humor about it all. Comfortable .. in who you are .. and circumstance. I believe that the past is part of our greater whole and we should not shut the door, nor dwell in it, but move on constructively with the ability to laugh, accept and embrace life`s kindness. Don`t sweat the small stuff.... I am not monetarily wealthy, my wealth consists of doing the best with what I have to offer .... and that presently being .... myself. Recently out of the closet (4 yrs)... and reinventing myself (I like to think I am always under construction) .... Thru trial and error, I have grown to discover some of what I enjoy and what I do not in queerdom. Somewhat eclectic, a cuddler and romantic (I am a touchy feely kind of guy). With both a wholesome personality (Vanilla - low maintenance) and a wild side (I like to go out dancing every now and then to get my ya-ya`s out). Am easy to get along with, being a nurturer by nature ... (fabulous by choice - wink) .. am a masculine soul who is not afraid to show my weaker moments and honor moments shared that are entrusted to me. I like to keep an open mind and an open heart with those I am sensitive to. I am not a cowboy, but am every bit country, country at heart and identify with the values. Physically, some describe me as an otter. I10d to be attracted to other otters and light weight bears. I feel most comfortable in denim and a T and yes ..... cowboy drag when occasion rises. I am not into anything non consensual and have no f*t!sh that I am aware of .... unless my attraction for a dominant, assertive, mature, healthy, ruggedly handsome man with a high sex drive is considered? Learning that life can turn on a dime I appreciate instants, moments and seasons in time, ultimately hoping in meeting the man whose heart and life together are meant to share and whose beings, our gift to each other.
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Rural - N - E - Winnipeg River,
ManitobaCANADA
5.
Im looking for one special man to love forever 18-32yo young, gay male HWP chaser for LTR, long term, permanent. Looking for ’One Special man’ to spend my life with. I am easy going, currently homebound use power wheelchair due to Osteoporosis arthritis, DMtypeII nearopathy etc, etc. I am applying for LapBand Surgery at OSU It may take up to a year to get my medical coverage and a surgery date. Until then I would like to get to know You if you think you are the1 and are interested. It is said that we do not get to choose who we love but I think it is the opposite. We make the choice, and I am ready to look for and know what I want in a partner. True monogamy and fidelity a must. Ability to have open, honest communications especially when issues arise. Looking for a loving and afffectionate partner that is not adverse to touch because I am a very tactile and sensual man. You must be willing to be Versatile/ b0tt0m both. I will explain ’why’ later.
I do not drive currently. Waiting for SSDI decision. Hope to drive and travel after that. I am thinking about moving back to Southern California in a year,2 or3. As I am getting on in years, and even though I am a Polar Bear Physically, I cannot take the cold and the humidity. You MUST be very employable and bring home enough bacon to support yourself and your needs. My income is nil. For the first2 years of my disability my spend down medically will be around $748 per month. That will only leave enough for my section 8 govt subsidy apartment and possibly food. I will have to rough it for the2 years because that is the way the system works. There is just no squeezing the ’tits of the system’ any other way.
Dont be shy, I view my life as being in a ’holding pattern’ with some very life altering changes to take place win the next2,3 years. Other than that situation, I do not have riches or wealth. What I have to give is lots of love, affection, building a strong and spiritual bond, a nurturing relationship and good times ahead.
Age: 55 |
seeks gay dating in
Newark Heath Licking County,
Newark Heath ,
Ohio (OH)
USA
6.
Seeking A Buddy For Friends Or More I am 51 5’ 11.5 36 w. 195 lbs Brown Eyes Brown Buzz Cut S/P Moustach hvng Well Enough.
Also love the natural feeling when wearing cowboy gear or leather.
I have to say i am getting a little tried of writing to people to only not hear back from them even when i find them dam HOT & SEXY.
I AM LOOKING FOR A GUY THAT HAS SOMEWHAT THE SAME BUILT AS ME HE CAN BE A COWBOY , WHITE COLLAR, BLUE COLLAR, FIREman, POLICE OFFICER, OR A TEACHER OR WHAT EVER HE IS.
Also love to wear a c0ck Ring & Ball Weights at times & when you wear a ring makes you last much longer.
I am looking for someone to build a friendship maybe more between the ages of 40 - 55 Facial hair is a big Turn On, PLEASE Don’t Be To Large.
Mainly looking for a1 on1 relationship with1 who cares alot very much tried of being alone.
If you care to write me direct please do so at addy
[email]
I have to be honest with this web site to many guys just like to look at photo’s and nothing more.
If you expect a respond from me you must include a photo if no photo keep looking not INTO GAMES.
Age: 51 |
seeks gay dating in
Vineland,
All,
New Jersey (NJ)
USA
7.
shy at first I’m a Cuban/German mix, born raised and educated in California. I’m straight acting, looking and sounding. I’m single and looking to meet new people for friendship but, hope to find someone for a long term relationship...that’s my goal...long term meaning forever. I’m attracted to older men with a few extra pounds who have facial hair and smoke cigarettes (I have a little bit of of f*t!sh ..Nothing gets me going like a smoking cowboy/daddy!). That said, I’m more concerned with the inside than the outside.
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Pacific Palisades,
Los Angeles,
California (CA)
USA
8.
Genuine man seeks same I have been living in Florida for the last2 and half years, managing2 locations in Downtown Disney. In the last year I have made a lot of personal changes I quit smoking in March of 07 been1 year no smoking, started going to the gym in July of 07 have lost 40 lbs to date (3-31-08) and work out with a trainer 3 days a week, still want to improve more. So now I am looking for that1 true man not looking for hook ups, I am masculine, HIV negative as of 1/08 (you should be as well) usually in jeans and cowboy boots do clean up nicely though, myself am sincere, true romantic, love candle light dinners, I love long slow kisses, kissing is very important if you can’t kiss or don’t like to kiss it won’t work, I love cold evenings on the couch snuggled up tightly, snowy weekends in Tahoe with friends and that special man, believe in total monogamy do not believe in the open relationship concept. I prefer quite evenings at home cooking dinner together or entertaining for friends, love going to Seattle, Las Vegas, Lake Tahoe and trips along the coast. Looking for a man who is masculine, non-smoker, love a man in cowboy boots and jeans, especially cowboys, prefer a man with dark hair (not set in stone) some body hair and facial hair, shorter than me, must like kissing and cuddling, believes in romance, likes quite evenings at home just the2 of us, love celebrating Christmas and all the magical feelings that go with it. Well if you have read this far drop a line and we can see where it goes...
Age: 44 |
seeks gay dating in
Orlando,
Orlando,
Florida (FL)
USA
9.
Romantic Professional Gay Male I am a single, Gay White Male looking for the same for a long term committed, monogamous relationship, ultimately leading to marriage. I am 5-10, 160#, Brown/blue, gotee/beard, 45 yo, in shape, hairy chest, very well hvng I am a counselor/biofeedback therapist. I like scuba diving, music-piano, choir, remodeling, working out, church, travel, nieces/nehpew, and am open to devloping new interests. I am looking for a long term relationship with a well rounded Christian (protestant) man, health consioucs, nonsmoker, drug free, hiv-, non alcohol abuser, intelligent, emotionally stable, authentic, and a nice person. I am a native Texas with southern values, nammers, and charm. I am wanting to build a life of mutual love, trust, care, respect, & emotional support. I am fairly conservative, and very passionate, My quote: Before Mr. Right comes along...we have to be Mr. Right first.
Age: 45 |
seeks gay dating in
Dallas,
Dallas,
Texas (TX)
USA
10.
Passionate person seeking someone nice Mixed race black guy here of mixed background, caramel complexion. I'm 32yo, 5'6 165lbs(not a gym bunny, but not sloppy at all), semi hairy, 7 cut, DD free and HIV neg. Very passionate versatile and loves [email] mainly and only. I'm laid back, ambitious, and educated professional in the arts. I am a smoker, but no drugs. I only practice safer sex if it comes to it, no [email] without condom(ever)! What I'm seeking is a to get to know a man (cub) who wants to have a friend that borders a relationship. Someone looking for something very regular and monogamous, but without the label of dating/boyfriends/lovers/ltr, but we are dedicated to1 another for something mutually beneficial(spiritual, sensual, sexual, stable). I hate games and tired of all the crap! I would like to meet someone with similar interests, or just curiosity in the world as a whole, not just localized events. The type of guy I like, looks like an Average Joe, but has a great sense of humor, ,educated, respectful, fairly well traveled, and sense of responsibility. Be comfortable in your own skin in various environments...gay or straight. Someone on the short side, no taller than 5'11...yes we all have our preferences. Weight is not an issue as long as you keep your self together and clean, but I'm not into guys to heavy, unless you are fairly solid...ie a belly is sexy as long as it is not too squishy. Smoker is A . I'm primarily attracted to dark types, ie latin/spanish, arab/persian, southeast asian, eastern europeans. Must be DD Free and Neg. If you are interested, please let me know, let's see where it goes. I will respond back in kind if interested. Thanks for reading...
Age: 32 |
seeks gay dating in
New York City,
New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
11.
Blond-blue-hairy-Toronto b0tt0m man Toronto area man Looking to contact great men. Love real guys, no BS, hairy a but not a requirement, a frequent traveller, love to meet during my journeys [email]
Also looking to rent a room along a street car or subway line1 or 2 nights a week because of my work schedule..
I cannot tell if you voted for me alas, thanks to those who did.. but I am not a paid member so I cannot see who you are.
Age: 43 |
seeks gay dating in
Toronto,
OntarioCANADA
12.
Hello!!!! I thought I`d give you a little introduction abut myself. I am 42, 6`1, brn hair, mustache, 49 semi hairy chest, 37 waist, deep blue eyes. I work in the computing Industry. I am a VERY laid back person who enjoys most normal things such as going to the movies, dinner, the theater. I like just hanging out and having fun. I don`t seem to fit into a set mold of a gay person and that seems to upset most gay men. I came out about 6 years ago, and told my family around the same time. I don`t really live what most people would consider the typical gay lifestyle, I do have impeccable taste and I LOVE shopping for clothes for myself or my nieces and nephew, home furnishings, etc. :-). I also made a vow to myself that I would NEVER be ashamed of who or what I am. I`m a good person with a sensitive and caring person by nature, a great/twisted sense of humor, and definitely a high degree of intelligence. I LOVE my family, a few close friends. I consider myself attractive and I take a lot of pride in my appearance and my health. I don`t believe that just because I am gay discounts any of these qualities. As for my spare time...I am an AVID photographer and gourmet cook. I also enjoy going to the theater, playing soccer,10nis and football. I really not a big fan of TV, but if I do watch it, it is ER and Friends just to name 2. I love sitting by the lake or river or ocean and watch the sun-e up and talk all night long. I like long walk in the snow, picnics, holding hands and just talking. I also enjoy cuddling and kissing, and I also-- enjoy camping, hiking and canoeing. I am also, what my friends call, a hopeless romantic. I can`t help it. Music: Seems listening to and buying music is another1 of me hobbies. I think at last count I had 600 or so-pact discs. My music tastes are also not easily pegged since I have a rather eclectic collection myself: Garth Brooks The Hits, Enigma II, Ace of Base, Danny Wright, The Blenders, Queen, Joshua Kadison and many, many, more. Movies: Here is a list of my favorites: 1. History of the World, Part 1, 2. Jeffery, 3. Dead Poets Society, 4. Species, 5. Crimson Tide/Hunt for Red October/Clear & Present Danger, 6. The Star Wars Trilogy, 7. The Lion King, 8. Always, 9. Golden Eye, 10. Interview with a Vampire/Bram Stokers Dracula/Mary Shelly`s Frankenstein ...and of course there are more. I was born in Meadowbrook, PA, in 1964, and have lived on the east coast all my life, but have traveled all over the world. Does that tell you enough about me? -)
Age: 42 |
seeks gay dating in
Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania (PA)
USA
13.
Let`s see what happens! My name is Jonathan (Jay), I am a 27 year old, 6`1"/240lbs (give or take) single guy living in Houston, TX. I am a rock/pop/alternative singer/songwriter working on my "big break" at the moment. My life is kind of in a transitional period at the moment and involves a lot of travel for work purposes and spending a lot of time with my friends and family. I`ve kind of taken myself out of the dating game for a while here because it just seems to really go nowhere and I don`t really have time. Having said that, I am open to dating or the occasional "casual encounter", but it`s not at the top of my list, you`ve really got to be an impressive guy to change my mind on that front.
I`m very passionate about my singing and songwriting and it takes first priority in my life. It has been my life`s dream since I was 6 years old to be a "rock star" and after a long wait and lots of hard work it seems to be slowly, but surely, coming to fruition. I definitely have to say that it has been a frightening, overwhelming, and gratifying thing to actually witness your dreams come true, it`s still not real to me yet, it will probably take some time to sink in I suppose.
I am mostly looking for friends and networking opportunities at the moment, but as I said prior, I am open to dating, but you`ve gotta be an impressive guy. My definition of an "impressive guy" would be someone who has their life together or is getting their life together. This would include a job, a place to live, your own mode of transportation, ambition, goals, and a desire to settle down with someone for the long-term. Self-confidence, determination, emotional security, and sensitivity are all really big turn ons for me in a man. You know what you want and you go after it, aren`t afraid to show your emotions, and you know how to be a gentleman. Physically, I prefer a guy who is my height or taller, the taller the better, more on the cub/bear/musclebear build, dark hair and light eyes make me melt, around my age or older (25-45), usually attracted to white/hispanic/middle eastern guys (no offense, just where my attraction lies). Otherwise, I`m pretty open. If you`ve read this far and want to chat, feel free to hit me up. I will talk to just about anybody, whether it be a friend or possible interest, let`s see what happens!
Peace,
Jonathan (Jay)
Age: 27 |
seeks gay dating in
Heights,
Houston,
Texas (TX)
USA
14.
i am a fun good looking guy i am a good looking guy lookinng to spend some quality time with someone thats looking for a long term relationship i am single have great things to offer to someone thats fun good looking out going and ( not in the closet ) i am an open gay man and enjoy life i like fishing,camping, beaches, road trips to nowhere, museums, antiques, car shows ,pumpkin picking,queit times around the house, fixing things, i love cooking lol i like going out to dinner sometimes, and love to vacation on warm tropical beaches and islands .i am in the process of looking for a new house in florida to buy and maybe stay down there who knows i have enough things going on now my amin focus is to find my self a boyfriend or life partner .i am easy going fun to be with i love to cuddle , sleep in late on the weekends .when ever thats possible ,going for walks ,i dont watch to much television ,i only watch it for the weather there isnt anything on there that peaks my interest these days .rather spend time with a cute guy doing something fun .well that just about wraps things up here on my end i hope to find someone close to what i am looking for ohh i am 5’6 tall long light blond hair 150 lbs in great shape .i have been told i am wicked cute by tons of people. i think it’s funny when they say it to me. because i am just an average guy, or at least i think i am .
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
Plymouth,
All,
Massachusetts (MA)
USA
15.
Gay single moderately hairy man seeking burly/beefy/thick/stocky hairy man for long term relationshi Gay single moderately hairy man seeking burly/beefy/thick/stocky hairy man for long term relationship, friendship
Age: 54 |
seeks gay dating in
Temple,
Waco,
Texas (TX)
USA
16.
Looking for a lifetime of love. Good day gentlemen,
I have been single now for over7 years and hope that1 day that changes.
There are many things that I miss about having a partner to share my life with.
Like, watching my partner trying to grill a steak to perfection just for me... while I am silently bonding on the inside all over again.
Or, fro l!ck!ng in a huge pile of leaves that took hours to rake, and not caring that it will have to be done again.
Or, laying down with my head in his lap while we are watching a film. I wake later to realize that the film is long over and he has been stroking my hair, watching me sleep.
Or, coming up behind my partner and hugging him, kissing the nape of his neck, and whispering how much I love him in his ear.
No doubt, there are more, but... anyway.
A little about me: I claim to be the most romantic and passionate man in the world. I may be wrong, since I have no1 to tell me if it is true or not.
I am not afraid to show emotion, and have been known to shed tears for beautiful Art, for an emotional film, or for astounding performances by a Symphony or Opera company.
On the flip side, I would be the1 sitting beside you, squeezing your knee, during an action thriller!
Or, the1 losing my voice as I presume to know better how to run a play on the football field than those calling the shots.
Please feel free to say hi. And, if so moved to ask questions, please keep the questions at the same level as how well you know me.
In anticipation,
Neal
Age: 50 |
seeks gay dating in
Penn Square Mall,
Oklahoma City,
Oklahoma (OK)
USA
17.
handsome, sexy, quote chill unquote guy Real, arguably sweet, direct, extremely youthful, masculine and down-to-earth person here. Also considered kinda intense, though, in what can be --to some -- a sort of perplexing manner. I gather that this is because it can be taken a kind of ’intensity’ that appears to incorporate a kind of California casualness in a way that makes it hard to recognize as1 or the other or something, and that there are some humans for whom this is ’distressing.’ You’ll see what I mean soon if you feel like it, and have not already. On the more positive end, I have been called by comparative comrades an ’operatically large liver’ and other things to that effect. Point taken, although to be fair I believe certain hoodlums and philistines might say such things, at least in part, simply because there is Ayyetalian involved. I’m professional but intellectual. Curious about all aspects of life, and interested mostly in people. Rugbyish/runner’s build, depending upon how skinny I am at any given time and on how much I’m running. HIV neg. Clooneyish short grey hair. Sometimes I’ll a rock a scruffily semi-hipsterish beard for kicks, since people seem to think it looks good on me. FYI, since I don’t think I have a pix of it, when I have it the facial hair itself is not so much grey as it is reddish brown. I realize that this sounds potentially disturbing, but somehow it seems to work. Into many different things including most all of the arts (except DANCE, come to think of it), especially film and fiction and all sorts of music. Also philosophy, history, politics, good food and drink, learning anything new, continually stimulating and dynamic conversation as often as humanly possible, cities, architecture, blah blah blah--aside from the more raucous, and less ’rarified,’ kinds of hijinks about which we all know plenty. I have a substantial wild side as well as an ultraserious1, and however this relates to either or both, I really love great sex. I need it badly, often, and sort of extra fiercely these days. Been getting many real ragers on the erectile front that just won’t go away, for instance. Love to be driven absolutely wild, and to drive others crazy nuts, so that everything gets all quote unquote phreaky until it just combusts. Like long, varied, multiply orgasmic sessions when the chemistry and the time are right. Nonetheless, I find that quickies can be equally extraordinary! Looking to meet cool, smart, cute, solid/in-shape, masculine and hot-- as to the last I’m working here from the hotly contested assumptions that you know it if you are, and that if you are you know you are -- XYers for dating, friendship, sex, talk, and other categorizable and uncategorizable forms of shitkickin’. Want to be around serious, attentive, kind and thoughtful (but not humorless) dudes who can regularly laugh at themselves and, as often as can be expected, somehow manage to simultaneously help their peeps enjoy it all thing in the process. Guys who are equipped with whatever it might take to play an unusually strong game of connect much more often than not, creating mutually good and sometimes intriguingly surprising feelings on assorted levels of maneuver. If you contact me, I will include my pic with my first reply. (I am currently going through a break-up, so I do not want it on this site right now.) I’m newly single after a very long time, and looking to romp around as much as possible both sexually and otherwise. Oh, btw those2 are not mutually exclusive imho. As for the sex, hotel room out-of-towners, off-duty cops, firemen, business guys, hot ethnics and internationals--italian, irish, middle eastern, israeli, asian, eastern european, south american, you name it (any boro, and suburbs too)--are all very very good, for example. As are actors, sexy geeks, Bohemians, killer 420, quality skiing and their likes. Read: I’m down with considering, or impulsively engaging in, a wide variety of proposed erotic adventures with appealing people, proceeding on a mostly case-by-case and admittedly willy-nilly basis. Older or younger, individuals or groups, ’romantic’ or not, ’anonymous’ or not, from the sleazy to the so-called respectable, etc. etc. I am not generally very interested in people who stomp around being type queens of any sort, including snobbish and solipsistic scene queens. I’m here for the open-minded, sensitive, expressive, intelligent, and socio-sexually talented men and boys who don’t act as if they can know in advance exactly what they want, or precisely who they wish to meet. The1s who are just as much or even more aware of, magnetized by and interested in the mysterious if menacing cracks and crevices that we all do, and probably should, fall through here or there—again, imho—as they are attentive to and energized by the eternal turn-ons of particular categories, and driven to pop by their fraught, overarching logics and calculi. That is, if there’s even a negligible difference. Sooner or later, I imagine that I will meet someone who will make me want to get into another (mostly)1-to-one relationship. I’ve spent much, maybe most, of my adult life since undergrad school in a few of these hardcore things. Avec cohabitation, in all of the cases. For the time being, however -- though I do not mean to suggest that this is some temporary ’sowing of wild oats’ since I have already been on my share of high velocity spins around various blocks -- I intend to milk the whole Aura of Woundedness thing (is it as effective at attracting people as I think it is?) for every different type of trickle that I can, and for every single solitary drop. Re. the ’dating’ and so to speak LTRs, after much reflection I would claim that, in the past, I have been for the most part quasi-admirably generous, loyal, reliable, flexible, forgiving and honest. Or at least that I’ve gotten much better over time in each of those regards and in others. They have all been certifiably passionate relationships1 way or another, that I can say the most surely. (I will concede that at times they may even have been excessively so, partly because everyone seems to be so god damned anti- ’drama’ these days. As if, poof, you can just eliminate tout court the tumultuousness of emotion? And as though, if in fact you can, it’s so desirable--and that it’s such a nice indication about related, rosy, pleasant things?) In any case, I am v. independent. I am presently bewildered about how much confidence I should have that this is gonna change--or when, why, how, and how much. Ditto about the work necessitating so much of my time and energy, partly because it requires the maddening act of writing. I also travel a lot for my job, both in the US and internationally. So do feel free to contact me from anywhere, rather than only from NYC. If something here appeals to you, please do not hesitate to get in touch. And don’t feel you need to be all witty, or think that I expect you to write War and Peace, or anything like that. (Just as redheaded males remain as supremely fascinating as ever, I personally find all the lingering to-do about strong silent types to be as remarkably well grounded in cold, hard FACT as is anything else that would possibly elicit talk of such a realm in the first place.) Just be reasonably for real. I’m a classical Leo on top of being a NNYorker. Plus, I’m not exactly a spring chicken anymore. My BS detector is fairly well-tuned at this point, and my tolerance for it is not high. I’ll leave that at that. Great cooks always a plus! I myself do it well, but have a limited range. And, to be honest, I am finally beginning to accept that--call me ’J.A.P.P.Y’--I just don’t like doing it when you can order something. Good attorneys generally a big minus, though I suppose You could theoretically be1 of rare and hyper-unlikely exceptions that proves my rule on that. Physically, faces matter much, if not most, to me. Like a lot of other guys I know, I often find quote unquote average looking men to be the most attractive, the hottest, and the most visually stunning of them all. Sorry if you are still reading this and it seems to you that I am an insufferable blabbermouth, to say the least. As the Brits might have said back in the days of the Sex Pistols, even I will admit that this has turned into something of a monkey’s tea party. (I recently watched The Filth and the Fury, which I thought was terrific.) But hey man, if that’s how you feel, we probably wouldn’t have made it to the prom together anyway. Plus dude, I think this is as important and useful as a photo, and not much different anyway, and perhaps less likely to be faked too. Although, yeah, I hear ya, this could at least be plagiarized and collaged, and yeah, ok, you’re right, at most I suppose maybe this could actually be fully computer generated. A la HAL. Fine then, go ahead, ’dis’ it as masturbatorially narcissistic and self-indulgent. Hello!, the pix aren’t? Not to mention, I think it’s a total scandal in the making that people do not normally post such important things on these sites. Interestingly enough, the sites themselves seem to be fully capable of handling it and maybe even built for it. As far as I can tell, nothing explodes when I hit submit. And users are as free to ignore this as they are able not only to ignore the so-often unreliable pix on these sites but also whatever’s constantly transpiring on, say, television. On that note, I am astonished that you can still evidently minimize usage of this dubious conglomeration of websites and make a prototypically hubristic -- if also utterly sensible, apparently warranted, and completely sane/sober/rational -- Wiseguy attempt to evade The System via plain old fashioned eeemale. (Though I guess there’s1 or many, many simple or complicated, and more or less persuasive, reasons for that I am here simply missing. “I’m sorry Dave, I can’t do that.”) Go nuts if you want, using gregg underscore bee elll aaa eee tee zee at hot male calm. Anyway, good luck to you. It’s just your 19th nervous breakdown. Ciao.
Age: 35 |
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New York City,
New York (NY)
USA
18.
Living in this crazy messed up world Since this is what most guys want to know off the bat, here are my stats:
6’
225lbs
Moderately hairy
Hazel eyes
TOP only……. though very [email] and very tactile.
Negative HIV status
Here`s what I am looking for in someone: (and Yes I am looking for a future partner!!)
1) Emotionally stable
2) Financially stable
3) Honesty
4) Integrity
5) Out……… I don`t mind if you`re not out at work, but I don`t want to have to go into the closet for family or friendly interaction. Family is everything to me, since they will always be there when you need them. If you haven`t experienced a good family existence, I pity you, and if we were together, my family will treat you as my spouse and include you in all gatherings as if you`ve always been there.
6) Maturity
7) Romantic
8) Self-Controlled
9) Monogamy………. I would like someone who isn`t screwing the world. Yes, we all have our needs, but self-control is a sign of a lifetime partner.
Notice that I did not specify age, looks, weight, etc. Age is not an issue with me. These things are secondary, and it`s all about chemistry. For me, sexual attraction is the dessert (and I LOVE dessert), but the meal (chemistry) is what binds you together and keeps you going. Don`t be offended if I don`t think the chemistry is there.
If we meet, it may be for coffee, dinner, or lunch ……..a romp at your place may happen but it’s a consensual thing on both parties. We all have needs I understand however, there will be no expectations on your part as long as there isn’t1 on mine.
A bit more about me:
I like romantic comedies, horror films and action adventure type films. Don’t watch a lot of TV and would rather be outside doing something. I am a big kid at heart and like to do things like splash in mud puddles, roller coasters, etc.
I am an artist and invest my time in pursuing that as my means of income.
I occasionally like to go out to the bar, I sometimes go to Wrangler sometimes Eagle depending on mood. I don`t go to the bars looking for sex or a partner. Nor do I go to get drunk and party. I have all types of friends some at the bars and if someone is interesting or friendly there or elsewhere, I will include them in my circle. That means lesbians, vanillas, straights, etc.
Oh1 more thing once upon a long time ago I was married, and yes we remain friends today. Don’t be jealous or feel threatened by that relationship. Friends is just that friends. I had a daughter from this marriage and she never calls unless looking for money or wants to have a BMW (bitch, moan, and whine) moment. So be prepared for that Uncle or Step Dad status.
PLEASE UNDERSTAND, THAT IF YOU CONTACT ME AND IF YOU WANT TO KNOW THE SIZE OF THE FAMILY JEWELS ... THEN I WONT EVEN RESPOND TO YOU. YOU OBVIOUSLY DIDN’T UNDERSTAND MY PROFILE AND WE SIMPLY DON’T HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON.
I HAVE manY PICTURES, ALL OF ME. SOME RECENT, SOME FROM ADVENTURES IN THE PAST FEW YEARS. I WOULD BE HAPPY TO SEND THEM UPON REQUEST. I JUST DON’T LIKE FEELING LIKE A PUPPY IN A PET SHOP WHERE PEOPLE COME TO STARE AT YOU AND TAP THE GLASS.
Age: 42 |
seeks gay dating in
Aurora,
Denver,
Colorado (CO)
USA
19.
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Age: 54 |
seeks gay dating in
Newark Heath Licking County,
Newark Heath,
Ohio (OH)
USA
20.
Am loving,caring,passonate,seeking them same... Looking to contact furry men....Love to cuddle with a hairy man. Am looking for a honest,drama free,non game playing man for fun,dating and if the conection is real,a life long partner..
Age: 47 |
seeks gay dating in
New Bedford,
New Bedford,
Massachusetts (MA)
USA
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